My poems may not be the best,
They're not much different than the rest,
So, if now, you start sawing logs,
Perhaps you will want to read other blogs.
But you'll come back, I know you will.
Because this blog is such a thrill.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Five Sisters Poem
5 Sisters
Four brothers that have wide acclaim,
They’re known both far and wide.
Everybody,Anybody,Somebody,& Nobody
Are so well known that they are full of pride.
But they have five sisters,
Just as inept at getting things done.
Perhaps their example is worse,
Than that of anyone.
The first of these is “Woulda”
She’s the best at making excuses
Dwelling in the past is her shame,
Failing to produce, she loses.
The next one is a city girl,
“Shoulda” lives in the town of regret,
She wishes she had,
But she hasn’t started yet!
“Coulda” is another sister,
Who rivals her big brothers,
By wasting opportunities,
As much as all the others.
“Usta” holds her head up high,
While telling of her past,
She acts like there’s no limit,
To how long time will last.
“Ima Gonna” is the last,
She talks of many missions.
But her efforts never start,
She may have good intentions.
If you try hard you just might see,
Yourself in one of these gals.
Better work- do all you can,
Not to become one of their pals.
By David Courington 9/5/2007
Four brothers that have wide acclaim,
They’re known both far and wide.
Everybody,Anybody,Somebody,& Nobody
Are so well known that they are full of pride.
But they have five sisters,
Just as inept at getting things done.
Perhaps their example is worse,
Than that of anyone.
The first of these is “Woulda”
She’s the best at making excuses
Dwelling in the past is her shame,
Failing to produce, she loses.
The next one is a city girl,
“Shoulda” lives in the town of regret,
She wishes she had,
But she hasn’t started yet!
“Coulda” is another sister,
Who rivals her big brothers,
By wasting opportunities,
As much as all the others.
“Usta” holds her head up high,
While telling of her past,
She acts like there’s no limit,
To how long time will last.
“Ima Gonna” is the last,
She talks of many missions.
But her efforts never start,
She may have good intentions.
If you try hard you just might see,
Yourself in one of these gals.
Better work- do all you can,
Not to become one of their pals.
By David Courington 9/5/2007
Friday, September 07, 2007
"What We Allow, We Encourage"
Bulletin Article For 9/9/07
Always on the lookout for short messages that make a point to put on the church sign, I was glad to come across this one, “What we allow, we encourage.” Wow, that deserves our consideration. At the outset, we should note that we do not have control over many things. For example, I cannot control what my neighbors do. But on the other hand, if they are doing something illegal, such as running a meth lab in their house, I am bound to report that as a good citizen. Many neighborhoods could do something about their decline if decent citizens would not sit idly by and “encourage” illegal activity by their silence. I may control more things than I think. In fact, there are many things that I do control.
First is my behavior. When Jesus spoke to those who unfairly judge others, he said in Matthew 7:5, “… First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” What do I allow myself to dol? Paul said in Romans 14:22(KJV), “Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth” Where the KJV uses the word “alloweth”, the NKJV says “approve” We must not condemn ourselves by what we approve of. Each one of us has to decide what we will allow in our own life. There are God-given laws to follow, but many are written in principles that must be applied to our daily life. One might allow himself to frequent places that have many sinful activities going on, arguing, “Well, I am not participating in them.” But how many times are men drawn into sin by their circumstances. We need to be careful what we allow, because it might take root in our own life and grow far beyond our intentions.
Also, we do control what goes on in the church as far as men’s behavior is concerned. Yes, all sin, but repentance and confession is required for forgiveness. Some continue in public sin with the church being silent. Paul asked the church at Corinth a question that we need to ponder, “Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?”(1 Cor. 5:6). They may not have realized it, but their silence was encouraging the sinful behavior to continue. Some things should not be allowed in the church.
But the first thing that I thought of when reading this phrase was parenting. Many parents are not willing to accept responsibility for their children’s actions, saying, “I can’t control what they do.” Of course when children are grown and away from home this is true. But while children are minors and living at home, we are not only morally but legally responsible for what they do. And make no mistake, “What we allow, we encourage.” That is why it is such a mistake for fearful parents to provide birth control to children who have sex out of wedlock. If “Mom’s ok with it,” then it will surely happen. The same is true with other sinful behavior. Instead of talking with our children, teaching them, disciplining them as needed, many parents have “allowed” and encouraged their children to get into trouble by their lack of action.
Consider some similar phrases:
“What we praise, we encourage”- This can be used in both a good and a bad way. We should always praise the good and rebuke the bad. Sometimes it is the other way around.
“What we laugh at, we encourage”- This is especially important in little children. Yes, they are cute, but our laughter can encourage unacceptable behavior. Adults respond to this as well. Heard any dirty jokes lately? Careful what you laugh at.
“What we reward, we encourage”- Have you seen a child pitching a fit and any adult give them a toy to try to get him to stop. Rewarding bad behavior encourages it. Let’s be careful what we encourage. David Courington
Always on the lookout for short messages that make a point to put on the church sign, I was glad to come across this one, “What we allow, we encourage.” Wow, that deserves our consideration. At the outset, we should note that we do not have control over many things. For example, I cannot control what my neighbors do. But on the other hand, if they are doing something illegal, such as running a meth lab in their house, I am bound to report that as a good citizen. Many neighborhoods could do something about their decline if decent citizens would not sit idly by and “encourage” illegal activity by their silence. I may control more things than I think. In fact, there are many things that I do control.
First is my behavior. When Jesus spoke to those who unfairly judge others, he said in Matthew 7:5, “… First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” What do I allow myself to dol? Paul said in Romans 14:22(KJV), “Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth” Where the KJV uses the word “alloweth”, the NKJV says “approve” We must not condemn ourselves by what we approve of. Each one of us has to decide what we will allow in our own life. There are God-given laws to follow, but many are written in principles that must be applied to our daily life. One might allow himself to frequent places that have many sinful activities going on, arguing, “Well, I am not participating in them.” But how many times are men drawn into sin by their circumstances. We need to be careful what we allow, because it might take root in our own life and grow far beyond our intentions.
Also, we do control what goes on in the church as far as men’s behavior is concerned. Yes, all sin, but repentance and confession is required for forgiveness. Some continue in public sin with the church being silent. Paul asked the church at Corinth a question that we need to ponder, “Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?”(1 Cor. 5:6). They may not have realized it, but their silence was encouraging the sinful behavior to continue. Some things should not be allowed in the church.
But the first thing that I thought of when reading this phrase was parenting. Many parents are not willing to accept responsibility for their children’s actions, saying, “I can’t control what they do.” Of course when children are grown and away from home this is true. But while children are minors and living at home, we are not only morally but legally responsible for what they do. And make no mistake, “What we allow, we encourage.” That is why it is such a mistake for fearful parents to provide birth control to children who have sex out of wedlock. If “Mom’s ok with it,” then it will surely happen. The same is true with other sinful behavior. Instead of talking with our children, teaching them, disciplining them as needed, many parents have “allowed” and encouraged their children to get into trouble by their lack of action.
Consider some similar phrases:
“What we praise, we encourage”- This can be used in both a good and a bad way. We should always praise the good and rebuke the bad. Sometimes it is the other way around.
“What we laugh at, we encourage”- This is especially important in little children. Yes, they are cute, but our laughter can encourage unacceptable behavior. Adults respond to this as well. Heard any dirty jokes lately? Careful what you laugh at.
“What we reward, we encourage”- Have you seen a child pitching a fit and any adult give them a toy to try to get him to stop. Rewarding bad behavior encourages it. Let’s be careful what we encourage. David Courington
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Polishing The Pulpit
It was hard for me to believe that it had been this long since I posted something. I used almost every spare minute last week going to Polishing The Pulpit at the BJCC. In case you are unfamiliar, this program was put together Allen Webster of the Jacksonville Church of Christ. He is the one who does such a wonderful work with House To House/Heart To Heart. It started out being mainly for preachers, but has expanded far beyond that with classes for elders, ladies, youth workers, etc. I have attended several different lectureships/seminars that were good but I think it was the best series that I've been to. If you know me, you know that the abstract has little appeal to me- keep it simple and practical. Though there were some of the "best of the best" speakers, it was practical from beginning to end. This was my first time to go, but I hope it won't be the last.
I guess the most memorable speaker to me was Bro. George Bailey. I have heard him preach a few times before, but at age 85 he is remarkable. Oh, if I could just preach one sermon like him, without a bumble or wasted word. Marvelous!
I guess the most memorable speaker to me was Bro. George Bailey. I have heard him preach a few times before, but at age 85 he is remarkable. Oh, if I could just preach one sermon like him, without a bumble or wasted word. Marvelous!
Friday, August 24, 2007
Ability, Responsibility, and Accountability
One of the recent college football scandals caused a trememdous response on a local talk radio show. Many comments were made, but those of a young Marine stood out. His comment was pointed, “One thing I learned as a young Marine was accountability. There is a vast difference between responsibility and accountability. I was accountable to my fellow soldiers, my sergeant, and my country.” Wow! This young man said more in a few sentences than the other callers and hosts had said in hours. Can you imagine what kind of team you would have if every member took this to heart?
We all have ability that is God given. One famous self-promoter describes himself with the phrase, “Talent on loan from God.” You can be the judge of whether he has much or not, but we all have “talent on loan from God,” – i.e. ability. Some have more than others. The parable of the talents shows this with an illustration of three men. One had one talent, another two and still another, five (Matthew 25:15). Each one was given goods “to each according to his own ability.”(vs.15). While some wrongly boast of their ability, we should all be realistic and admit our abilities. Too many are like the one talent man, hiding the talent that he was given (Matthew 25:18). Fear of failure is no good excuse for one not using the ability that God has given. Under the guise of humility, some fail miserably in using their ability.
Each of these men was given a responsibility in keeping with their ability. They were stewards and thus responsible for taking the master’s money and using it to produce what they could. Responsibility always comes with ability. Notice our Lord’s statement in Luke 12:48, “But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.” In the home, the church, and society, we are responsible for doing our part. This was shown pointedly to the early church regarding their responsibility to give of their means, “Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him” (1 Cor. 16:2). The results of this principle put into practice is shown in 2 Cor. 8:15, “As it is written, He that had gathered much had nothing over; and he that had gathered little had no lack.” When all accept their responsibility, the need is always met.
But the part that is often left out in this is accountability. Joseph realized his accountability when he refused to lie with his Masters wife, saying, “…Look, my master does not know what is with me in the house, and he has committed all that he has to my hand. 9There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” He was accountable to his master who had put him in a place of great responsibility. We are accountable to our fellow man for our actions toward him. But above that, we are accountable to the almighty God who made us.
One does not have to admit his ability and can put all of the work on others. He may not take his responsibilities seriously. He can even deny responsibility toward his wife and children, his brethren, and live a carefree life. But being unwilling to be accountable will not prevent us from facing the ultimate and final act of accountability- Paul said, “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:12).
David Courington
We all have ability that is God given. One famous self-promoter describes himself with the phrase, “Talent on loan from God.” You can be the judge of whether he has much or not, but we all have “talent on loan from God,” – i.e. ability. Some have more than others. The parable of the talents shows this with an illustration of three men. One had one talent, another two and still another, five (Matthew 25:15). Each one was given goods “to each according to his own ability.”(vs.15). While some wrongly boast of their ability, we should all be realistic and admit our abilities. Too many are like the one talent man, hiding the talent that he was given (Matthew 25:18). Fear of failure is no good excuse for one not using the ability that God has given. Under the guise of humility, some fail miserably in using their ability.
Each of these men was given a responsibility in keeping with their ability. They were stewards and thus responsible for taking the master’s money and using it to produce what they could. Responsibility always comes with ability. Notice our Lord’s statement in Luke 12:48, “But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.” In the home, the church, and society, we are responsible for doing our part. This was shown pointedly to the early church regarding their responsibility to give of their means, “Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him” (1 Cor. 16:2). The results of this principle put into practice is shown in 2 Cor. 8:15, “As it is written, He that had gathered much had nothing over; and he that had gathered little had no lack.” When all accept their responsibility, the need is always met.
But the part that is often left out in this is accountability. Joseph realized his accountability when he refused to lie with his Masters wife, saying, “…Look, my master does not know what is with me in the house, and he has committed all that he has to my hand. 9There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” He was accountable to his master who had put him in a place of great responsibility. We are accountable to our fellow man for our actions toward him. But above that, we are accountable to the almighty God who made us.
One does not have to admit his ability and can put all of the work on others. He may not take his responsibilities seriously. He can even deny responsibility toward his wife and children, his brethren, and live a carefree life. But being unwilling to be accountable will not prevent us from facing the ultimate and final act of accountability- Paul said, “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:12).
David Courington
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Simeon Castille- Good Christian?
Why me? That seemed to sum up Simeon Castille's sentiments regarding his early morning arrest for disorderly conduct. According to an article on Al.com yesterday detailing what was in the police report, Castille was loudly cursing some people in an SUV, had traffic backed up with a crowd of about 200 looking on, and alcohol was involved. Yes, that's why you were arrested.
Ho-hum- Just what college kids do. Well, maybe, but not what "good Christian"s do(that is what his supportive teammate, John Parker Wilson called him while defending him.) Hmm- seems like I have heard of Mr. Wilson being arrested himself for DUI or something. No, I am not suggesting that Mr. Castille has yet reached the level of Michael Vick(as far as I know there were no dogs involved). But his behavior was anything but "good Christian" behavior. Paul said, "Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."(Galatians 5:19-21).
Your character is not what your drinking buddies say about you. It is what your actions prove you to be. And make no mistake about it, character does count, at least in God's eyes.
Ho-hum- Just what college kids do. Well, maybe, but not what "good Christian"s do(that is what his supportive teammate, John Parker Wilson called him while defending him.) Hmm- seems like I have heard of Mr. Wilson being arrested himself for DUI or something. No, I am not suggesting that Mr. Castille has yet reached the level of Michael Vick(as far as I know there were no dogs involved). But his behavior was anything but "good Christian" behavior. Paul said, "Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."(Galatians 5:19-21).
Your character is not what your drinking buddies say about you. It is what your actions prove you to be. And make no mistake about it, character does count, at least in God's eyes.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
100 Things- No. 26-35
26. I love cold weather. 9 straight days over 100 has made me realize this.
27. Susan and I have 9 acres of land at our house, but only use a very small portion. One day I hope to clear some and build a large pond.
28. I got my name in the "Soup Pot" in first grade for talking. Imagine that.
29. I am in my 30th year at Sylvan Springs(Maytown). What great folks to put up with me this long.
30. I'ver been thinking a lot about that new grandbaby(Lila if the ultrasound prediction was accurate.) She is due in October
31. My all-time favorite Bible teacher was Franklin Camp. I miss him.
32. My favorite instrumental music is bluegrass.
34. My favorite verse of scripture is 1 Cor. 10:13.
35. I can't stand raw cucumbers but I really like fried pickles.
27. Susan and I have 9 acres of land at our house, but only use a very small portion. One day I hope to clear some and build a large pond.
28. I got my name in the "Soup Pot" in first grade for talking. Imagine that.
29. I am in my 30th year at Sylvan Springs(Maytown). What great folks to put up with me this long.
30. I'ver been thinking a lot about that new grandbaby(Lila if the ultrasound prediction was accurate.) She is due in October
31. My all-time favorite Bible teacher was Franklin Camp. I miss him.
32. My favorite instrumental music is bluegrass.
34. My favorite verse of scripture is 1 Cor. 10:13.
35. I can't stand raw cucumbers but I really like fried pickles.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
CareTaker To CareGiver
You stand at bat ready to hit the fast balls, and life throws you a curve. That is life. I have anticipated many things that would happen to me in life- I knew when very young I wanted to get married, I wanted to be a father, and I knew the kids would leave home and I wanted to have grandkids. Though you prepare for these things, you get a few curves along the way. But I wonder if anyone prepares for the time when they go from "careTaker" to "careGiver". Being a "Caretaker" is when you take the care that you parents give you. My parents were marvelous at this. My Mom(Betty) was the greatest. I never lacked anything in the way of having an attentive mother. From simple care(food, clothing, shelter) to the deep love only a mother can show(always knowing she cared for me and loved me and she was and is my number one fan. Dad(Wayne) was a wonderful provider. The short framed steelworker with the green fireproof suit(They called him "Stump" at U.S. Steel where he was a "scarfer") was larger in my mind that in real life. Yes, he provided a good living for the family and when Mom was sick, we were never neglected. Both Mom and Dad were the finest of Christians. Dad was an elder in the church at Parrish and truly was of good report of those without(1 Tim 3:7)and within. I started life with a great reputation(undeserved) because of them. People today often tell me how good they have been to them, and I know it is true. They stuck with me through the teens, paid for my college and helped Susan and I in the early married years. I'll always remember how close our budget was that first couple of years of marriage and Mom and Dad(without being asked) paying off the loan we had taken out for our furniture. Boy was that a help. Yes, they were the care givers, above and beyond the call of duty.
Now I am trying to do a good job of what the Bible commands, repaying my parents(1 Tim. 5:4). This job of being a "careGiver"in the traditional sense of the term is not one I was prepared for. Dad now has late stage Alzheimer's(He was diagnosed nearly 8 years ago) and is in Cherry Hill Healthcare. He is actually doing quit well and better than I thought he could be 9 months ago when he was moved there. Mom is spending most of her time with us and she is doing quite well for her(She has suffered from severe depression off and on since I was very young.) She is getting a bit feeble. Today at lunch I was parking the car, having let her and Susan out near the door. Susan had already gone in and a man was setting with Mom on a bench outside trying to help her. She had fallen over the parking lot bumpers(they always stick out). Thankfully nothing was broken and she wasn't hurt badly. She did have a bruised knee, a cut on the other knee that was bleeding and another cut on her elbow. Long ago I started carrying a bandaid in my "George Costanza" billfold. I have given out so many bandaids! Today I luckily had 2 "Superman" bandaids- yes, Mom was always one of my super heroes. After cutting the hole in Mom's hose slightly larger so the bandaid could go on her knee, I found that it was just right for the small wound. She was able to go in and eat and is fine so far as I can tell.
Yes, I am a caregiver. In the course of the last few years, I have not only prepared medicine, put on bandaids, given baths to Dad, made no telling how many trips to doctors, etc. I know I haven't done nearly as much as some have to, but I won't tell you that the journey from "Caretaker" to "Care Giver" has been easy. Furthermore, I have no idea what is ahead. I know I still have a lot to learn, but I do have a few bits of advice that might help you other "caregivers" out there.
1. God will not put on you more than you can bear. There have been a times when I was very frustrated because I did not know how to proceed, but every time I have thought I was in a corner, with no way out, God has provided a way. (God Provides)
2. Having a good attitude yourself always helps. I have had to give myself many attitude adjustments along the way, and I am sure I will have to again, but the more you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself, lash out at others for your troubles, and whine, the worse you feel and the less you can accomplish.
3. Appreciate the little things that are good in your situation. For example, 10 months ago Dad and Mom both fell. Mother recovered quickly but Dad was much worse that he had been for several months. He was overmedicated and now, as I said earlier, he is better. When we have walked in the door at the nursing home for the last month or so, he has had the biggest smile. No, he can't call anyone's name anymore, and often can hardly make a sentence(Addi broke our heart one day by saying, "You know Papa usted to know my name," but he can still smile. I have been told that one of the hardest things for families to take is that many Alzheimer's patients lose the ability to smile. Dad may too, but I am glad he has it now.
4. Take some time away from the situation occasionally. A recent vacation was so refreshing and sometimes a night out with Susan alone is the best of medicine.
5. Take time to be thankful everyday that you don't have to face life's curves alone. If not for a wonderful wife and above all, a marvelous God who is so good, none of us could make it. (I love to hear Levi sing "God is so Good.")
6. Don't be afraid to cry. Like most men, I try to do all of that in private, but sometimes it is a great release.
7. Don't forget to pray. God understands when no one else does.
8. Think occasionally about what your parents did for you. There is no way that I could every fully repay them for the care they gave me. I will always be in debt and if by some chance, I live long enough to repay them- I will still owe God so much for every day, every breath, that he has given me.
9. Seek expert advice from doctors, financial experts, social workers, and especially from those who have already travelled the road you are taking.
I will try to write some more later on this. Actually, I have thought of it several times, but this is the first time I have been able to bring myself to do it. May God bless all of those who are in transition from "Caretaker" To "Caregiver". DC
Now I am trying to do a good job of what the Bible commands, repaying my parents(1 Tim. 5:4). This job of being a "careGiver"in the traditional sense of the term is not one I was prepared for. Dad now has late stage Alzheimer's(He was diagnosed nearly 8 years ago) and is in Cherry Hill Healthcare. He is actually doing quit well and better than I thought he could be 9 months ago when he was moved there. Mom is spending most of her time with us and she is doing quite well for her(She has suffered from severe depression off and on since I was very young.) She is getting a bit feeble. Today at lunch I was parking the car, having let her and Susan out near the door. Susan had already gone in and a man was setting with Mom on a bench outside trying to help her. She had fallen over the parking lot bumpers(they always stick out). Thankfully nothing was broken and she wasn't hurt badly. She did have a bruised knee, a cut on the other knee that was bleeding and another cut on her elbow. Long ago I started carrying a bandaid in my "George Costanza" billfold. I have given out so many bandaids! Today I luckily had 2 "Superman" bandaids- yes, Mom was always one of my super heroes. After cutting the hole in Mom's hose slightly larger so the bandaid could go on her knee, I found that it was just right for the small wound. She was able to go in and eat and is fine so far as I can tell.
Yes, I am a caregiver. In the course of the last few years, I have not only prepared medicine, put on bandaids, given baths to Dad, made no telling how many trips to doctors, etc. I know I haven't done nearly as much as some have to, but I won't tell you that the journey from "Caretaker" to "Care Giver" has been easy. Furthermore, I have no idea what is ahead. I know I still have a lot to learn, but I do have a few bits of advice that might help you other "caregivers" out there.
1. God will not put on you more than you can bear. There have been a times when I was very frustrated because I did not know how to proceed, but every time I have thought I was in a corner, with no way out, God has provided a way. (God Provides)
2. Having a good attitude yourself always helps. I have had to give myself many attitude adjustments along the way, and I am sure I will have to again, but the more you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself, lash out at others for your troubles, and whine, the worse you feel and the less you can accomplish.
3. Appreciate the little things that are good in your situation. For example, 10 months ago Dad and Mom both fell. Mother recovered quickly but Dad was much worse that he had been for several months. He was overmedicated and now, as I said earlier, he is better. When we have walked in the door at the nursing home for the last month or so, he has had the biggest smile. No, he can't call anyone's name anymore, and often can hardly make a sentence(Addi broke our heart one day by saying, "You know Papa usted to know my name," but he can still smile. I have been told that one of the hardest things for families to take is that many Alzheimer's patients lose the ability to smile. Dad may too, but I am glad he has it now.
4. Take some time away from the situation occasionally. A recent vacation was so refreshing and sometimes a night out with Susan alone is the best of medicine.
5. Take time to be thankful everyday that you don't have to face life's curves alone. If not for a wonderful wife and above all, a marvelous God who is so good, none of us could make it. (I love to hear Levi sing "God is so Good.")
6. Don't be afraid to cry. Like most men, I try to do all of that in private, but sometimes it is a great release.
7. Don't forget to pray. God understands when no one else does.
8. Think occasionally about what your parents did for you. There is no way that I could every fully repay them for the care they gave me. I will always be in debt and if by some chance, I live long enough to repay them- I will still owe God so much for every day, every breath, that he has given me.
9. Seek expert advice from doctors, financial experts, social workers, and especially from those who have already travelled the road you are taking.
I will try to write some more later on this. Actually, I have thought of it several times, but this is the first time I have been able to bring myself to do it. May God bless all of those who are in transition from "Caretaker" To "Caregiver". DC
Saturday, August 11, 2007
100 Things- No. 7-25
7. I like my son in law Paul very much in spite of the fact that Kim found him on the internet and that he likes to criticize my blog.(Now this is 3 of 7 that are about Paul, but he is such a remarkable fellow!)
8. I love being a gospel preacher.
9. I really love the folks at Sylvan Springs- they are really family, not just in word.
10. The Fish Market(Original) is my favorite restaurant.
11. The Fish Market(Gadsden) is my next favorite.(Or maybe Top of the River)
12. I like teaching adults, but my favorite is teaching teens- potential, potential, potential!
13. I especially like it when they get it and you can see it in their eyes.
14. My goal is to finish these 100 things before next year.
15. Indian Creek Youth Camp is a very special place to me- so many good memories and so much to look forward to.
16. This year was my 35th year to go to ICYC. I started in 1972 and missed one summer.
17. My least favorite people are those who point out problems but never solutions, at least not solutions that involve them working.
18. My favorite people are those who say "We need to..." and "I want to start working on it now."
19. I really want to revisit Tobago some day.
20. One of my best experiences as a teen was singing with the Anchors(We need to get together again)
21. Going to ACC-now Faulkner U. was a marvelous experience.
22. I met my wife and best friend for life at Faulkner and I was ga ga over her when we started dating.
23. Still am.
24. Going to Freed Hardeman was equally wonderful. I had some fantastic teachers at both places.
25. Wow. I am glad that I only have 75 more to go.
8. I love being a gospel preacher.
9. I really love the folks at Sylvan Springs- they are really family, not just in word.
10. The Fish Market(Original) is my favorite restaurant.
11. The Fish Market(Gadsden) is my next favorite.(Or maybe Top of the River)
12. I like teaching adults, but my favorite is teaching teens- potential, potential, potential!
13. I especially like it when they get it and you can see it in their eyes.
14. My goal is to finish these 100 things before next year.
15. Indian Creek Youth Camp is a very special place to me- so many good memories and so much to look forward to.
16. This year was my 35th year to go to ICYC. I started in 1972 and missed one summer.
17. My least favorite people are those who point out problems but never solutions, at least not solutions that involve them working.
18. My favorite people are those who say "We need to..." and "I want to start working on it now."
19. I really want to revisit Tobago some day.
20. One of my best experiences as a teen was singing with the Anchors(We need to get together again)
21. Going to ACC-now Faulkner U. was a marvelous experience.
22. I met my wife and best friend for life at Faulkner and I was ga ga over her when we started dating.
23. Still am.
24. Going to Freed Hardeman was equally wonderful. I had some fantastic teachers at both places.
25. Wow. I am glad that I only have 75 more to go.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Crazy Bird
Sorry I have no bear tales to tell but it was great to be in mountains on vacation for a week. I think this it first time we have ever stayed for a full 7 days. Ate way too much good food and had lots of fun. We did see lots of deer(2 big bucks) and a few turkey in Cades Cove. We also had a very pretty red bird that pecked on our window each morning(I think to try to eat a couple of dead wasp that were on the window sill.) That crazy bird would almost knock itself silly, time and again, hitting the window. The amazing thing it is that it kept coming back, again and again, though the results were the same.
Have you ever thought about how much like that bird we are. We often fail to learn from our mistakes. I was talking to a lady recently who had been abused by her husband and put out of her house. She was disabled and told me that the reason was that her first husband had shot her 5 times. Apparently, she married the same kind of guy the second time around. I believe that this is one of the reasons that God made the criteria for remarriage so strict(See Matt. 19:1-9). Often the same mistakes are made over and again, with tragedy multiplied, not only in the lives of the parties involved, but especially their children.
The Bible speaks of the woes of drinking intoxicating beverages in Proverbs 23:29-35. In that last verse it paints a true picture of those who are slaves to alcohol saying, "When shall I awake, that I may seek another drink?” No matter how badly one is hurt, he goes after the same old elixir.
It is good that we can repent and find God's forgiveness more than one time. His love is so generous to take us back again and again. But we must be both patient and persistent in ridding our lives of the sins of the past.
By humbly seeking God and sincerely going to His word, we can grow and avoid making the same mistakes over and over again. David said, "Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against thee." (Psa. 119:11)
Remember the red bird.
Have you ever thought about how much like that bird we are. We often fail to learn from our mistakes. I was talking to a lady recently who had been abused by her husband and put out of her house. She was disabled and told me that the reason was that her first husband had shot her 5 times. Apparently, she married the same kind of guy the second time around. I believe that this is one of the reasons that God made the criteria for remarriage so strict(See Matt. 19:1-9). Often the same mistakes are made over and again, with tragedy multiplied, not only in the lives of the parties involved, but especially their children.
The Bible speaks of the woes of drinking intoxicating beverages in Proverbs 23:29-35. In that last verse it paints a true picture of those who are slaves to alcohol saying, "When shall I awake, that I may seek another drink?” No matter how badly one is hurt, he goes after the same old elixir.
It is good that we can repent and find God's forgiveness more than one time. His love is so generous to take us back again and again. But we must be both patient and persistent in ridding our lives of the sins of the past.
By humbly seeking God and sincerely going to His word, we can grow and avoid making the same mistakes over and over again. David said, "Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against thee." (Psa. 119:11)
Remember the red bird.
Friday, July 13, 2007
100 Things
You have to be kidding. Maybe I may complete this in a year or 2, but here are 5.
1. I don't have much patience with people saying a lot, when they only have a little to say(especially preachers).
2. I did enjoy the one on Paul's list about him wetting the bed.
3. I hate teeth problems, especially root canals, and have had more than my share.
4. I really have too much to do this afternoon to even be listing these 5 things.
5. I love all of my family and friends who read this blog and I hope you have a wonderful day.
David
1. I don't have much patience with people saying a lot, when they only have a little to say(especially preachers).
2. I did enjoy the one on Paul's list about him wetting the bed.
3. I hate teeth problems, especially root canals, and have had more than my share.
4. I really have too much to do this afternoon to even be listing these 5 things.
5. I love all of my family and friends who read this blog and I hope you have a wonderful day.
David
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Update and "Please Call Me By Name"
Wow, It is hard to believe it has been nearly 4 weeks since I posted anything here. It has been so long, perhaps there is no one out there to update. Anyway, if you are a preacher you will understand that after camp week was a week with speaking at 2 VBS's, and since then a holiday week, and now a week before vacation where I have 3 extra lessons to prepare before vacation week. Anyway, you preachers out there understand, if you are still out there.
Things are going quite well, actually. I am going to cheat a bit and include a great article that my dear Susan wrote for her blog. It is comforting to know that not only does the God of heaven and earth, the creator of the universe, know us by name- but he knows how many hairs we have on our head.(Mt.10:30).
Please Call Me By Name
In February, when we attended the Freed Hardeman lectures, we attended church on Wednesday night at the Estes congregation. Tom Holland always speaks on Wednesday night, and it is always a treat. When they made their announcements, it was announced that one of the members had just been diagnosed with colon cancer. I could tell it was someone who was a faithful, active member, simply by the way the announcement was made. As we were exiting the building, there was a lady standing in the back. Everyone was crowded around her. She looked to be about 50 years old, and she was crying. I could tell by the conversation that I was hearing that she was the lady in the announcement. Everyone seemed so concerned. One man stated- “We are praying for you.” The lady kindly replied, “Thank you. Please, call me by name when you pray! I don’t need generic prayers right now.” In other words, she did not want to be clumped with all of the other sick- she wanted her name brought before the throne of God. She wanted God to know that people were praying specifically for her. I don’t know the lady, or her outcome, but I do know that she understood that prayer is powerful. Will you help me as we pray for this people- and call them by name?
Melody Ferguson
Chandler Ferguson
Denese Billitz
Phillip Hammock
Chad Vernon
Bayley Maddox
Teale Yielding and Baby
Betty Garrison
Wayne Courington
Virginia Barnes
Eva Gaither
Would you like to add others to this list?
Things are going quite well, actually. I am going to cheat a bit and include a great article that my dear Susan wrote for her blog. It is comforting to know that not only does the God of heaven and earth, the creator of the universe, know us by name- but he knows how many hairs we have on our head.(Mt.10:30).
Please Call Me By Name
In February, when we attended the Freed Hardeman lectures, we attended church on Wednesday night at the Estes congregation. Tom Holland always speaks on Wednesday night, and it is always a treat. When they made their announcements, it was announced that one of the members had just been diagnosed with colon cancer. I could tell it was someone who was a faithful, active member, simply by the way the announcement was made. As we were exiting the building, there was a lady standing in the back. Everyone was crowded around her. She looked to be about 50 years old, and she was crying. I could tell by the conversation that I was hearing that she was the lady in the announcement. Everyone seemed so concerned. One man stated- “We are praying for you.” The lady kindly replied, “Thank you. Please, call me by name when you pray! I don’t need generic prayers right now.” In other words, she did not want to be clumped with all of the other sick- she wanted her name brought before the throne of God. She wanted God to know that people were praying specifically for her. I don’t know the lady, or her outcome, but I do know that she understood that prayer is powerful. Will you help me as we pray for this people- and call them by name?
Melody Ferguson
Chandler Ferguson
Denese Billitz
Phillip Hammock
Chad Vernon
Bayley Maddox
Teale Yielding and Baby
Betty Garrison
Wayne Courington
Virginia Barnes
Eva Gaither
Would you like to add others to this list?
Monday, June 18, 2007
Hi From ICYC
I didn't think that I would have time to write a blog note from camp, but here I am on Monday with a great staff and a good bunch of kids writing from good old Indian Creek Youth Camp. We have a group of 110 this week, which is a great size, though we would always love to have one more. No, the green ghost usually doesn't come anymore, but camp has lots of new traditions and it is great fun each year. New friends, old acquaintances, and a great time to recharge your spiritual batteries. There is not much news to tell yet, but I am sure there will be some blogworthy things that I will try to write about later. Happy camping!
Friday, June 15, 2007
On Vacation
Susan had a conference in Destin this week and I went along for a short vacation. It was great- weather, food, accomodations, etc. I went deep sea fishing on Monday and had great fun. Caught bunches of fish, but unlike most others on the boat, most of mine were small and had to be thrown back. Snapper have a 16 inch limit and I caught a bunch about 14 inches. Well, anyway. Next week is camp week at Indian Creek and I know it will be great. I have been working on lessons today. Paul(Kelsey) put together our class book and it looks like a great study on Example. While on that subject, maybe you would like to read my bulletin article for this week. Here it is-
When In Rome
David Courington
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” That may be good advice when it comes adapting to many customs of a foreign land. One hardly wants to drive on the right side of the road when everyone else is driving on the left.
But when it comes to our having Christ-like behavior, we need to be cautious. The Bible warns us that Christians and the world do not have much in common when it comes to morality. Paul said, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,”(2 Cor 6:14-17). Paul also warned of allowing evil companions to corrupt us, saying, “Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."(1 Cor 15:33) (NKJV).
The world that we live in has its way of doing things. Some people do not know what it is like not to drink alcoholic beverages. They have learned that way of life from their youth at home. If you speak of drunkenness as being sinful (See Gal 5:19-21), they will likely, first, look at you funny, and then either laugh at you or ridicule you. It is not their way to leave alcohol alone. That’s the way it is in “Rome!”
But you are a child of light, not darkness. Paul warned the Thessalonians, “Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.”(1 Thess 5:5). When the “Romans” drink or curse or cheat in their worldly, customary way, you and I must be reminded that we are not “Romans”.
When you dress, you should dress as a Christian, not a “Roman.” Last Sunday night in Destin while we were waiting for church to start a family came in and sat down in front of us with 4 teenage girls. They were dressed properly and of course my thought was, “Here are some folks who have their priorities right. Even though they are in a place where hardly anyone seems to think about God, they are remembering Him by coming to church on Sunday night.” Then the girls started to look at pictures on their digital camera(again before the service started). Their “itsy bitsy, teensy, weensy bikinis” looked like anything but the dress of modesty, shamefacedness, and sobriety, with which Christians are to cover themselves. (See 1 Tim. 2:9-10). No, I doubt that anyone on the beach would think it was anything out of the ordinary, but remember, what is ordinary for the world, is not always what is right for the child of God. We are light, not darkness.
Next time you go to “Rome”, will you do as the “Romans” or as the Christians?
When In Rome
David Courington
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” That may be good advice when it comes adapting to many customs of a foreign land. One hardly wants to drive on the right side of the road when everyone else is driving on the left.
But when it comes to our having Christ-like behavior, we need to be cautious. The Bible warns us that Christians and the world do not have much in common when it comes to morality. Paul said, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,”(2 Cor 6:14-17). Paul also warned of allowing evil companions to corrupt us, saying, “Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."(1 Cor 15:33) (NKJV).
The world that we live in has its way of doing things. Some people do not know what it is like not to drink alcoholic beverages. They have learned that way of life from their youth at home. If you speak of drunkenness as being sinful (See Gal 5:19-21), they will likely, first, look at you funny, and then either laugh at you or ridicule you. It is not their way to leave alcohol alone. That’s the way it is in “Rome!”
But you are a child of light, not darkness. Paul warned the Thessalonians, “Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.”(1 Thess 5:5). When the “Romans” drink or curse or cheat in their worldly, customary way, you and I must be reminded that we are not “Romans”.
When you dress, you should dress as a Christian, not a “Roman.” Last Sunday night in Destin while we were waiting for church to start a family came in and sat down in front of us with 4 teenage girls. They were dressed properly and of course my thought was, “Here are some folks who have their priorities right. Even though they are in a place where hardly anyone seems to think about God, they are remembering Him by coming to church on Sunday night.” Then the girls started to look at pictures on their digital camera(again before the service started). Their “itsy bitsy, teensy, weensy bikinis” looked like anything but the dress of modesty, shamefacedness, and sobriety, with which Christians are to cover themselves. (See 1 Tim. 2:9-10). No, I doubt that anyone on the beach would think it was anything out of the ordinary, but remember, what is ordinary for the world, is not always what is right for the child of God. We are light, not darkness.
Next time you go to “Rome”, will you do as the “Romans” or as the Christians?
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Ned The Neighbor
For a picture of Ned aka Josh, check out Katie's blog at
http://www.katiebug1023.blogspot.com
http://www.katiebug1023.blogspot.com
VBS Week/Camp Week- Retirement?
Sorry I have been so long posting, but it is crunch time for VBS and Camp. This week is our VBS at Sylvan Springs. We had a good start of 125 Sunday night and 105 on Monday. Do you start your VBS on Monday night? Sunday works better for us. It is usually one of the largest nights in attendance. We are studying neighbors and a highlight has been Ned the Neighbor visiting each night. He is quite an interesting neighbor with his unusual looks and Bible insights. I am enjoying teaching the teens this time. They are a great group and very good to participate in class. In a few years I am going to retire from pulpit preaching and become a youth minister where I can really have some fun.
June 17 starts my camp week at Indian Creek Youth camp so today I am printing schedules, letters to parents, certificates. A lot of work goes into a camp week. This year I have tried to spread some of it out a bit and have some great guys helping me. Daniel C called and is working on our sports schdule. Paul K has worked hard to get our class material, teachers and speakers arranged. Clay C is in charge of night activities. I talked to Becky P. yesterday and she is working on crafts. Susan C. went to a cooks meeting a couple of weeks ago. I know the food will be too good, as we have come to expect. This is just some the things that have to be done. Why do we do it year after year for no pay and some degree of aggravation? Because we love the Lord, the kids, and the camp. My target date for retiring as a camp director is 2025. Lord willing, that is the year I will turn 70 and I hope to be just a camper that year. But I could change my mind!
June 17 starts my camp week at Indian Creek Youth camp so today I am printing schedules, letters to parents, certificates. A lot of work goes into a camp week. This year I have tried to spread some of it out a bit and have some great guys helping me. Daniel C called and is working on our sports schdule. Paul K has worked hard to get our class material, teachers and speakers arranged. Clay C is in charge of night activities. I talked to Becky P. yesterday and she is working on crafts. Susan C. went to a cooks meeting a couple of weeks ago. I know the food will be too good, as we have come to expect. This is just some the things that have to be done. Why do we do it year after year for no pay and some degree of aggravation? Because we love the Lord, the kids, and the camp. My target date for retiring as a camp director is 2025. Lord willing, that is the year I will turn 70 and I hope to be just a camper that year. But I could change my mind!
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Preachers and Powerpoint
My wife passed this on to me and I completely agree. What do you think?
"Johnson's Fourth Law of Presentations: PowerPoint doesn't bore people. People bore people"
"Johnson's Fourth Law of Presentations: PowerPoint doesn't bore people. People bore people"
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Love's Top Ten
Love’s Top Ten
Love is the greatest of all of God’s laws.(Mt. 22:36-38)
Love is the crowning touch of the Christian graces.(2 Pet. 1:5-8)
Love is the most permanent of all of God’s commands.(1Cor. 13:13).
Love is the heart of the golden text of the Bible.(John 3:16).
Love is the first sign of one’s being spiritual.(Gal. 5:22).
Love is what we must be grounded in if Christ is to live in us.(Ep. 3:17).
Love is the glue that holds us together and makes us a complete Christian.(Col. 3:14).
Love is the outward sign by which others can tell that we are Christians.(John 13:35).
Love is a key to Christian growth.(Ep. 4:16).
God is love.(1 John 4:16).
by David Courington(5/14/07)
P.S.- To all of my family, friends, and God's children who read this blog, I love you. David
Love is the greatest of all of God’s laws.(Mt. 22:36-38)
Love is the crowning touch of the Christian graces.(2 Pet. 1:5-8)
Love is the most permanent of all of God’s commands.(1Cor. 13:13).
Love is the heart of the golden text of the Bible.(John 3:16).
Love is the first sign of one’s being spiritual.(Gal. 5:22).
Love is what we must be grounded in if Christ is to live in us.(Ep. 3:17).
Love is the glue that holds us together and makes us a complete Christian.(Col. 3:14).
Love is the outward sign by which others can tell that we are Christians.(John 13:35).
Love is a key to Christian growth.(Ep. 4:16).
God is love.(1 John 4:16).
by David Courington(5/14/07)
P.S.- To all of my family, friends, and God's children who read this blog, I love you. David
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Instead Of “Engaging” Our Culture, Have We “Embraced It?
I came across a statement the other day in a book that grabbed my attention. It said, “The early church engaged its culture and transformed it.”(Preaching With Passion, p. 46). How true this is! Paul and his company at Thessalonica were accused, "These who have turned the world upside down have come here too.”(Acts 17:6). They said this because an uproar was created after Paul had reasoned in their synagogue for three weeks and “persuaded” many of the devout Greeks and leading women.(Acts 17:1-3). The early Christians set out to change the world, to persuade men to come to Christ and to leave their false ideas of worship. Paul urged the Corinthians, “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.”(2 Cor 6:14) and said to them, “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord…”(2 Cor 6:17). Yes, they engaged(Webster says, “to enter into conflict or battle.”) the culture of their day.
What a change when we look at the present day church. In many instances, instead of “engaging” our culture, we have “embraced” it. “Cultural correctness” is often seen as more important than “Biblical correctness.” Many flatly reject God’s teaching on unpopular subjects, saying, “We are living in different times.” What Jesus said about divorce (Read Matthew 5:32; 19:1-9) is seldom mentioned for fear of offending someone. The Bible’s teaching about the horrible nature of homosexual offenses and other immorality is not taught (Read Romans 1:26-32). Why? Because it is offensive to so many in our day. Preachers who confront the false doctrines of denominationalism are said to be wasting time that could be better spent on “relevant issues”(i.e. felt needs). We could site many more examples, but many churches and “Christians” have thrown in the towel, being changed far more by the culture, than changing it.
Yes, Jesus taught a gospel of love, and the teaching of the church should always be in love. But in the very context where Paul said we should speak the “truth in love”(Ep. 4:15), he warned against being “tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting.”(Ep. 4:14). God’s children should be loving, but they should be determined to believe, teach and obey the truth- not error, and to teach the gospel to the world that they might repent and be saved. Jesus knew that love and rebuke were not at odds, for John quoted him as saying, “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.” (Rev. 3:18-19). We do not show love by throwing our arms around the sinful culture of our day and leaving sinners untaught. We show love by teaching them the “more excellent way.”(1 Cor. 12:31). David Courington
What a change when we look at the present day church. In many instances, instead of “engaging” our culture, we have “embraced” it. “Cultural correctness” is often seen as more important than “Biblical correctness.” Many flatly reject God’s teaching on unpopular subjects, saying, “We are living in different times.” What Jesus said about divorce (Read Matthew 5:32; 19:1-9) is seldom mentioned for fear of offending someone. The Bible’s teaching about the horrible nature of homosexual offenses and other immorality is not taught (Read Romans 1:26-32). Why? Because it is offensive to so many in our day. Preachers who confront the false doctrines of denominationalism are said to be wasting time that could be better spent on “relevant issues”(i.e. felt needs). We could site many more examples, but many churches and “Christians” have thrown in the towel, being changed far more by the culture, than changing it.
Yes, Jesus taught a gospel of love, and the teaching of the church should always be in love. But in the very context where Paul said we should speak the “truth in love”(Ep. 4:15), he warned against being “tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting.”(Ep. 4:14). God’s children should be loving, but they should be determined to believe, teach and obey the truth- not error, and to teach the gospel to the world that they might repent and be saved. Jesus knew that love and rebuke were not at odds, for John quoted him as saying, “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.” (Rev. 3:18-19). We do not show love by throwing our arms around the sinful culture of our day and leaving sinners untaught. We show love by teaching them the “more excellent way.”(1 Cor. 12:31). David Courington
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