Monday, December 17, 2007
All I Want For Christmas
I have been blessed to have lived a life with very little physical pain, except for tooth pain. There have been at least 6-7 abscessed teeth that required a root canal, and several painful episodes. They nearly always happen on the weekend, usually Friday. Sunday is better, at least if it doesn't quit on its own, I won't have to wait 2 days to see a doctor. It is now 3:20 a.m. on Monday morning and I had to get up because the pain was just unbearable after 2 Ibuprophen a couple of hours ago. It has eased up quite a bit and I am thinking of going to bed, but you may know that such pain can be exacerbated by laying down, if it is another abscess. I am not 100% sure, but it I think it is a tooth that has already been root canaled twice(by a doctor who likes to make do Donald Duck imitations while he works on you(no kidding). That tooth had a cap, then a bridge, and who knows what else, that is hurting. I guess that is about a $3,000 tooth already. At what point does one quit patching and have them pulled and get dentures. I wish my Grandpas were still around to advise me. Papa Studdard seemed to have lots of trouble with his dentures. He was always going to a man's house that lived nearby that he called "Toothmaker" to get a tooth put back in or something. I think he did enjoy his dentures somewhat though because he liked to stick them out a little kids and scare them. I thought that was great fun. Perhaps my Grandpa Courington had the best idea. He had his teeth all pulled and never got dentures. He could eat nearly anything and must have had some of the "Toughest Gums In The South." Well, this too shall pass. Actually I am feeling a good bit better now. Maybe it is my sinuses, as that can mimic tooth pain. No longer am I having thoughts of getting a pair of plyers and trying my own hand at do-it-yourself dentistry. Nor am I thinking of going to one of those 24 hour dentist operations with the foreign doctors who use primitive methods, like that lady I saw late one Friday at Midfield Dental clinic who had a dot on her forehead. I looked up and the first thing you know she is striking matches and burning something and sticking it to my teeth. Boy, all I want for Christmas is some pain free teeth.
Monday, December 10, 2007
On A Personal Note
Hi Bloggers,
Hard to believe it has been so long since I blogged. Mom and Dad have been having multiple health issures for the last couple of months and it has kept me busy. Dad is in the hospital but much improved and Mom had to go to Cherry Hill Healthcare. She seems to be somewhat depressed and having a hard time getting around. The rest of our clan is fine and I hope to be blogging regularly again in the near future.
Hope this finds you and yours doing well. Happy Holidays!
Hard to believe it has been so long since I blogged. Mom and Dad have been having multiple health issures for the last couple of months and it has kept me busy. Dad is in the hospital but much improved and Mom had to go to Cherry Hill Healthcare. She seems to be somewhat depressed and having a hard time getting around. The rest of our clan is fine and I hope to be blogging regularly again in the near future.
Hope this finds you and yours doing well. Happy Holidays!
Friday, October 19, 2007
“The man who won gold but lost God”
“The man who won gold but lost God” The Times, June 27, 2007
On September 25, 2000, Jonathan Edwards of England won a gold medal in the triple jump in the Sydney Olympics. In his kitbag he carried, among other items, a tin of sardines. Not because he loved them so well, or to give him a competitive edge, but to symbolize the miracle of Jesus feeding the 5,000. According to the Times, Edwards faith had been “fundamental to his identity” since his youth. After winning the gold and retiring from his sport, he had a prominent role on the BBC program, “Songs of Praise” and often touted his faith.
But then he began to have doubts. According to the Times, Edwards has gone from a man who refused to play his sport on Sunday because of his strong beliefs, to one who believes “that the Bible is not literal truth, but literal falsehood” and is “to all intents, and purposes, an atheist.”
If you want to look up this story on the Times website, you will find page after page of comments as to “Why?” the change. It is not my intention here to answer that question, but rather use this example as a warning to us.
All men have doubts on occasion. They sometimes come because we have a tragic, life changing event. Job had several of these in a short time span. He handled it well at first, but questions came. Later he had to confess, “I have uttered what I did not understand, Things too wonderful for me, which I did not know.”(Job 42:3). In many instances, our doubts come from lack of knowledge. This may be from failure to know and understand God’s word, or as in Job’s case, our inability to know what God knows and see what He sees.”
Also, doubts can come when we face a change in environment. That seems to have been a factor for Edwards, when he became a media personality and was no longer training long hours and in constant contact with his family. This reminds us of the scripture, “Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.” (1 Cor. 15:33).
Furthermore, doubts can come from one being tempted(See James 1:12-16). It might be easy for some to discard God when they see him as a barrier to the lifestyle they desire. Like Joseph, we need to be strong when these trials come.
Too, doubts may come from questions that we cannot answer. In such cases, we need to diligently explore God’s word seeking the answers. They won’t come from “science, falsely so called”(1 Tim. 6:20-KJV) or the “wisdom of the world.”(1 Cor. 1:20- Study the context.)
If we have doubts, whatever the source, we must be careful to feed our faith and not our doubts. Remember, “The dog we feed, is the one that will lead.” The source of our faith is God’s Word (Romans 10:17). The gospel will strengthen our faith because “… in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith; as it is written, “The just shall live by faith.” (Rom. 1:17). The greatest thing that can increase our faith is a study of the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus from the Gospels. If He lives, and He does, Christianity stands. Otherwise it falls. Let us study, and “Draw close to God” so that He will draw close to us. Also, let us pray to the Lord, “Increase our faith.”(Luke 17:5). David Courington
On September 25, 2000, Jonathan Edwards of England won a gold medal in the triple jump in the Sydney Olympics. In his kitbag he carried, among other items, a tin of sardines. Not because he loved them so well, or to give him a competitive edge, but to symbolize the miracle of Jesus feeding the 5,000. According to the Times, Edwards faith had been “fundamental to his identity” since his youth. After winning the gold and retiring from his sport, he had a prominent role on the BBC program, “Songs of Praise” and often touted his faith.
But then he began to have doubts. According to the Times, Edwards has gone from a man who refused to play his sport on Sunday because of his strong beliefs, to one who believes “that the Bible is not literal truth, but literal falsehood” and is “to all intents, and purposes, an atheist.”
If you want to look up this story on the Times website, you will find page after page of comments as to “Why?” the change. It is not my intention here to answer that question, but rather use this example as a warning to us.
All men have doubts on occasion. They sometimes come because we have a tragic, life changing event. Job had several of these in a short time span. He handled it well at first, but questions came. Later he had to confess, “I have uttered what I did not understand, Things too wonderful for me, which I did not know.”(Job 42:3). In many instances, our doubts come from lack of knowledge. This may be from failure to know and understand God’s word, or as in Job’s case, our inability to know what God knows and see what He sees.”
Also, doubts can come when we face a change in environment. That seems to have been a factor for Edwards, when he became a media personality and was no longer training long hours and in constant contact with his family. This reminds us of the scripture, “Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.” (1 Cor. 15:33).
Furthermore, doubts can come from one being tempted(See James 1:12-16). It might be easy for some to discard God when they see him as a barrier to the lifestyle they desire. Like Joseph, we need to be strong when these trials come.
Too, doubts may come from questions that we cannot answer. In such cases, we need to diligently explore God’s word seeking the answers. They won’t come from “science, falsely so called”(1 Tim. 6:20-KJV) or the “wisdom of the world.”(1 Cor. 1:20- Study the context.)
If we have doubts, whatever the source, we must be careful to feed our faith and not our doubts. Remember, “The dog we feed, is the one that will lead.” The source of our faith is God’s Word (Romans 10:17). The gospel will strengthen our faith because “… in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith; as it is written, “The just shall live by faith.” (Rom. 1:17). The greatest thing that can increase our faith is a study of the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus from the Gospels. If He lives, and He does, Christianity stands. Otherwise it falls. Let us study, and “Draw close to God” so that He will draw close to us. Also, let us pray to the Lord, “Increase our faith.”(Luke 17:5). David Courington
Friday, October 12, 2007
Baby Lila
Now what fit Gramps with a blog wouldn't put up a picture of a new grandchild for the whole world to see. Ain't she puRRRRRRRty! Hey, and that Granna ain't bad either.
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Oct. 11 Update
It is hard to believe it has been a month since I posted. I don't have time to write much now, but I didn't want any of you readers to think I had died. Getting ready for our meeting at Sylvan Springs(October 21-24 with David Powell), 2 weekends of camp board meetings, family things, regular church work, etc. has kept me unusually busy for the fall. And tomorrow, Lord willing, we are supposed to have a new grandbaby. Please pray that Kim and Lila will do well. We had all the kids and grands at the house Tuesday night and it is already quite a crowd, but what fun. The more the merrier. Have a great day.
Monday, September 10, 2007
My Poems
My poems may not be the best,
They're not much different than the rest,
So, if now, you start sawing logs,
Perhaps you will want to read other blogs.
But you'll come back, I know you will.
Because this blog is such a thrill.
They're not much different than the rest,
So, if now, you start sawing logs,
Perhaps you will want to read other blogs.
But you'll come back, I know you will.
Because this blog is such a thrill.
Five Sisters Poem
5 Sisters
Four brothers that have wide acclaim,
They’re known both far and wide.
Everybody,Anybody,Somebody,& Nobody
Are so well known that they are full of pride.
But they have five sisters,
Just as inept at getting things done.
Perhaps their example is worse,
Than that of anyone.
The first of these is “Woulda”
She’s the best at making excuses
Dwelling in the past is her shame,
Failing to produce, she loses.
The next one is a city girl,
“Shoulda” lives in the town of regret,
She wishes she had,
But she hasn’t started yet!
“Coulda” is another sister,
Who rivals her big brothers,
By wasting opportunities,
As much as all the others.
“Usta” holds her head up high,
While telling of her past,
She acts like there’s no limit,
To how long time will last.
“Ima Gonna” is the last,
She talks of many missions.
But her efforts never start,
She may have good intentions.
If you try hard you just might see,
Yourself in one of these gals.
Better work- do all you can,
Not to become one of their pals.
By David Courington 9/5/2007
Four brothers that have wide acclaim,
They’re known both far and wide.
Everybody,Anybody,Somebody,& Nobody
Are so well known that they are full of pride.
But they have five sisters,
Just as inept at getting things done.
Perhaps their example is worse,
Than that of anyone.
The first of these is “Woulda”
She’s the best at making excuses
Dwelling in the past is her shame,
Failing to produce, she loses.
The next one is a city girl,
“Shoulda” lives in the town of regret,
She wishes she had,
But she hasn’t started yet!
“Coulda” is another sister,
Who rivals her big brothers,
By wasting opportunities,
As much as all the others.
“Usta” holds her head up high,
While telling of her past,
She acts like there’s no limit,
To how long time will last.
“Ima Gonna” is the last,
She talks of many missions.
But her efforts never start,
She may have good intentions.
If you try hard you just might see,
Yourself in one of these gals.
Better work- do all you can,
Not to become one of their pals.
By David Courington 9/5/2007
Friday, September 07, 2007
"What We Allow, We Encourage"
Bulletin Article For 9/9/07
Always on the lookout for short messages that make a point to put on the church sign, I was glad to come across this one, “What we allow, we encourage.” Wow, that deserves our consideration. At the outset, we should note that we do not have control over many things. For example, I cannot control what my neighbors do. But on the other hand, if they are doing something illegal, such as running a meth lab in their house, I am bound to report that as a good citizen. Many neighborhoods could do something about their decline if decent citizens would not sit idly by and “encourage” illegal activity by their silence. I may control more things than I think. In fact, there are many things that I do control.
First is my behavior. When Jesus spoke to those who unfairly judge others, he said in Matthew 7:5, “… First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” What do I allow myself to dol? Paul said in Romans 14:22(KJV), “Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth” Where the KJV uses the word “alloweth”, the NKJV says “approve” We must not condemn ourselves by what we approve of. Each one of us has to decide what we will allow in our own life. There are God-given laws to follow, but many are written in principles that must be applied to our daily life. One might allow himself to frequent places that have many sinful activities going on, arguing, “Well, I am not participating in them.” But how many times are men drawn into sin by their circumstances. We need to be careful what we allow, because it might take root in our own life and grow far beyond our intentions.
Also, we do control what goes on in the church as far as men’s behavior is concerned. Yes, all sin, but repentance and confession is required for forgiveness. Some continue in public sin with the church being silent. Paul asked the church at Corinth a question that we need to ponder, “Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?”(1 Cor. 5:6). They may not have realized it, but their silence was encouraging the sinful behavior to continue. Some things should not be allowed in the church.
But the first thing that I thought of when reading this phrase was parenting. Many parents are not willing to accept responsibility for their children’s actions, saying, “I can’t control what they do.” Of course when children are grown and away from home this is true. But while children are minors and living at home, we are not only morally but legally responsible for what they do. And make no mistake, “What we allow, we encourage.” That is why it is such a mistake for fearful parents to provide birth control to children who have sex out of wedlock. If “Mom’s ok with it,” then it will surely happen. The same is true with other sinful behavior. Instead of talking with our children, teaching them, disciplining them as needed, many parents have “allowed” and encouraged their children to get into trouble by their lack of action.
Consider some similar phrases:
“What we praise, we encourage”- This can be used in both a good and a bad way. We should always praise the good and rebuke the bad. Sometimes it is the other way around.
“What we laugh at, we encourage”- This is especially important in little children. Yes, they are cute, but our laughter can encourage unacceptable behavior. Adults respond to this as well. Heard any dirty jokes lately? Careful what you laugh at.
“What we reward, we encourage”- Have you seen a child pitching a fit and any adult give them a toy to try to get him to stop. Rewarding bad behavior encourages it. Let’s be careful what we encourage. David Courington
Always on the lookout for short messages that make a point to put on the church sign, I was glad to come across this one, “What we allow, we encourage.” Wow, that deserves our consideration. At the outset, we should note that we do not have control over many things. For example, I cannot control what my neighbors do. But on the other hand, if they are doing something illegal, such as running a meth lab in their house, I am bound to report that as a good citizen. Many neighborhoods could do something about their decline if decent citizens would not sit idly by and “encourage” illegal activity by their silence. I may control more things than I think. In fact, there are many things that I do control.
First is my behavior. When Jesus spoke to those who unfairly judge others, he said in Matthew 7:5, “… First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” What do I allow myself to dol? Paul said in Romans 14:22(KJV), “Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth” Where the KJV uses the word “alloweth”, the NKJV says “approve” We must not condemn ourselves by what we approve of. Each one of us has to decide what we will allow in our own life. There are God-given laws to follow, but many are written in principles that must be applied to our daily life. One might allow himself to frequent places that have many sinful activities going on, arguing, “Well, I am not participating in them.” But how many times are men drawn into sin by their circumstances. We need to be careful what we allow, because it might take root in our own life and grow far beyond our intentions.
Also, we do control what goes on in the church as far as men’s behavior is concerned. Yes, all sin, but repentance and confession is required for forgiveness. Some continue in public sin with the church being silent. Paul asked the church at Corinth a question that we need to ponder, “Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?”(1 Cor. 5:6). They may not have realized it, but their silence was encouraging the sinful behavior to continue. Some things should not be allowed in the church.
But the first thing that I thought of when reading this phrase was parenting. Many parents are not willing to accept responsibility for their children’s actions, saying, “I can’t control what they do.” Of course when children are grown and away from home this is true. But while children are minors and living at home, we are not only morally but legally responsible for what they do. And make no mistake, “What we allow, we encourage.” That is why it is such a mistake for fearful parents to provide birth control to children who have sex out of wedlock. If “Mom’s ok with it,” then it will surely happen. The same is true with other sinful behavior. Instead of talking with our children, teaching them, disciplining them as needed, many parents have “allowed” and encouraged their children to get into trouble by their lack of action.
Consider some similar phrases:
“What we praise, we encourage”- This can be used in both a good and a bad way. We should always praise the good and rebuke the bad. Sometimes it is the other way around.
“What we laugh at, we encourage”- This is especially important in little children. Yes, they are cute, but our laughter can encourage unacceptable behavior. Adults respond to this as well. Heard any dirty jokes lately? Careful what you laugh at.
“What we reward, we encourage”- Have you seen a child pitching a fit and any adult give them a toy to try to get him to stop. Rewarding bad behavior encourages it. Let’s be careful what we encourage. David Courington
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Polishing The Pulpit
It was hard for me to believe that it had been this long since I posted something. I used almost every spare minute last week going to Polishing The Pulpit at the BJCC. In case you are unfamiliar, this program was put together Allen Webster of the Jacksonville Church of Christ. He is the one who does such a wonderful work with House To House/Heart To Heart. It started out being mainly for preachers, but has expanded far beyond that with classes for elders, ladies, youth workers, etc. I have attended several different lectureships/seminars that were good but I think it was the best series that I've been to. If you know me, you know that the abstract has little appeal to me- keep it simple and practical. Though there were some of the "best of the best" speakers, it was practical from beginning to end. This was my first time to go, but I hope it won't be the last.
I guess the most memorable speaker to me was Bro. George Bailey. I have heard him preach a few times before, but at age 85 he is remarkable. Oh, if I could just preach one sermon like him, without a bumble or wasted word. Marvelous!
I guess the most memorable speaker to me was Bro. George Bailey. I have heard him preach a few times before, but at age 85 he is remarkable. Oh, if I could just preach one sermon like him, without a bumble or wasted word. Marvelous!
Friday, August 24, 2007
Ability, Responsibility, and Accountability
One of the recent college football scandals caused a trememdous response on a local talk radio show. Many comments were made, but those of a young Marine stood out. His comment was pointed, “One thing I learned as a young Marine was accountability. There is a vast difference between responsibility and accountability. I was accountable to my fellow soldiers, my sergeant, and my country.” Wow! This young man said more in a few sentences than the other callers and hosts had said in hours. Can you imagine what kind of team you would have if every member took this to heart?
We all have ability that is God given. One famous self-promoter describes himself with the phrase, “Talent on loan from God.” You can be the judge of whether he has much or not, but we all have “talent on loan from God,” – i.e. ability. Some have more than others. The parable of the talents shows this with an illustration of three men. One had one talent, another two and still another, five (Matthew 25:15). Each one was given goods “to each according to his own ability.”(vs.15). While some wrongly boast of their ability, we should all be realistic and admit our abilities. Too many are like the one talent man, hiding the talent that he was given (Matthew 25:18). Fear of failure is no good excuse for one not using the ability that God has given. Under the guise of humility, some fail miserably in using their ability.
Each of these men was given a responsibility in keeping with their ability. They were stewards and thus responsible for taking the master’s money and using it to produce what they could. Responsibility always comes with ability. Notice our Lord’s statement in Luke 12:48, “But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.” In the home, the church, and society, we are responsible for doing our part. This was shown pointedly to the early church regarding their responsibility to give of their means, “Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him” (1 Cor. 16:2). The results of this principle put into practice is shown in 2 Cor. 8:15, “As it is written, He that had gathered much had nothing over; and he that had gathered little had no lack.” When all accept their responsibility, the need is always met.
But the part that is often left out in this is accountability. Joseph realized his accountability when he refused to lie with his Masters wife, saying, “…Look, my master does not know what is with me in the house, and he has committed all that he has to my hand. 9There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” He was accountable to his master who had put him in a place of great responsibility. We are accountable to our fellow man for our actions toward him. But above that, we are accountable to the almighty God who made us.
One does not have to admit his ability and can put all of the work on others. He may not take his responsibilities seriously. He can even deny responsibility toward his wife and children, his brethren, and live a carefree life. But being unwilling to be accountable will not prevent us from facing the ultimate and final act of accountability- Paul said, “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:12).
David Courington
We all have ability that is God given. One famous self-promoter describes himself with the phrase, “Talent on loan from God.” You can be the judge of whether he has much or not, but we all have “talent on loan from God,” – i.e. ability. Some have more than others. The parable of the talents shows this with an illustration of three men. One had one talent, another two and still another, five (Matthew 25:15). Each one was given goods “to each according to his own ability.”(vs.15). While some wrongly boast of their ability, we should all be realistic and admit our abilities. Too many are like the one talent man, hiding the talent that he was given (Matthew 25:18). Fear of failure is no good excuse for one not using the ability that God has given. Under the guise of humility, some fail miserably in using their ability.
Each of these men was given a responsibility in keeping with their ability. They were stewards and thus responsible for taking the master’s money and using it to produce what they could. Responsibility always comes with ability. Notice our Lord’s statement in Luke 12:48, “But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.” In the home, the church, and society, we are responsible for doing our part. This was shown pointedly to the early church regarding their responsibility to give of their means, “Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store, as God hath prospered him” (1 Cor. 16:2). The results of this principle put into practice is shown in 2 Cor. 8:15, “As it is written, He that had gathered much had nothing over; and he that had gathered little had no lack.” When all accept their responsibility, the need is always met.
But the part that is often left out in this is accountability. Joseph realized his accountability when he refused to lie with his Masters wife, saying, “…Look, my master does not know what is with me in the house, and he has committed all that he has to my hand. 9There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” He was accountable to his master who had put him in a place of great responsibility. We are accountable to our fellow man for our actions toward him. But above that, we are accountable to the almighty God who made us.
One does not have to admit his ability and can put all of the work on others. He may not take his responsibilities seriously. He can even deny responsibility toward his wife and children, his brethren, and live a carefree life. But being unwilling to be accountable will not prevent us from facing the ultimate and final act of accountability- Paul said, “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:12).
David Courington
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Simeon Castille- Good Christian?
Why me? That seemed to sum up Simeon Castille's sentiments regarding his early morning arrest for disorderly conduct. According to an article on Al.com yesterday detailing what was in the police report, Castille was loudly cursing some people in an SUV, had traffic backed up with a crowd of about 200 looking on, and alcohol was involved. Yes, that's why you were arrested.
Ho-hum- Just what college kids do. Well, maybe, but not what "good Christian"s do(that is what his supportive teammate, John Parker Wilson called him while defending him.) Hmm- seems like I have heard of Mr. Wilson being arrested himself for DUI or something. No, I am not suggesting that Mr. Castille has yet reached the level of Michael Vick(as far as I know there were no dogs involved). But his behavior was anything but "good Christian" behavior. Paul said, "Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."(Galatians 5:19-21).
Your character is not what your drinking buddies say about you. It is what your actions prove you to be. And make no mistake about it, character does count, at least in God's eyes.
Ho-hum- Just what college kids do. Well, maybe, but not what "good Christian"s do(that is what his supportive teammate, John Parker Wilson called him while defending him.) Hmm- seems like I have heard of Mr. Wilson being arrested himself for DUI or something. No, I am not suggesting that Mr. Castille has yet reached the level of Michael Vick(as far as I know there were no dogs involved). But his behavior was anything but "good Christian" behavior. Paul said, "Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."(Galatians 5:19-21).
Your character is not what your drinking buddies say about you. It is what your actions prove you to be. And make no mistake about it, character does count, at least in God's eyes.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
100 Things- No. 26-35
26. I love cold weather. 9 straight days over 100 has made me realize this.
27. Susan and I have 9 acres of land at our house, but only use a very small portion. One day I hope to clear some and build a large pond.
28. I got my name in the "Soup Pot" in first grade for talking. Imagine that.
29. I am in my 30th year at Sylvan Springs(Maytown). What great folks to put up with me this long.
30. I'ver been thinking a lot about that new grandbaby(Lila if the ultrasound prediction was accurate.) She is due in October
31. My all-time favorite Bible teacher was Franklin Camp. I miss him.
32. My favorite instrumental music is bluegrass.
34. My favorite verse of scripture is 1 Cor. 10:13.
35. I can't stand raw cucumbers but I really like fried pickles.
27. Susan and I have 9 acres of land at our house, but only use a very small portion. One day I hope to clear some and build a large pond.
28. I got my name in the "Soup Pot" in first grade for talking. Imagine that.
29. I am in my 30th year at Sylvan Springs(Maytown). What great folks to put up with me this long.
30. I'ver been thinking a lot about that new grandbaby(Lila if the ultrasound prediction was accurate.) She is due in October
31. My all-time favorite Bible teacher was Franklin Camp. I miss him.
32. My favorite instrumental music is bluegrass.
34. My favorite verse of scripture is 1 Cor. 10:13.
35. I can't stand raw cucumbers but I really like fried pickles.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
CareTaker To CareGiver
You stand at bat ready to hit the fast balls, and life throws you a curve. That is life. I have anticipated many things that would happen to me in life- I knew when very young I wanted to get married, I wanted to be a father, and I knew the kids would leave home and I wanted to have grandkids. Though you prepare for these things, you get a few curves along the way. But I wonder if anyone prepares for the time when they go from "careTaker" to "careGiver". Being a "Caretaker" is when you take the care that you parents give you. My parents were marvelous at this. My Mom(Betty) was the greatest. I never lacked anything in the way of having an attentive mother. From simple care(food, clothing, shelter) to the deep love only a mother can show(always knowing she cared for me and loved me and she was and is my number one fan. Dad(Wayne) was a wonderful provider. The short framed steelworker with the green fireproof suit(They called him "Stump" at U.S. Steel where he was a "scarfer") was larger in my mind that in real life. Yes, he provided a good living for the family and when Mom was sick, we were never neglected. Both Mom and Dad were the finest of Christians. Dad was an elder in the church at Parrish and truly was of good report of those without(1 Tim 3:7)and within. I started life with a great reputation(undeserved) because of them. People today often tell me how good they have been to them, and I know it is true. They stuck with me through the teens, paid for my college and helped Susan and I in the early married years. I'll always remember how close our budget was that first couple of years of marriage and Mom and Dad(without being asked) paying off the loan we had taken out for our furniture. Boy was that a help. Yes, they were the care givers, above and beyond the call of duty.
Now I am trying to do a good job of what the Bible commands, repaying my parents(1 Tim. 5:4). This job of being a "careGiver"in the traditional sense of the term is not one I was prepared for. Dad now has late stage Alzheimer's(He was diagnosed nearly 8 years ago) and is in Cherry Hill Healthcare. He is actually doing quit well and better than I thought he could be 9 months ago when he was moved there. Mom is spending most of her time with us and she is doing quite well for her(She has suffered from severe depression off and on since I was very young.) She is getting a bit feeble. Today at lunch I was parking the car, having let her and Susan out near the door. Susan had already gone in and a man was setting with Mom on a bench outside trying to help her. She had fallen over the parking lot bumpers(they always stick out). Thankfully nothing was broken and she wasn't hurt badly. She did have a bruised knee, a cut on the other knee that was bleeding and another cut on her elbow. Long ago I started carrying a bandaid in my "George Costanza" billfold. I have given out so many bandaids! Today I luckily had 2 "Superman" bandaids- yes, Mom was always one of my super heroes. After cutting the hole in Mom's hose slightly larger so the bandaid could go on her knee, I found that it was just right for the small wound. She was able to go in and eat and is fine so far as I can tell.
Yes, I am a caregiver. In the course of the last few years, I have not only prepared medicine, put on bandaids, given baths to Dad, made no telling how many trips to doctors, etc. I know I haven't done nearly as much as some have to, but I won't tell you that the journey from "Caretaker" to "Care Giver" has been easy. Furthermore, I have no idea what is ahead. I know I still have a lot to learn, but I do have a few bits of advice that might help you other "caregivers" out there.
1. God will not put on you more than you can bear. There have been a times when I was very frustrated because I did not know how to proceed, but every time I have thought I was in a corner, with no way out, God has provided a way. (God Provides)
2. Having a good attitude yourself always helps. I have had to give myself many attitude adjustments along the way, and I am sure I will have to again, but the more you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself, lash out at others for your troubles, and whine, the worse you feel and the less you can accomplish.
3. Appreciate the little things that are good in your situation. For example, 10 months ago Dad and Mom both fell. Mother recovered quickly but Dad was much worse that he had been for several months. He was overmedicated and now, as I said earlier, he is better. When we have walked in the door at the nursing home for the last month or so, he has had the biggest smile. No, he can't call anyone's name anymore, and often can hardly make a sentence(Addi broke our heart one day by saying, "You know Papa usted to know my name," but he can still smile. I have been told that one of the hardest things for families to take is that many Alzheimer's patients lose the ability to smile. Dad may too, but I am glad he has it now.
4. Take some time away from the situation occasionally. A recent vacation was so refreshing and sometimes a night out with Susan alone is the best of medicine.
5. Take time to be thankful everyday that you don't have to face life's curves alone. If not for a wonderful wife and above all, a marvelous God who is so good, none of us could make it. (I love to hear Levi sing "God is so Good.")
6. Don't be afraid to cry. Like most men, I try to do all of that in private, but sometimes it is a great release.
7. Don't forget to pray. God understands when no one else does.
8. Think occasionally about what your parents did for you. There is no way that I could every fully repay them for the care they gave me. I will always be in debt and if by some chance, I live long enough to repay them- I will still owe God so much for every day, every breath, that he has given me.
9. Seek expert advice from doctors, financial experts, social workers, and especially from those who have already travelled the road you are taking.
I will try to write some more later on this. Actually, I have thought of it several times, but this is the first time I have been able to bring myself to do it. May God bless all of those who are in transition from "Caretaker" To "Caregiver". DC
Now I am trying to do a good job of what the Bible commands, repaying my parents(1 Tim. 5:4). This job of being a "careGiver"in the traditional sense of the term is not one I was prepared for. Dad now has late stage Alzheimer's(He was diagnosed nearly 8 years ago) and is in Cherry Hill Healthcare. He is actually doing quit well and better than I thought he could be 9 months ago when he was moved there. Mom is spending most of her time with us and she is doing quite well for her(She has suffered from severe depression off and on since I was very young.) She is getting a bit feeble. Today at lunch I was parking the car, having let her and Susan out near the door. Susan had already gone in and a man was setting with Mom on a bench outside trying to help her. She had fallen over the parking lot bumpers(they always stick out). Thankfully nothing was broken and she wasn't hurt badly. She did have a bruised knee, a cut on the other knee that was bleeding and another cut on her elbow. Long ago I started carrying a bandaid in my "George Costanza" billfold. I have given out so many bandaids! Today I luckily had 2 "Superman" bandaids- yes, Mom was always one of my super heroes. After cutting the hole in Mom's hose slightly larger so the bandaid could go on her knee, I found that it was just right for the small wound. She was able to go in and eat and is fine so far as I can tell.
Yes, I am a caregiver. In the course of the last few years, I have not only prepared medicine, put on bandaids, given baths to Dad, made no telling how many trips to doctors, etc. I know I haven't done nearly as much as some have to, but I won't tell you that the journey from "Caretaker" to "Care Giver" has been easy. Furthermore, I have no idea what is ahead. I know I still have a lot to learn, but I do have a few bits of advice that might help you other "caregivers" out there.
1. God will not put on you more than you can bear. There have been a times when I was very frustrated because I did not know how to proceed, but every time I have thought I was in a corner, with no way out, God has provided a way. (God Provides)
2. Having a good attitude yourself always helps. I have had to give myself many attitude adjustments along the way, and I am sure I will have to again, but the more you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself, lash out at others for your troubles, and whine, the worse you feel and the less you can accomplish.
3. Appreciate the little things that are good in your situation. For example, 10 months ago Dad and Mom both fell. Mother recovered quickly but Dad was much worse that he had been for several months. He was overmedicated and now, as I said earlier, he is better. When we have walked in the door at the nursing home for the last month or so, he has had the biggest smile. No, he can't call anyone's name anymore, and often can hardly make a sentence(Addi broke our heart one day by saying, "You know Papa usted to know my name," but he can still smile. I have been told that one of the hardest things for families to take is that many Alzheimer's patients lose the ability to smile. Dad may too, but I am glad he has it now.
4. Take some time away from the situation occasionally. A recent vacation was so refreshing and sometimes a night out with Susan alone is the best of medicine.
5. Take time to be thankful everyday that you don't have to face life's curves alone. If not for a wonderful wife and above all, a marvelous God who is so good, none of us could make it. (I love to hear Levi sing "God is so Good.")
6. Don't be afraid to cry. Like most men, I try to do all of that in private, but sometimes it is a great release.
7. Don't forget to pray. God understands when no one else does.
8. Think occasionally about what your parents did for you. There is no way that I could every fully repay them for the care they gave me. I will always be in debt and if by some chance, I live long enough to repay them- I will still owe God so much for every day, every breath, that he has given me.
9. Seek expert advice from doctors, financial experts, social workers, and especially from those who have already travelled the road you are taking.
I will try to write some more later on this. Actually, I have thought of it several times, but this is the first time I have been able to bring myself to do it. May God bless all of those who are in transition from "Caretaker" To "Caregiver". DC
Saturday, August 11, 2007
100 Things- No. 7-25
7. I like my son in law Paul very much in spite of the fact that Kim found him on the internet and that he likes to criticize my blog.(Now this is 3 of 7 that are about Paul, but he is such a remarkable fellow!)
8. I love being a gospel preacher.
9. I really love the folks at Sylvan Springs- they are really family, not just in word.
10. The Fish Market(Original) is my favorite restaurant.
11. The Fish Market(Gadsden) is my next favorite.(Or maybe Top of the River)
12. I like teaching adults, but my favorite is teaching teens- potential, potential, potential!
13. I especially like it when they get it and you can see it in their eyes.
14. My goal is to finish these 100 things before next year.
15. Indian Creek Youth Camp is a very special place to me- so many good memories and so much to look forward to.
16. This year was my 35th year to go to ICYC. I started in 1972 and missed one summer.
17. My least favorite people are those who point out problems but never solutions, at least not solutions that involve them working.
18. My favorite people are those who say "We need to..." and "I want to start working on it now."
19. I really want to revisit Tobago some day.
20. One of my best experiences as a teen was singing with the Anchors(We need to get together again)
21. Going to ACC-now Faulkner U. was a marvelous experience.
22. I met my wife and best friend for life at Faulkner and I was ga ga over her when we started dating.
23. Still am.
24. Going to Freed Hardeman was equally wonderful. I had some fantastic teachers at both places.
25. Wow. I am glad that I only have 75 more to go.
8. I love being a gospel preacher.
9. I really love the folks at Sylvan Springs- they are really family, not just in word.
10. The Fish Market(Original) is my favorite restaurant.
11. The Fish Market(Gadsden) is my next favorite.(Or maybe Top of the River)
12. I like teaching adults, but my favorite is teaching teens- potential, potential, potential!
13. I especially like it when they get it and you can see it in their eyes.
14. My goal is to finish these 100 things before next year.
15. Indian Creek Youth Camp is a very special place to me- so many good memories and so much to look forward to.
16. This year was my 35th year to go to ICYC. I started in 1972 and missed one summer.
17. My least favorite people are those who point out problems but never solutions, at least not solutions that involve them working.
18. My favorite people are those who say "We need to..." and "I want to start working on it now."
19. I really want to revisit Tobago some day.
20. One of my best experiences as a teen was singing with the Anchors(We need to get together again)
21. Going to ACC-now Faulkner U. was a marvelous experience.
22. I met my wife and best friend for life at Faulkner and I was ga ga over her when we started dating.
23. Still am.
24. Going to Freed Hardeman was equally wonderful. I had some fantastic teachers at both places.
25. Wow. I am glad that I only have 75 more to go.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Crazy Bird
Sorry I have no bear tales to tell but it was great to be in mountains on vacation for a week. I think this it first time we have ever stayed for a full 7 days. Ate way too much good food and had lots of fun. We did see lots of deer(2 big bucks) and a few turkey in Cades Cove. We also had a very pretty red bird that pecked on our window each morning(I think to try to eat a couple of dead wasp that were on the window sill.) That crazy bird would almost knock itself silly, time and again, hitting the window. The amazing thing it is that it kept coming back, again and again, though the results were the same.
Have you ever thought about how much like that bird we are. We often fail to learn from our mistakes. I was talking to a lady recently who had been abused by her husband and put out of her house. She was disabled and told me that the reason was that her first husband had shot her 5 times. Apparently, she married the same kind of guy the second time around. I believe that this is one of the reasons that God made the criteria for remarriage so strict(See Matt. 19:1-9). Often the same mistakes are made over and again, with tragedy multiplied, not only in the lives of the parties involved, but especially their children.
The Bible speaks of the woes of drinking intoxicating beverages in Proverbs 23:29-35. In that last verse it paints a true picture of those who are slaves to alcohol saying, "When shall I awake, that I may seek another drink?” No matter how badly one is hurt, he goes after the same old elixir.
It is good that we can repent and find God's forgiveness more than one time. His love is so generous to take us back again and again. But we must be both patient and persistent in ridding our lives of the sins of the past.
By humbly seeking God and sincerely going to His word, we can grow and avoid making the same mistakes over and over again. David said, "Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against thee." (Psa. 119:11)
Remember the red bird.
Have you ever thought about how much like that bird we are. We often fail to learn from our mistakes. I was talking to a lady recently who had been abused by her husband and put out of her house. She was disabled and told me that the reason was that her first husband had shot her 5 times. Apparently, she married the same kind of guy the second time around. I believe that this is one of the reasons that God made the criteria for remarriage so strict(See Matt. 19:1-9). Often the same mistakes are made over and again, with tragedy multiplied, not only in the lives of the parties involved, but especially their children.
The Bible speaks of the woes of drinking intoxicating beverages in Proverbs 23:29-35. In that last verse it paints a true picture of those who are slaves to alcohol saying, "When shall I awake, that I may seek another drink?” No matter how badly one is hurt, he goes after the same old elixir.
It is good that we can repent and find God's forgiveness more than one time. His love is so generous to take us back again and again. But we must be both patient and persistent in ridding our lives of the sins of the past.
By humbly seeking God and sincerely going to His word, we can grow and avoid making the same mistakes over and over again. David said, "Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against thee." (Psa. 119:11)
Remember the red bird.
Friday, July 13, 2007
100 Things
You have to be kidding. Maybe I may complete this in a year or 2, but here are 5.
1. I don't have much patience with people saying a lot, when they only have a little to say(especially preachers).
2. I did enjoy the one on Paul's list about him wetting the bed.
3. I hate teeth problems, especially root canals, and have had more than my share.
4. I really have too much to do this afternoon to even be listing these 5 things.
5. I love all of my family and friends who read this blog and I hope you have a wonderful day.
David
1. I don't have much patience with people saying a lot, when they only have a little to say(especially preachers).
2. I did enjoy the one on Paul's list about him wetting the bed.
3. I hate teeth problems, especially root canals, and have had more than my share.
4. I really have too much to do this afternoon to even be listing these 5 things.
5. I love all of my family and friends who read this blog and I hope you have a wonderful day.
David
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Update and "Please Call Me By Name"
Wow, It is hard to believe it has been nearly 4 weeks since I posted anything here. It has been so long, perhaps there is no one out there to update. Anyway, if you are a preacher you will understand that after camp week was a week with speaking at 2 VBS's, and since then a holiday week, and now a week before vacation where I have 3 extra lessons to prepare before vacation week. Anyway, you preachers out there understand, if you are still out there.
Things are going quite well, actually. I am going to cheat a bit and include a great article that my dear Susan wrote for her blog. It is comforting to know that not only does the God of heaven and earth, the creator of the universe, know us by name- but he knows how many hairs we have on our head.(Mt.10:30).
Please Call Me By Name
In February, when we attended the Freed Hardeman lectures, we attended church on Wednesday night at the Estes congregation. Tom Holland always speaks on Wednesday night, and it is always a treat. When they made their announcements, it was announced that one of the members had just been diagnosed with colon cancer. I could tell it was someone who was a faithful, active member, simply by the way the announcement was made. As we were exiting the building, there was a lady standing in the back. Everyone was crowded around her. She looked to be about 50 years old, and she was crying. I could tell by the conversation that I was hearing that she was the lady in the announcement. Everyone seemed so concerned. One man stated- “We are praying for you.” The lady kindly replied, “Thank you. Please, call me by name when you pray! I don’t need generic prayers right now.” In other words, she did not want to be clumped with all of the other sick- she wanted her name brought before the throne of God. She wanted God to know that people were praying specifically for her. I don’t know the lady, or her outcome, but I do know that she understood that prayer is powerful. Will you help me as we pray for this people- and call them by name?
Melody Ferguson
Chandler Ferguson
Denese Billitz
Phillip Hammock
Chad Vernon
Bayley Maddox
Teale Yielding and Baby
Betty Garrison
Wayne Courington
Virginia Barnes
Eva Gaither
Would you like to add others to this list?
Things are going quite well, actually. I am going to cheat a bit and include a great article that my dear Susan wrote for her blog. It is comforting to know that not only does the God of heaven and earth, the creator of the universe, know us by name- but he knows how many hairs we have on our head.(Mt.10:30).
Please Call Me By Name
In February, when we attended the Freed Hardeman lectures, we attended church on Wednesday night at the Estes congregation. Tom Holland always speaks on Wednesday night, and it is always a treat. When they made their announcements, it was announced that one of the members had just been diagnosed with colon cancer. I could tell it was someone who was a faithful, active member, simply by the way the announcement was made. As we were exiting the building, there was a lady standing in the back. Everyone was crowded around her. She looked to be about 50 years old, and she was crying. I could tell by the conversation that I was hearing that she was the lady in the announcement. Everyone seemed so concerned. One man stated- “We are praying for you.” The lady kindly replied, “Thank you. Please, call me by name when you pray! I don’t need generic prayers right now.” In other words, she did not want to be clumped with all of the other sick- she wanted her name brought before the throne of God. She wanted God to know that people were praying specifically for her. I don’t know the lady, or her outcome, but I do know that she understood that prayer is powerful. Will you help me as we pray for this people- and call them by name?
Melody Ferguson
Chandler Ferguson
Denese Billitz
Phillip Hammock
Chad Vernon
Bayley Maddox
Teale Yielding and Baby
Betty Garrison
Wayne Courington
Virginia Barnes
Eva Gaither
Would you like to add others to this list?
Monday, June 18, 2007
Hi From ICYC
I didn't think that I would have time to write a blog note from camp, but here I am on Monday with a great staff and a good bunch of kids writing from good old Indian Creek Youth Camp. We have a group of 110 this week, which is a great size, though we would always love to have one more. No, the green ghost usually doesn't come anymore, but camp has lots of new traditions and it is great fun each year. New friends, old acquaintances, and a great time to recharge your spiritual batteries. There is not much news to tell yet, but I am sure there will be some blogworthy things that I will try to write about later. Happy camping!
Friday, June 15, 2007
On Vacation
Susan had a conference in Destin this week and I went along for a short vacation. It was great- weather, food, accomodations, etc. I went deep sea fishing on Monday and had great fun. Caught bunches of fish, but unlike most others on the boat, most of mine were small and had to be thrown back. Snapper have a 16 inch limit and I caught a bunch about 14 inches. Well, anyway. Next week is camp week at Indian Creek and I know it will be great. I have been working on lessons today. Paul(Kelsey) put together our class book and it looks like a great study on Example. While on that subject, maybe you would like to read my bulletin article for this week. Here it is-
When In Rome
David Courington
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” That may be good advice when it comes adapting to many customs of a foreign land. One hardly wants to drive on the right side of the road when everyone else is driving on the left.
But when it comes to our having Christ-like behavior, we need to be cautious. The Bible warns us that Christians and the world do not have much in common when it comes to morality. Paul said, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,”(2 Cor 6:14-17). Paul also warned of allowing evil companions to corrupt us, saying, “Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."(1 Cor 15:33) (NKJV).
The world that we live in has its way of doing things. Some people do not know what it is like not to drink alcoholic beverages. They have learned that way of life from their youth at home. If you speak of drunkenness as being sinful (See Gal 5:19-21), they will likely, first, look at you funny, and then either laugh at you or ridicule you. It is not their way to leave alcohol alone. That’s the way it is in “Rome!”
But you are a child of light, not darkness. Paul warned the Thessalonians, “Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.”(1 Thess 5:5). When the “Romans” drink or curse or cheat in their worldly, customary way, you and I must be reminded that we are not “Romans”.
When you dress, you should dress as a Christian, not a “Roman.” Last Sunday night in Destin while we were waiting for church to start a family came in and sat down in front of us with 4 teenage girls. They were dressed properly and of course my thought was, “Here are some folks who have their priorities right. Even though they are in a place where hardly anyone seems to think about God, they are remembering Him by coming to church on Sunday night.” Then the girls started to look at pictures on their digital camera(again before the service started). Their “itsy bitsy, teensy, weensy bikinis” looked like anything but the dress of modesty, shamefacedness, and sobriety, with which Christians are to cover themselves. (See 1 Tim. 2:9-10). No, I doubt that anyone on the beach would think it was anything out of the ordinary, but remember, what is ordinary for the world, is not always what is right for the child of God. We are light, not darkness.
Next time you go to “Rome”, will you do as the “Romans” or as the Christians?
When In Rome
David Courington
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” That may be good advice when it comes adapting to many customs of a foreign land. One hardly wants to drive on the right side of the road when everyone else is driving on the left.
But when it comes to our having Christ-like behavior, we need to be cautious. The Bible warns us that Christians and the world do not have much in common when it comes to morality. Paul said, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,”(2 Cor 6:14-17). Paul also warned of allowing evil companions to corrupt us, saying, “Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."(1 Cor 15:33) (NKJV).
The world that we live in has its way of doing things. Some people do not know what it is like not to drink alcoholic beverages. They have learned that way of life from their youth at home. If you speak of drunkenness as being sinful (See Gal 5:19-21), they will likely, first, look at you funny, and then either laugh at you or ridicule you. It is not their way to leave alcohol alone. That’s the way it is in “Rome!”
But you are a child of light, not darkness. Paul warned the Thessalonians, “Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.”(1 Thess 5:5). When the “Romans” drink or curse or cheat in their worldly, customary way, you and I must be reminded that we are not “Romans”.
When you dress, you should dress as a Christian, not a “Roman.” Last Sunday night in Destin while we were waiting for church to start a family came in and sat down in front of us with 4 teenage girls. They were dressed properly and of course my thought was, “Here are some folks who have their priorities right. Even though they are in a place where hardly anyone seems to think about God, they are remembering Him by coming to church on Sunday night.” Then the girls started to look at pictures on their digital camera(again before the service started). Their “itsy bitsy, teensy, weensy bikinis” looked like anything but the dress of modesty, shamefacedness, and sobriety, with which Christians are to cover themselves. (See 1 Tim. 2:9-10). No, I doubt that anyone on the beach would think it was anything out of the ordinary, but remember, what is ordinary for the world, is not always what is right for the child of God. We are light, not darkness.
Next time you go to “Rome”, will you do as the “Romans” or as the Christians?
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Ned The Neighbor
For a picture of Ned aka Josh, check out Katie's blog at
http://www.katiebug1023.blogspot.com
http://www.katiebug1023.blogspot.com
VBS Week/Camp Week- Retirement?
Sorry I have been so long posting, but it is crunch time for VBS and Camp. This week is our VBS at Sylvan Springs. We had a good start of 125 Sunday night and 105 on Monday. Do you start your VBS on Monday night? Sunday works better for us. It is usually one of the largest nights in attendance. We are studying neighbors and a highlight has been Ned the Neighbor visiting each night. He is quite an interesting neighbor with his unusual looks and Bible insights. I am enjoying teaching the teens this time. They are a great group and very good to participate in class. In a few years I am going to retire from pulpit preaching and become a youth minister where I can really have some fun.
June 17 starts my camp week at Indian Creek Youth camp so today I am printing schedules, letters to parents, certificates. A lot of work goes into a camp week. This year I have tried to spread some of it out a bit and have some great guys helping me. Daniel C called and is working on our sports schdule. Paul K has worked hard to get our class material, teachers and speakers arranged. Clay C is in charge of night activities. I talked to Becky P. yesterday and she is working on crafts. Susan C. went to a cooks meeting a couple of weeks ago. I know the food will be too good, as we have come to expect. This is just some the things that have to be done. Why do we do it year after year for no pay and some degree of aggravation? Because we love the Lord, the kids, and the camp. My target date for retiring as a camp director is 2025. Lord willing, that is the year I will turn 70 and I hope to be just a camper that year. But I could change my mind!
June 17 starts my camp week at Indian Creek Youth camp so today I am printing schedules, letters to parents, certificates. A lot of work goes into a camp week. This year I have tried to spread some of it out a bit and have some great guys helping me. Daniel C called and is working on our sports schdule. Paul K has worked hard to get our class material, teachers and speakers arranged. Clay C is in charge of night activities. I talked to Becky P. yesterday and she is working on crafts. Susan C. went to a cooks meeting a couple of weeks ago. I know the food will be too good, as we have come to expect. This is just some the things that have to be done. Why do we do it year after year for no pay and some degree of aggravation? Because we love the Lord, the kids, and the camp. My target date for retiring as a camp director is 2025. Lord willing, that is the year I will turn 70 and I hope to be just a camper that year. But I could change my mind!
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Preachers and Powerpoint
My wife passed this on to me and I completely agree. What do you think?
"Johnson's Fourth Law of Presentations: PowerPoint doesn't bore people. People bore people"
"Johnson's Fourth Law of Presentations: PowerPoint doesn't bore people. People bore people"
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
Love's Top Ten
Love’s Top Ten
Love is the greatest of all of God’s laws.(Mt. 22:36-38)
Love is the crowning touch of the Christian graces.(2 Pet. 1:5-8)
Love is the most permanent of all of God’s commands.(1Cor. 13:13).
Love is the heart of the golden text of the Bible.(John 3:16).
Love is the first sign of one’s being spiritual.(Gal. 5:22).
Love is what we must be grounded in if Christ is to live in us.(Ep. 3:17).
Love is the glue that holds us together and makes us a complete Christian.(Col. 3:14).
Love is the outward sign by which others can tell that we are Christians.(John 13:35).
Love is a key to Christian growth.(Ep. 4:16).
God is love.(1 John 4:16).
by David Courington(5/14/07)
P.S.- To all of my family, friends, and God's children who read this blog, I love you. David
Love is the greatest of all of God’s laws.(Mt. 22:36-38)
Love is the crowning touch of the Christian graces.(2 Pet. 1:5-8)
Love is the most permanent of all of God’s commands.(1Cor. 13:13).
Love is the heart of the golden text of the Bible.(John 3:16).
Love is the first sign of one’s being spiritual.(Gal. 5:22).
Love is what we must be grounded in if Christ is to live in us.(Ep. 3:17).
Love is the glue that holds us together and makes us a complete Christian.(Col. 3:14).
Love is the outward sign by which others can tell that we are Christians.(John 13:35).
Love is a key to Christian growth.(Ep. 4:16).
God is love.(1 John 4:16).
by David Courington(5/14/07)
P.S.- To all of my family, friends, and God's children who read this blog, I love you. David
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Instead Of “Engaging” Our Culture, Have We “Embraced It?
I came across a statement the other day in a book that grabbed my attention. It said, “The early church engaged its culture and transformed it.”(Preaching With Passion, p. 46). How true this is! Paul and his company at Thessalonica were accused, "These who have turned the world upside down have come here too.”(Acts 17:6). They said this because an uproar was created after Paul had reasoned in their synagogue for three weeks and “persuaded” many of the devout Greeks and leading women.(Acts 17:1-3). The early Christians set out to change the world, to persuade men to come to Christ and to leave their false ideas of worship. Paul urged the Corinthians, “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.”(2 Cor 6:14) and said to them, “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord…”(2 Cor 6:17). Yes, they engaged(Webster says, “to enter into conflict or battle.”) the culture of their day.
What a change when we look at the present day church. In many instances, instead of “engaging” our culture, we have “embraced” it. “Cultural correctness” is often seen as more important than “Biblical correctness.” Many flatly reject God’s teaching on unpopular subjects, saying, “We are living in different times.” What Jesus said about divorce (Read Matthew 5:32; 19:1-9) is seldom mentioned for fear of offending someone. The Bible’s teaching about the horrible nature of homosexual offenses and other immorality is not taught (Read Romans 1:26-32). Why? Because it is offensive to so many in our day. Preachers who confront the false doctrines of denominationalism are said to be wasting time that could be better spent on “relevant issues”(i.e. felt needs). We could site many more examples, but many churches and “Christians” have thrown in the towel, being changed far more by the culture, than changing it.
Yes, Jesus taught a gospel of love, and the teaching of the church should always be in love. But in the very context where Paul said we should speak the “truth in love”(Ep. 4:15), he warned against being “tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting.”(Ep. 4:14). God’s children should be loving, but they should be determined to believe, teach and obey the truth- not error, and to teach the gospel to the world that they might repent and be saved. Jesus knew that love and rebuke were not at odds, for John quoted him as saying, “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.” (Rev. 3:18-19). We do not show love by throwing our arms around the sinful culture of our day and leaving sinners untaught. We show love by teaching them the “more excellent way.”(1 Cor. 12:31). David Courington
What a change when we look at the present day church. In many instances, instead of “engaging” our culture, we have “embraced” it. “Cultural correctness” is often seen as more important than “Biblical correctness.” Many flatly reject God’s teaching on unpopular subjects, saying, “We are living in different times.” What Jesus said about divorce (Read Matthew 5:32; 19:1-9) is seldom mentioned for fear of offending someone. The Bible’s teaching about the horrible nature of homosexual offenses and other immorality is not taught (Read Romans 1:26-32). Why? Because it is offensive to so many in our day. Preachers who confront the false doctrines of denominationalism are said to be wasting time that could be better spent on “relevant issues”(i.e. felt needs). We could site many more examples, but many churches and “Christians” have thrown in the towel, being changed far more by the culture, than changing it.
Yes, Jesus taught a gospel of love, and the teaching of the church should always be in love. But in the very context where Paul said we should speak the “truth in love”(Ep. 4:15), he warned against being “tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting.”(Ep. 4:14). God’s children should be loving, but they should be determined to believe, teach and obey the truth- not error, and to teach the gospel to the world that they might repent and be saved. Jesus knew that love and rebuke were not at odds, for John quoted him as saying, “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. Therefore be zealous and repent.” (Rev. 3:18-19). We do not show love by throwing our arms around the sinful culture of our day and leaving sinners untaught. We show love by teaching them the “more excellent way.”(1 Cor. 12:31). David Courington
Friday, March 30, 2007
MSOP Lectures
It was a joy for me to be able to speak at the Memphis School of Preaching lectures on Tuesday. The school has a beautiful new library and new student housing being built. I got to hear some great lessons and see several friends. There was a dinner honoring Don and Jane McWhorter on Monday night that I attended. They have been such an inspiration to so many. I never knew that Bro. Don had preached to the Dolly Lama(sp?) or spent three hours visiting Johnny Cash in jail. As I said there were many great lessons preached, and all are available for viewing on the net at the link above( Just click on the arrow in the top left corner above.) In fact, they have 5 years of the lectures archived. Check it out.
Saturday, March 17, 2007
Wedding Bells
This post finds me in Virginia for my Aunt Marie's wedding. We met Paul yesterday and the 82 year old bride and groom seem to be a matched pair. They have been in the news and you can follow the link for a story on Lynchburg TV. The wedding is 2:00 and I will post more later.
Thursday, March 08, 2007
Not Dead Yet
It is hard to believe that it has been almost a month since I have posted anything. I thought the last few weeks would be calm, but alas, the nearly chaotic took over again. Last week we had a gospel meeting with my old college roommate Bill Ward. He did a fantastic job but got sick and I had to preach on Tuesday. I think almost half the church has been sick with a bad stomach virus over the last 2 weeks. Most of our family has had it, but Susan and I have escaped thus far.
But I did not escape another of my "abcessed tooth-root canal episodes" that started last Friday.
I was very happy and smiling again after having 2 bridges put in over the last month. But one of the teeth one of the bridges went bad. It always seems to happen on Friday. It was Monday before I could get the endontist, Dr. Chris McCallum for a root canal. He is a mess. He talks to you like Donald Duck while working on you. Talk about adding insult to injury. I told him that he was even crazier than my regular dentist, Shane Roberts. He said that was a compliment. Really, both of these fellows are fine people. All of the pain isn't gone yet, but it is much better.
I had a chance to go to Faulkner Univ. on Tuesday. It was a chamber of commerce day in Montgomery. My fondest memories of Faulkner are of walking around the campus in a daze in the springtime when I was dating my forever sweetheart, Susan. Those were the days--- as well as these.
What a shocker on Wednesday night at church to find out that Brian and Tina Maddox are expecting. They only have one child, Sydney, a 13 yr. old. We are excited for you guys! Super!
Well, I better go and see Dr. Gerald. I have an appointment this afternoon for a shot for a rotator cuff problem that is keeping me up nights. I am afraid that a "little arthroscopic surgery" is soon to follow. I have to get my pitching arm fixed so I can play ball with Addi. We are going to practice with her tomorrow and she is about as pumped as a 4 year old can get for softball. What fun!
But I did not escape another of my "abcessed tooth-root canal episodes" that started last Friday.
I was very happy and smiling again after having 2 bridges put in over the last month. But one of the teeth one of the bridges went bad. It always seems to happen on Friday. It was Monday before I could get the endontist, Dr. Chris McCallum for a root canal. He is a mess. He talks to you like Donald Duck while working on you. Talk about adding insult to injury. I told him that he was even crazier than my regular dentist, Shane Roberts. He said that was a compliment. Really, both of these fellows are fine people. All of the pain isn't gone yet, but it is much better.
I had a chance to go to Faulkner Univ. on Tuesday. It was a chamber of commerce day in Montgomery. My fondest memories of Faulkner are of walking around the campus in a daze in the springtime when I was dating my forever sweetheart, Susan. Those were the days--- as well as these.
What a shocker on Wednesday night at church to find out that Brian and Tina Maddox are expecting. They only have one child, Sydney, a 13 yr. old. We are excited for you guys! Super!
Well, I better go and see Dr. Gerald. I have an appointment this afternoon for a shot for a rotator cuff problem that is keeping me up nights. I am afraid that a "little arthroscopic surgery" is soon to follow. I have to get my pitching arm fixed so I can play ball with Addi. We are going to practice with her tomorrow and she is about as pumped as a 4 year old can get for softball. What fun!
Friday, February 09, 2007
Not Calm, Not Chaos
Just a short note to let you know I am still alive after a couple of busy weeks. This time certainly hasn't been Calm, but I wouldn't exactly call them Chaos either. This week started with some sad news, learning of the passing of Bro. V.P. Black. Bro. Black will be so greatly missed in the Lord's church, especially in Alabama and at Faulkner U. The last time I heard him preach, he looked frail, but his preaching was as powerful as ever. Bro. Black used words as skillfully as any brain surgeon has ever used a scalpel. He was unique in many ways. It seemed to me that one of his greatest attributes, was a great ability to speak the truth very plainly, and yet to speak it in a way that would not be unnecessarily offensive. It was a great privilege to know him.
One of my best weeks of the year is going the the Freed Hardeman University lectureship. The lectures that I heard seemed to me to be above average this year. The joy of having a chance to see so many old friends is dear to Susan and I.
On Wednesday afternoon Kim called to tell us that we were going to be grandparents again! What an exciting time as we anticipate our 4th grandchild.
Addi said it is going to be another girl and that she is going to be the babysitter. I don't know if she is qualified for that position yet, at age 4, but she is certainly confident! Congratulations, Paul and Kim! We will be praying for you.
One of my best weeks of the year is going the the Freed Hardeman University lectureship. The lectures that I heard seemed to me to be above average this year. The joy of having a chance to see so many old friends is dear to Susan and I.
On Wednesday afternoon Kim called to tell us that we were going to be grandparents again! What an exciting time as we anticipate our 4th grandchild.
Addi said it is going to be another girl and that she is going to be the babysitter. I don't know if she is qualified for that position yet, at age 4, but she is certainly confident! Congratulations, Paul and Kim! We will be praying for you.
Friday, January 26, 2007
Blest Be The Tie
The first verse of one of my favorite hymns reads:
“Blest be the tie that binds, Our hearts in Christian love;
The fellowship of kindred minds, Is like to that above.”
The tie that binds us is the sweet communion that we have based on or relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. If we are in fellowship with Him, then we can be in fellowship with one another. John summed it up, saying, “But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.” (1 John 1:7) Indeed it is a marvelous blessing to share with our brethren the “common salvation” that Jude spoke of in Jude 1:3. God’s children meditate upon what we have in common each Lord’s day as we take the Lord’s Supper, just like Christians have done since the days of the New Testament. Acts 2:42 records, “And they were continually devoting themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” Yes, we have a tie that binds us.
The next verse says,
“Before our Father’s throne, We pour our ardent prayers;
Our fears, our hopes, our aims are one, Our comforts and our cares.”
Here we are reminded of the wonderful privilege that we have as God’s children to pray with assurance that he hears us. Paul told the Colossians that he did not cease to pray for them (Col. 1:9). He urged the Thessalonians, “Brethren, pray for us.”(1 Thes. 5:25). How encouraging it is to know that my brothers and sisters are praying for me, as I pray for them.
Then the song reminds us,
“We share each other’s woes, Our mutual burdens bear;
And often for each other flows, The sympathizing tear.”
What a joy to know that we do not bear our burdens alone, rather we bear one another’s burdens(Gal. 6:2). Many worldly people will rejoice with you, but concerned brethren “weep with those who weep.”(Romans 12:15).
The fourth verse brings to mind our common hope, as it says,
“When we asunder part, It gives us inward pain;
But we shall still be joined in heart, And hope to meet again.”
Even at death, saints are “joined in heart” with the hope that only God’s children enjoy. Paul says in 1 Thes. 4:13-14, “ But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. [14] For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.”
If you are my brother or sister, I love you. If not, why not come to Christ and enjoy the blessing of the tie that binds?
“Blest be the tie that binds, Our hearts in Christian love;
The fellowship of kindred minds, Is like to that above.”
The tie that binds us is the sweet communion that we have based on or relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. If we are in fellowship with Him, then we can be in fellowship with one another. John summed it up, saying, “But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin.” (1 John 1:7) Indeed it is a marvelous blessing to share with our brethren the “common salvation” that Jude spoke of in Jude 1:3. God’s children meditate upon what we have in common each Lord’s day as we take the Lord’s Supper, just like Christians have done since the days of the New Testament. Acts 2:42 records, “And they were continually devoting themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” Yes, we have a tie that binds us.
The next verse says,
“Before our Father’s throne, We pour our ardent prayers;
Our fears, our hopes, our aims are one, Our comforts and our cares.”
Here we are reminded of the wonderful privilege that we have as God’s children to pray with assurance that he hears us. Paul told the Colossians that he did not cease to pray for them (Col. 1:9). He urged the Thessalonians, “Brethren, pray for us.”(1 Thes. 5:25). How encouraging it is to know that my brothers and sisters are praying for me, as I pray for them.
Then the song reminds us,
“We share each other’s woes, Our mutual burdens bear;
And often for each other flows, The sympathizing tear.”
What a joy to know that we do not bear our burdens alone, rather we bear one another’s burdens(Gal. 6:2). Many worldly people will rejoice with you, but concerned brethren “weep with those who weep.”(Romans 12:15).
The fourth verse brings to mind our common hope, as it says,
“When we asunder part, It gives us inward pain;
But we shall still be joined in heart, And hope to meet again.”
Even at death, saints are “joined in heart” with the hope that only God’s children enjoy. Paul says in 1 Thes. 4:13-14, “ But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. [14] For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.”
If you are my brother or sister, I love you. If not, why not come to Christ and enjoy the blessing of the tie that binds?
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Are Your Children Prepared?
Faced with the difficult task of child rearing, some parents focus on the daily joys and trials and fail to consider the "big picture". Proverbs 22:6, says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it." This verse not only points out that training is necessary, but also the goal of rearing children- that when they are old, they will continue in the right way. In order for that to happen, we need to see that they are prepared for what they will face as adults. They won't be little long, and your job involves preparing them for growing up and, eventually, leaving home. One cannot anticipate every detail of what life may bring, but he can equip a child to be able to adapt and cope with many obstacles.
Preparation for employment- Much emphasis is often placed on the child's education, and rightly so. One should help his child to obtain the training necessary for a job. Today, that usually goes beyond a high school education; if not college, then training for a trade. Even here parents may fail to really prepare the child by allowing them to cheat and take short cuts. Consider this statement, "Although by high school, most teens have accumulated a variety of weapons in their arsenal (English, math, science, history), many lack the most important preparatory tool of all - ethics…" (Prepping Teens for the Workplace, Lorin Shields-Michel ). If a child is not trained to be honest by the teaching and example of their parents, will he be able to hold a job and continue to provide for himself and his family. How many jobs have ended in firing because the employee simply would not work honestly, or do a day's work for a day's pay? Proper childhood training will include a heavy does of teaching on "… Provide things honest in the sight of all men. (Romans 12:17).
Preparation for being on their own- This is often looked at as one of the things that young adults have to experience in order to learn how to cope. While experience teaches one some things that he does not learn in other settings, it is foolish to wait for experience to teach everything that one needs to know. This is equivalent to the "sink or swim" method of swimming instruction. In reality, this is seldom practiced, or more children would drown. But a lot of young adults are drowning. Some are drowning in debt because their parents did not give them any financial responsibility along the way or tell them anything about managing finances. An allowance is a good place to start. Children should be taught to give some(1 Cor. 16:1-2), save some(Proverbs 6:6), and spend wisely. When they overspend and don't have money for what they want, they should be allowed to suffer the small consequences so they won't have to suffer larger consequences later. A good explanation of the statement, "…the borrower is servant to the lender."(Proverbs 22:7) will help a young person see the pitfalls of too much borrowing and that he has to pay back what he borrows plus interest. Children should be reminded that it is wrong for one not to pay back what he owes(Romans 13:8).
Responsibility, not only in money matters, but also in relationship to one's spouse and children, is best taught by a good example of godly parents. What are you teaching your children about being accountable for their obligations?
Preparation for marriage- Again, one would not think of allowing his child to get behind the wheels of a car with no training, handing him the keys, and saying, "Drive on, you are on your own now." Years of a good example in the home help any child to prepare, but specific teaching should be part of our youth's preparation for marriage. They need to be taught about the danger of divorce and the permanency of marriage(Matt. 19:1-9), about how to love and treat a mate(Ep. 5) and how they are no longer children who can depend on Mama and Daddy for everything. Some parents complain about their adult children's failures, but they have never been taught how to succeed.
Preparation for eternity- This may sound a bit morbid, but parents would do well to consider it, "Death will come to every child." Every adult was once a child. People are much more likely to obey the gospel and be faithful to God, if they are taught to do so from their youth. Paul said of Timothy, "And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.(2 Tim. 3:15) David Courington
Preparation for employment- Much emphasis is often placed on the child's education, and rightly so. One should help his child to obtain the training necessary for a job. Today, that usually goes beyond a high school education; if not college, then training for a trade. Even here parents may fail to really prepare the child by allowing them to cheat and take short cuts. Consider this statement, "Although by high school, most teens have accumulated a variety of weapons in their arsenal (English, math, science, history), many lack the most important preparatory tool of all - ethics…" (Prepping Teens for the Workplace, Lorin Shields-Michel ). If a child is not trained to be honest by the teaching and example of their parents, will he be able to hold a job and continue to provide for himself and his family. How many jobs have ended in firing because the employee simply would not work honestly, or do a day's work for a day's pay? Proper childhood training will include a heavy does of teaching on "… Provide things honest in the sight of all men. (Romans 12:17).
Preparation for being on their own- This is often looked at as one of the things that young adults have to experience in order to learn how to cope. While experience teaches one some things that he does not learn in other settings, it is foolish to wait for experience to teach everything that one needs to know. This is equivalent to the "sink or swim" method of swimming instruction. In reality, this is seldom practiced, or more children would drown. But a lot of young adults are drowning. Some are drowning in debt because their parents did not give them any financial responsibility along the way or tell them anything about managing finances. An allowance is a good place to start. Children should be taught to give some(1 Cor. 16:1-2), save some(Proverbs 6:6), and spend wisely. When they overspend and don't have money for what they want, they should be allowed to suffer the small consequences so they won't have to suffer larger consequences later. A good explanation of the statement, "…the borrower is servant to the lender."(Proverbs 22:7) will help a young person see the pitfalls of too much borrowing and that he has to pay back what he borrows plus interest. Children should be reminded that it is wrong for one not to pay back what he owes(Romans 13:8).
Responsibility, not only in money matters, but also in relationship to one's spouse and children, is best taught by a good example of godly parents. What are you teaching your children about being accountable for their obligations?
Preparation for marriage- Again, one would not think of allowing his child to get behind the wheels of a car with no training, handing him the keys, and saying, "Drive on, you are on your own now." Years of a good example in the home help any child to prepare, but specific teaching should be part of our youth's preparation for marriage. They need to be taught about the danger of divorce and the permanency of marriage(Matt. 19:1-9), about how to love and treat a mate(Ep. 5) and how they are no longer children who can depend on Mama and Daddy for everything. Some parents complain about their adult children's failures, but they have never been taught how to succeed.
Preparation for eternity- This may sound a bit morbid, but parents would do well to consider it, "Death will come to every child." Every adult was once a child. People are much more likely to obey the gospel and be faithful to God, if they are taught to do so from their youth. Paul said of Timothy, "And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.(2 Tim. 3:15) David Courington
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Camp On My Mind
Camp on my mind? This may seem to be a strange post for January, 16th, but tomorrow it will only be be 5 months until(Lord willing) I will direct another week at Indian Creek Youth Camp, June 17th, 2007. I don't know exactly how many camp sessions this will make that I have directed, but it is more than 25. It will be the 35th summer that I have been to camp at ICYC.
Actually, camp never gets too far from my mind. About 50 of us Sylvan Springs Church of Christ folks are going to ICYC this weekend for Survivor Weekend. If it turns out to be as cold as earlier predicted, the name may really mean what it says.
But also, Brian Gentle called me today to asked about setting up our display for Challenge Youth Conference. Thanks Brian, for your work for ICYC. If you have an interest in ICYC, your help is needed to promote the camp, as well. We now have it ready to rent year round. And also, though our numbers have been good, we want to come closer to filling it up each week.
Also, Gayla Bradford called me today to tell me that Kevin had the week of June 17 for his vacation and they are coming to camp this summer. Good help is hard to find, especially men counselors, so this is always good news.
Camp never gets old, just better. I got to go to Exposure Camp with our youth the week of Christmas. What a joy to be with all of those young people as they learn more about Jesus and learn more about the joy of being around other Christians. How sweet heaven will be!
Actually, camp never gets too far from my mind. About 50 of us Sylvan Springs Church of Christ folks are going to ICYC this weekend for Survivor Weekend. If it turns out to be as cold as earlier predicted, the name may really mean what it says.
But also, Brian Gentle called me today to asked about setting up our display for Challenge Youth Conference. Thanks Brian, for your work for ICYC. If you have an interest in ICYC, your help is needed to promote the camp, as well. We now have it ready to rent year round. And also, though our numbers have been good, we want to come closer to filling it up each week.
Also, Gayla Bradford called me today to tell me that Kevin had the week of June 17 for his vacation and they are coming to camp this summer. Good help is hard to find, especially men counselors, so this is always good news.
Camp never gets old, just better. I got to go to Exposure Camp with our youth the week of Christmas. What a joy to be with all of those young people as they learn more about Jesus and learn more about the joy of being around other Christians. How sweet heaven will be!
Friday, January 12, 2007
10 Things I Want You To Know
Some things are just too good to keep to yourself. We simply have to tell our friends, even strangers, about a favorite movie, a special book, or a great “bargain” store. Good news travels fast because we want to tell it. But there is other news we cannot help but tell our family and neighbors such as, “Have you heard about the tornado warning?” Those kinds of things may be upsetting, but good friends do not keep them to themselves. Some of the things I want you to know are heart warming things, and a few may be disturbing, but you need to know them. Please read them in the spirit of love with which they are written.
1. I want you to know that there is a true and living God who created heaven and earth. Gen. 1:1 says, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” Perhaps the most convincing argument for the existence of God is the evidence of his creation. Did it get here by itself? Can there be an intelligent design without a designer? Hebrews 3:4 says, “For every house is builded by some man; but he that built all things is God.”
2. I want you to know that the same God who made us, gave us a book of laws to follow. I recently bought a new camera. It is a bit complex. Of course I needed some guidance on how to use it. God did not assemble us and then fail to give us an instruction book. David loved God’s law. He said, “Through Your precepts I get understanding; Therefore I hate every false way.” (Psalms 119:104)
3. I want you to know that though these laws may not always be to our liking, they are for our good. Deut. 6:24 says, “And the Lord commanded us to observe all these statutes, to fear the Lord our God, for our good always, that He might preserve us alive, as it is this day.”
4. I want you to know that all men are sinners and lost apart from God., in need of salvation. (Romans 3:23 says, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
5. I want you to know Jesus. God loved you so much he sent his Son, Jesus, to save you. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”The more you learn of Him, the more you will love Him.
6. I want you to know that you can be saved from your sins. There is no sin that is too big for God to forgive. Jesus showed God’s attitude when he was on the cross saying, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do."(Luke 23:34) If Jesus could forgive his own murderers, he can forgive you. To have your sins forgiven you must hear God’s word(Romans 10:17), believe in Jesus as God’s son(John 8:24), confess your faith in him(Romans 10:10), repent of(turn from) your sins (Acts 2:38), and be baptized into Christ(Mark 16:16).
7. I want you to know that there is a right way and a wrong way to live. Jesus himself said that there is a broad way that many go that leads to destruction, and a narrow way that few people find that leads to life(Matthew 7:13-14). There is one lifestyle for the Christian and another for the lost. (See 1 Corinthians 6:9-11).
8. I want you to know that God wants all men to worship Him. John 4:24 says, “God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth." Biblical worship includes singing(Eph. 5:19), praying(1 Thess. 5:17), giving(1 Cor. 16:1-2), preaching and taking the Lord’s Supper upon the first day of the week(Acts 20:7). If you are able, you should not fail to attend church services (Heb. 10:25).
9. I want you to know that Jesus died to establish a church that all of the saved are in. When those that Peter preached to were saved, they were added by God to his church. Acts 2:47 says, “praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.”
Jesus died for his church and he cherishes it(Ephesians 5:23-30). There is only one true church that we read of in the Bible
(See 1 Cor. 12:12-13).
10. I want you to know that I love you. Not only does God want you to be saved, but I do too. Please consider these things carefully. There is nothing more important than your soul. How can I help you in your obedience to the Lord? Please let me know.
Your Friend,
David Courington
1. I want you to know that there is a true and living God who created heaven and earth. Gen. 1:1 says, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” Perhaps the most convincing argument for the existence of God is the evidence of his creation. Did it get here by itself? Can there be an intelligent design without a designer? Hebrews 3:4 says, “For every house is builded by some man; but he that built all things is God.”
2. I want you to know that the same God who made us, gave us a book of laws to follow. I recently bought a new camera. It is a bit complex. Of course I needed some guidance on how to use it. God did not assemble us and then fail to give us an instruction book. David loved God’s law. He said, “Through Your precepts I get understanding; Therefore I hate every false way.” (Psalms 119:104)
3. I want you to know that though these laws may not always be to our liking, they are for our good. Deut. 6:24 says, “And the Lord commanded us to observe all these statutes, to fear the Lord our God, for our good always, that He might preserve us alive, as it is this day.”
4. I want you to know that all men are sinners and lost apart from God., in need of salvation. (Romans 3:23 says, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
5. I want you to know Jesus. God loved you so much he sent his Son, Jesus, to save you. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”The more you learn of Him, the more you will love Him.
6. I want you to know that you can be saved from your sins. There is no sin that is too big for God to forgive. Jesus showed God’s attitude when he was on the cross saying, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do."(Luke 23:34) If Jesus could forgive his own murderers, he can forgive you. To have your sins forgiven you must hear God’s word(Romans 10:17), believe in Jesus as God’s son(John 8:24), confess your faith in him(Romans 10:10), repent of(turn from) your sins (Acts 2:38), and be baptized into Christ(Mark 16:16).
7. I want you to know that there is a right way and a wrong way to live. Jesus himself said that there is a broad way that many go that leads to destruction, and a narrow way that few people find that leads to life(Matthew 7:13-14). There is one lifestyle for the Christian and another for the lost. (See 1 Corinthians 6:9-11).
8. I want you to know that God wants all men to worship Him. John 4:24 says, “God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth." Biblical worship includes singing(Eph. 5:19), praying(1 Thess. 5:17), giving(1 Cor. 16:1-2), preaching and taking the Lord’s Supper upon the first day of the week(Acts 20:7). If you are able, you should not fail to attend church services (Heb. 10:25).
9. I want you to know that Jesus died to establish a church that all of the saved are in. When those that Peter preached to were saved, they were added by God to his church. Acts 2:47 says, “praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.”
Jesus died for his church and he cherishes it(Ephesians 5:23-30). There is only one true church that we read of in the Bible
(See 1 Cor. 12:12-13).
10. I want you to know that I love you. Not only does God want you to be saved, but I do too. Please consider these things carefully. There is nothing more important than your soul. How can I help you in your obedience to the Lord? Please let me know.
Your Friend,
David Courington
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
Banned Words In Churches of Christ
The so called “guardians of English” at Lake Superior State University in Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan have come out with their most recent list of words that should be banned from the English language. Since 1976 they have compiled an annual 'List of Words Banished from the Queen's English for Mis-Use, Over-Use or General Uselessness.' The list includes such words as “Boasts” stating, “Used in the real estate classifieds, as in "master bedroom boasts his-and-her fireplaces." What's next? "The bathroom apologizes for cracked linoleum." Another word is “Awesome” with the comment, “Sneakers are not "awesome." The word will be banished until such time as it can once again mean "fear mingled with admiration or reverence; a feeling produced by something majestic." They also selected “Truthiness,” saying “Popularized by "The Colbert Report," this word that used to ring true is getting all the truth wrung out of it.”
Many who read this blog know that there are certain phrases that members of the church of Christ tend to “misuse, overuse, etc.” I submit the following for your consideration:
“Awesome”- to borrow a word from the list above, to describe God as awesome and then to describe banana pudding the same way just can’t be right, can it?
“Our fellowship”- can’t we, at least occasionally, identify the church as the church? Are there faithful brethren that we do not fellowship? If so, isn’t something wrong?
“Separate and apart”- as you already know, the rest of the phrase is “from the Lord’s supper.” If something is “separate”, isn’t it also “apart?”
“Providentially hindered”- Some would question whether "God's providence" really "hinders" us in the first place, but regardless, I submit this word for overuse. Is one providentially hindered from coming to church when he chooses to go to work instead of worship because he wants to make more money? Is a whole family "providentially hindered" from coming to church because one kid has the sniffles?
“Arbitrary commands”- They may seem arbitrary to us, but don’t you think God had a reason for giving them?
I know I will think of some more later.
Feel free to nominate your own words in comments.
Many who read this blog know that there are certain phrases that members of the church of Christ tend to “misuse, overuse, etc.” I submit the following for your consideration:
“Awesome”- to borrow a word from the list above, to describe God as awesome and then to describe banana pudding the same way just can’t be right, can it?
“Our fellowship”- can’t we, at least occasionally, identify the church as the church? Are there faithful brethren that we do not fellowship? If so, isn’t something wrong?
“Separate and apart”- as you already know, the rest of the phrase is “from the Lord’s supper.” If something is “separate”, isn’t it also “apart?”
“Providentially hindered”- Some would question whether "God's providence" really "hinders" us in the first place, but regardless, I submit this word for overuse. Is one providentially hindered from coming to church when he chooses to go to work instead of worship because he wants to make more money? Is a whole family "providentially hindered" from coming to church because one kid has the sniffles?
“Arbitrary commands”- They may seem arbitrary to us, but don’t you think God had a reason for giving them?
I know I will think of some more later.
Feel free to nominate your own words in comments.
Friday, January 05, 2007
What Happened To Namaan's Leprosy?
What Happened To Namaan’s Leprosy?
How would you feel if you had terminal cancer and someone healed you of it completely? One can only imagine the degree of joy that he might have. Namaan(2 Kings 5) was a powerful man, but he was not immune to disease. He had contracted the dreaded disease of leprosy. Not only was it an incurable disease with horrible symptoms, but one would usually be separated from others so they wouldn’t catch it.
Namaan’s wife had a young servant who was an Israelite and she told him of a prophet of God, Elisha, who could heal him. He found Elisha and was told to dip seven times in Jordan and he would be healed. Namaan reluctantly did so, and because of his faith, he was healed.
As on might expect, Naaman was appreciative of his healing and he wanted to give Elisha a gift (2 Kings 5:15). The text shows Elisha’s reply, “But he said, "As the Lord lives, before whom I stand, I will receive nothing." And he urged him to take it, but he refused.” (2 Kings 5:16). Elisha had a servant named Gehazi who then went out after Namaan and asked for a gift for “two young sons of the prophets.” Namaan gladly gave him a gift. Gehazi then came back to Elisha and lied about the matter. Because of this Elisha told him, “Therefore the leprosy of Naaman shall cling to you and your descendants forever." And he went out from his presence leprous, as white as snow.” (2 Kings 5:27). So that is what happened to Namaan’s leprosy!
The lesson is a needed one for all. Greediness or covetousness is no small sin. The Ten Commandments declared, “You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's." (Exodus 20:17). Paul said to Timothy, “Now godliness with contentment is great gain. [7] For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. [8] And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. [9] But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. [10] For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” (1 Tim. 6:6-10).
Gehazi allowed his desire for money to make a liar and a cheat out of him. That has happened to so many people, not only gamblers and schemers, but businessmen and faithful Christians who let Satan come into their heart. Jesus’ warning is clear, “And He said to them, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses." (Luke 12:15). David Courington
How would you feel if you had terminal cancer and someone healed you of it completely? One can only imagine the degree of joy that he might have. Namaan(2 Kings 5) was a powerful man, but he was not immune to disease. He had contracted the dreaded disease of leprosy. Not only was it an incurable disease with horrible symptoms, but one would usually be separated from others so they wouldn’t catch it.
Namaan’s wife had a young servant who was an Israelite and she told him of a prophet of God, Elisha, who could heal him. He found Elisha and was told to dip seven times in Jordan and he would be healed. Namaan reluctantly did so, and because of his faith, he was healed.
As on might expect, Naaman was appreciative of his healing and he wanted to give Elisha a gift (2 Kings 5:15). The text shows Elisha’s reply, “But he said, "As the Lord lives, before whom I stand, I will receive nothing." And he urged him to take it, but he refused.” (2 Kings 5:16). Elisha had a servant named Gehazi who then went out after Namaan and asked for a gift for “two young sons of the prophets.” Namaan gladly gave him a gift. Gehazi then came back to Elisha and lied about the matter. Because of this Elisha told him, “Therefore the leprosy of Naaman shall cling to you and your descendants forever." And he went out from his presence leprous, as white as snow.” (2 Kings 5:27). So that is what happened to Namaan’s leprosy!
The lesson is a needed one for all. Greediness or covetousness is no small sin. The Ten Commandments declared, “You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's." (Exodus 20:17). Paul said to Timothy, “Now godliness with contentment is great gain. [7] For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. [8] And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. [9] But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. [10] For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” (1 Tim. 6:6-10).
Gehazi allowed his desire for money to make a liar and a cheat out of him. That has happened to so many people, not only gamblers and schemers, but businessmen and faithful Christians who let Satan come into their heart. Jesus’ warning is clear, “And He said to them, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses." (Luke 12:15). David Courington
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