One of God's greatest blessings is dear friends and family with whom we can share our lives. Thanks for being a special part of mine. All my love and best wishes for a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Holiday Greeting
One of God's greatest blessings is dear friends and family with whom we can share our lives. Thanks for being a special part of mine. All my love and best wishes for a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Would You Sell Your Soul For A Fruitcake?
(Here is some "food" for thought, and a sermon idea or bulletin article for you preachers out there.)
Many folks would quickly tell you either, "I love fruitcake," or "I hate fruitcake." I can fall into either category depending on what kind of fruitcake it is. I have had some that I hated. I really liked the Benson Old Home Fruitcake that came in my Aunt Marie's package from Virginia each year. But my love for fruitcake started many years ago with a dear Parrish preacher's wife, Betty Bramlett. She gave Mom and Dad one that she made and it had no filler cake- practically all of it was candied cherries and pecans. Whatever else was in there was delicious. In recent years I have made some that I really liked. This year I found that Costco has a fantastic fruitcake that is better and much cheaper than I can make one. Enough about that, what would you do for a good fruitcake?
Hosea 3:1 shows how the Israelites left God and served idols. Part of the reason was they loved the "raisin cakes of the pagans." That reminds me of Esau who sold his birthright for a bowl of stew(Gen. 25:29-34).
I would hope that none of us would forsake the true God for a fruitcake, but some forsake him for worthless things:
Some forsake God for earthly riches that will persish(Matt 19:21-24; 1 Tim.6:17-19)
Some forsake God for alcohol(1 Cor 6:9-11; Prov 20:1)
Some forsake God for sexual pleasure(Heb 12:14-17; 1 Cor 6:18-20).
Nothing is more important than our relationship with God that will lead to eternal life. Would you sell it for a fruitcake? Some do it for less! David Courington
Many folks would quickly tell you either, "I love fruitcake," or "I hate fruitcake." I can fall into either category depending on what kind of fruitcake it is. I have had some that I hated. I really liked the Benson Old Home Fruitcake that came in my Aunt Marie's package from Virginia each year. But my love for fruitcake started many years ago with a dear Parrish preacher's wife, Betty Bramlett. She gave Mom and Dad one that she made and it had no filler cake- practically all of it was candied cherries and pecans. Whatever else was in there was delicious. In recent years I have made some that I really liked. This year I found that Costco has a fantastic fruitcake that is better and much cheaper than I can make one. Enough about that, what would you do for a good fruitcake?
Hosea 3:1 shows how the Israelites left God and served idols. Part of the reason was they loved the "raisin cakes of the pagans." That reminds me of Esau who sold his birthright for a bowl of stew(Gen. 25:29-34).
I would hope that none of us would forsake the true God for a fruitcake, but some forsake him for worthless things:
Some forsake God for earthly riches that will persish(Matt 19:21-24; 1 Tim.6:17-19)
Some forsake God for alcohol(1 Cor 6:9-11; Prov 20:1)
Some forsake God for sexual pleasure(Heb 12:14-17; 1 Cor 6:18-20).
Nothing is more important than our relationship with God that will lead to eternal life. Would you sell it for a fruitcake? Some do it for less! David Courington
Saturday, December 06, 2008
Home Again for the Holidays
Home Again for the Holidays
There is some truth to the saying, “You can never go home again.” Since change is a part of every life, home is not the same when you go back. But you can go home again, with wonderful reminiscences.
No, I did not grow up in the day when you got just an apple and some nuts for Christmas. Yes, we had fruit and candy in a stocking, but there were always presents and and usually at least one special toy that myself or my brother Billy were excited about. I recall us getting a Creepy Crawler Maker, pogo sticks, and Billy getting a dancing monkey named Clancy.
Guns were always Christmas favorites for me. I remember Mama and Papa Courington getting me a really nice set of metal cap pistols with holsters and all, just like the kind Hoss had on Bonanza. I had admired them in the window of Wilson Beard’s grocery story for some time. By the time I got them, my anticipation was built to a fever pitch. Perhaps my favorite gun was a big bazooka called a “Big Blast.” Dad had to go to Birmingham for that one. You pumped it up and it did indeed have a “Big Blast” as it shot a ball of air several feet away. You could set up a paper cup or something and knock it over if you were a good enough shot.
I remember when I was 11 or 12 and wanted a real gun. I had made sure that Mom and Dad knew that I really wanted one. I don’t remember anyone saying, “You’ll shoot your eye out,” but I do recall that there was no small amount of discussion as to whether I should have one. I kept looking at the packages under the tree and hoping. I really didn’t think I was getting it. There was one box that was heavy enough, but not nearly long enough. Little did I know that rifles come in two pieces. Excited was not the word when I opened it and found that I had not only gotten a gun, but a really nice one, a Remington 22 semi-automatic with a handsome wooden stock.
Yes, I still have it and I think I’ll get it out and shoot some next week, and reminisce some more about how much fun it was to go to the dump with Dad and shoot it. I would also get to shoot the WW I Colt 45 that his uncle Bill left him. I didn’t want to shoot it much- too much recoil(and I think that my be what damaged my hearing in one ear.)
No, I have never shot anyone or even come close, but Billy did almost shoot me once. We went squirrel hunting with Papa Studdard in Winston County. I used my Remington and Billy used an old single shot that belonged to Papa Courington. As we were walking along(with a bit of snow on the ground in the shady spots,) I heard that rifle’s sharp, loud pop right by me- so much for the theory that guns don’t go off accidentally. He was in front of me, holding it over his shoulder pointing back, but luckily I was a little to the right. Hmmm- seems like it always pays off to stay a little to the right.
I guess that is enough cogitating for now, but remember, in the musings of the mind, you can always go home again for the holidays.
There is some truth to the saying, “You can never go home again.” Since change is a part of every life, home is not the same when you go back. But you can go home again, with wonderful reminiscences.
No, I did not grow up in the day when you got just an apple and some nuts for Christmas. Yes, we had fruit and candy in a stocking, but there were always presents and and usually at least one special toy that myself or my brother Billy were excited about. I recall us getting a Creepy Crawler Maker, pogo sticks, and Billy getting a dancing monkey named Clancy.
Guns were always Christmas favorites for me. I remember Mama and Papa Courington getting me a really nice set of metal cap pistols with holsters and all, just like the kind Hoss had on Bonanza. I had admired them in the window of Wilson Beard’s grocery story for some time. By the time I got them, my anticipation was built to a fever pitch. Perhaps my favorite gun was a big bazooka called a “Big Blast.” Dad had to go to Birmingham for that one. You pumped it up and it did indeed have a “Big Blast” as it shot a ball of air several feet away. You could set up a paper cup or something and knock it over if you were a good enough shot.
I remember when I was 11 or 12 and wanted a real gun. I had made sure that Mom and Dad knew that I really wanted one. I don’t remember anyone saying, “You’ll shoot your eye out,” but I do recall that there was no small amount of discussion as to whether I should have one. I kept looking at the packages under the tree and hoping. I really didn’t think I was getting it. There was one box that was heavy enough, but not nearly long enough. Little did I know that rifles come in two pieces. Excited was not the word when I opened it and found that I had not only gotten a gun, but a really nice one, a Remington 22 semi-automatic with a handsome wooden stock.
Yes, I still have it and I think I’ll get it out and shoot some next week, and reminisce some more about how much fun it was to go to the dump with Dad and shoot it. I would also get to shoot the WW I Colt 45 that his uncle Bill left him. I didn’t want to shoot it much- too much recoil(and I think that my be what damaged my hearing in one ear.)
No, I have never shot anyone or even come close, but Billy did almost shoot me once. We went squirrel hunting with Papa Studdard in Winston County. I used my Remington and Billy used an old single shot that belonged to Papa Courington. As we were walking along(with a bit of snow on the ground in the shady spots,) I heard that rifle’s sharp, loud pop right by me- so much for the theory that guns don’t go off accidentally. He was in front of me, holding it over his shoulder pointing back, but luckily I was a little to the right. Hmmm- seems like it always pays off to stay a little to the right.
I guess that is enough cogitating for now, but remember, in the musings of the mind, you can always go home again for the holidays.
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Sympathy
We were saddened to learn of the death of Mandi's(Daniel's wife)grandfather, Mr. Bradford(David's dad) on Saturday. He had a car accident in Albertville. He was a member of the Blessing Church of Christ. The funeral will be on Tuesday at Albertville Memorial Funeral Home at 2:00 p.m. Not only have we grown to love Mandi very much, but her Mom,Dad and family as well. I want to express my deepest sympathy to all of them.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Come For A Visit
Many of the readers of this blog are members at Sylvan Springs, but several are not. Some are friends, perhaps just acquaintances who hopefully will become friends, family and others. I wanted to give you a reminder during this time of the year when many are thinking of spiritual things, that you are always welcome at Sylvan Springs Church of Christ. In fact, you are more than welcome. We really want you to come for a visit. Have a great day.
Friday, November 21, 2008
Thank You for Being My Friend
This morning, I read the paper as usual, and went to the financial page to see how my IRA was doing. Of course it took another big fall this week, not that I had much in there anyway. Instead of feeling blue, for some reason, I was overwhelmed with a warm feeling of how blessed I am. Only a short time afterwards, Kim called to tell me of the good news that Paul had passed his National Board Teacher Certification, and we are thrilled about that. Paul is such a good son in law. You know, most every day brings some good news, and some bad.
But every day is a time to give thanks. Nothing can compare with the debt of gratitude that we owe to God our maker, for his abundant blessings. That old song, “There shall be showers of blessing”(Ezek 34:26), should be sung on rainy days and sunny days, both of which are given by God. But with the approach of this Thanksgiving Day, I want to say thanks to him for all of the wonderful friends (kinfolks included) that have helped sustain me.
During this past year I lost one of my closest friends, Bob Norris, to an early death. His warm voice so often buoyed me when we talked. He was one of those kind of friends that you were always comfortable with, that some people only find once in a lifetime, but I have been so blessed to have many. I can’t tell him how much I appreciate him, but I can tell you how glad I am that you are my dear friend.
In 2008, one of my dearest friends moved away. Instead of talking to him several times a week and working with him closely at church, we talk less frequently and see each other far less. I miss him, but I am glad that we are still friends though separated by a few miles. If I am separated from you, my friend, by distance near or far, I want you to know that you are still my good friend and I appreciate you.
During this past year, my Mom and Dad were both hospitalized at the same time, seriously ill. I thought we were going to lose both of them. They are doing much better at present and I am so thankful for that. No, Dad still doesn’t know me, but I know him, and his smile when I go to visit is priceless. One of the nurses told me some time ago, “If she could pick a disease to have in old age, it would be Alzheimer’s. It is hard on the family, but you don’t know you have it.” Well, I hate it for him and the family, but I am thankful especially for all of the good friends who have been so helpful in this hard time.
There have been so many medical people, and others who have gone out of their way to be helpful. The folks at Cherry Hill Healthcare have been topnotch in showing compassion and concern. Our church family has been very supportive. Many friends have continued to send cards and express concern. Our family has rallied to help, as they could. For all of these friends, I give thanks.
On October 9, my sister in law, Mary, finally got her new liver. She is making slow, but sure progress getting back to “normal.” Was Mary ever “normal”? Her zest for life, good humor, and knack for getting into “predicaments,” have prompted some to call her “Lucy”. We surely would not want to be without her. We are so thankful for God’s blessing, but also for so many who prayed, and continue to offer help in so many ways. We have many friends who are not of the “fair weather” kind, and for that we are so thankful.
Day before yesterday, Jasmine, my niece, had a car wreck. I felt so sorry for her because she had just paid off her car the day before, and only had liability insurance. Did I mention that she was hit by an 18 wheeler? Wow, and she did not have a single scratch, though her car was demolished. The truck ran a red light and the police wrote it up that way, so, hopefully they will get her another car, but we couldn’t find another Jasmine. I am thankful today that we still have her, and our other family and friends.
I could go on and on, but I simply wanted to say, “Thanks” to so many of you, who mean so much to me. I love you. David
But every day is a time to give thanks. Nothing can compare with the debt of gratitude that we owe to God our maker, for his abundant blessings. That old song, “There shall be showers of blessing”(Ezek 34:26), should be sung on rainy days and sunny days, both of which are given by God. But with the approach of this Thanksgiving Day, I want to say thanks to him for all of the wonderful friends (kinfolks included) that have helped sustain me.
During this past year I lost one of my closest friends, Bob Norris, to an early death. His warm voice so often buoyed me when we talked. He was one of those kind of friends that you were always comfortable with, that some people only find once in a lifetime, but I have been so blessed to have many. I can’t tell him how much I appreciate him, but I can tell you how glad I am that you are my dear friend.
In 2008, one of my dearest friends moved away. Instead of talking to him several times a week and working with him closely at church, we talk less frequently and see each other far less. I miss him, but I am glad that we are still friends though separated by a few miles. If I am separated from you, my friend, by distance near or far, I want you to know that you are still my good friend and I appreciate you.
During this past year, my Mom and Dad were both hospitalized at the same time, seriously ill. I thought we were going to lose both of them. They are doing much better at present and I am so thankful for that. No, Dad still doesn’t know me, but I know him, and his smile when I go to visit is priceless. One of the nurses told me some time ago, “If she could pick a disease to have in old age, it would be Alzheimer’s. It is hard on the family, but you don’t know you have it.” Well, I hate it for him and the family, but I am thankful especially for all of the good friends who have been so helpful in this hard time.
There have been so many medical people, and others who have gone out of their way to be helpful. The folks at Cherry Hill Healthcare have been topnotch in showing compassion and concern. Our church family has been very supportive. Many friends have continued to send cards and express concern. Our family has rallied to help, as they could. For all of these friends, I give thanks.
On October 9, my sister in law, Mary, finally got her new liver. She is making slow, but sure progress getting back to “normal.” Was Mary ever “normal”? Her zest for life, good humor, and knack for getting into “predicaments,” have prompted some to call her “Lucy”. We surely would not want to be without her. We are so thankful for God’s blessing, but also for so many who prayed, and continue to offer help in so many ways. We have many friends who are not of the “fair weather” kind, and for that we are so thankful.
Day before yesterday, Jasmine, my niece, had a car wreck. I felt so sorry for her because she had just paid off her car the day before, and only had liability insurance. Did I mention that she was hit by an 18 wheeler? Wow, and she did not have a single scratch, though her car was demolished. The truck ran a red light and the police wrote it up that way, so, hopefully they will get her another car, but we couldn’t find another Jasmine. I am thankful today that we still have her, and our other family and friends.
I could go on and on, but I simply wanted to say, “Thanks” to so many of you, who mean so much to me. I love you. David
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Now That The Election Is Over
About half an hour ago I went to the polls and voted. Whatever happens regarding who becomes our president is now out of my hands. Though some will disagree, I have always felt that living in a country with a democratic form of government places a responsibility on me to vote and do what I can to ensure that our country will be a nation that allows men freedom to follow Christian principles without restriction. After all, the Bible does teach that we are to do all of the good that we can and that we will be judged in part by how we use our opportunities.( See Gal. 6:10, James 4:17). Pilate was not right in simply washing his hands of Jesus. He had opportunity to do something about it. Can I sit idly by and do nothing when such issues as abortion, gay marriage, and gambling issues are on the ballot? That is irresponsible., But I also believe that Christians and churches can be too wrapped up in politics. Some are so caught up in their “party” they do not even consider issues. Still others will consider only what a man says that he is for and not what he has proved to be by his record. We need to remember that if the world is to be changed for the good, it will be by the gospel of Christ (Rom. 1:16-17), and not political means. Governments can change laws, but the gospel changes lives. I believe what the scriptures says in Proverbs 14:34, “Righteousness exalts a nation, But sin is a reproach to any people.” Righteousness is practiced, not voted in. Sin is a result of men turning away from God and his word. Political parties won’t change that. Now that the election is over, no matter which way it went, my main focus should be on spreading the gospel of Christ, and living a righteous example before all. Elections change leaders, but the gospel changes hearts., Furthermore, we need remember that though we do not have a command to vote, there are 2 specific commands that we do have regarding our government authorities. First, we must be subject to them. Romans 13:1-3 says, “Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. 2 Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves. 3 For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to evil. Do you want to be unafraid of the authority? Do what is good, and you will have praise from the same.” There is no place for a rebellious spirit among the saints., Too, we are told, “Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, 2 for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. 3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior.”(1 Tim 2:1-3). We should pray for our new leaders, whoever they are. David Courington
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Where is Jimmy Carter when you need him?
The Birmingham News reports that there are 6 counties in South Alabama that have more registered voters than people. Jimmy Carter has travelled the world to see that 3rd world countries have fair and free elections. Would someone send him to LA?(for the ignorant- lower Alabama).
Monday, October 20, 2008
The Old Book Case
The Old Book Case
In that old case, there were many books,
Varied size and color gave them many looks,
A story was told by every one,
How old books make our memories run,
The books of wonder on that old shelf,
Tell of Grandma and her studious self.
She loved history books and dictionaries,
She wasn’t into ghosts and fairies.
Grandpa had no books up there,
He worked with his hands, no books to share,
But there was one book that had his name,
The Holy Bible, where he placed his claim.
The book of Bible stories from which my Mother taught,
Brought uncontrolled tears, that I had not sought,
But reminded me of how as a little child,
I was molded by her love that taught me, so mild.
There were other shelves that had books a plenty,
These belonged to Dad, there were so many,
They were not about golf, and hunting, and such,
But the Lord and his church he loved so much.
That old book case now belongs to another,
It wasn’t kept by me or my brother,
But the memories live in our heart and soul,
That old book case, helped to make us whole.
David Courington
10/20/08
In that old case, there were many books,
Varied size and color gave them many looks,
A story was told by every one,
How old books make our memories run,
The books of wonder on that old shelf,
Tell of Grandma and her studious self.
She loved history books and dictionaries,
She wasn’t into ghosts and fairies.
Grandpa had no books up there,
He worked with his hands, no books to share,
But there was one book that had his name,
The Holy Bible, where he placed his claim.
The book of Bible stories from which my Mother taught,
Brought uncontrolled tears, that I had not sought,
But reminded me of how as a little child,
I was molded by her love that taught me, so mild.
There were other shelves that had books a plenty,
These belonged to Dad, there were so many,
They were not about golf, and hunting, and such,
But the Lord and his church he loved so much.
That old book case now belongs to another,
It wasn’t kept by me or my brother,
But the memories live in our heart and soul,
That old book case, helped to make us whole.
David Courington
10/20/08
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Calm For Now
We haven't had much of it for a while, but it's calm for now and we are certainly grateful. Had a rather leisurely afternoon after church. We had a great start to our meeting this morning with Kerry Richardson. Hope some of you can visit us this week, Mon-Wed. at 7:00 p.m. Mom and Dad seem to be doing well today and Mary continues to improve at home. Here's to calm!!!!!!
Monday, October 13, 2008
Mary's Fast Track Recovery
Even the nurses who see it everyday seem to be amazed by Mary's rate of recovery from her liver transplant. She already has all of the tubes out, is up and walking around, and best of all- no itching- and they say she my be going home on Wednesdayv(6 days after the operation.) Thanks be to God for his many blessings.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Mary's Transplant Update
Thanks to our Father for the answer to many prayers that Mary had her surgery yesterday. All went well, in fact better than that. The Dr. said it was a "beautiful liver" and it was already functioning well. They went ahead and took her off the ventilator(which they had said might last 2 days or so) last night. The surgery apparently went flawlessly in the minimum of time. We covet your prayers that her recover may continue in this wonderful fashion.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Mary's Transplant
If all goes well, my sister in law, Mary, will have her liver transplant tomorrow morning at 9:30 at UAB in Birmingham. It is times like this that we appreciate being able to go to our heavenly Father in prayer and know that he hears and cares. Also, family and friends that show their sincere concern are worth their weight in gold, even at today's prices.
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
The Old Home Place
Yesterday was a bittersweet day for me in that we closed the sale on Mom and Dad's house in Parrish. It was hard in a way to see their "American Dream" go to someone else. But it was mostly sweet because I have been unbelievably tied up the last 3 weeks trying to get it closed out. It is a joy to be done with the chore. I have found out that dealing with FHA is even worse than dealing with Medicaid and VA.
Since Mom and Dad are both still living, it hasn't seemed at all like "home" up there since they left. This afternoon, I went by to see Mom and Dad at Cherry Hill Healthcare. There they sat, eating ice cream and seeming quite content. Mom was really excited that I had Levi with me. She walked down with he and I to the aviary to see the birds. We all enjoyed the short visit and I am so thankful that she and Dad are doing as well as they are for now.
I have often heard the saying, "Home is where you hang your hat." If that is true, then Cherry Hill fits the bill because you seldom go in and see Dad these days without one of his checkered hats. I also have heard often, "Home is where you hang your heart." My heart is with my dear Mom and Dad, so much more than in a house of sticks and bricks that will not last. We would all do well to put more emphasis on the "heart" than the "house."
Since Mom and Dad are both still living, it hasn't seemed at all like "home" up there since they left. This afternoon, I went by to see Mom and Dad at Cherry Hill Healthcare. There they sat, eating ice cream and seeming quite content. Mom was really excited that I had Levi with me. She walked down with he and I to the aviary to see the birds. We all enjoyed the short visit and I am so thankful that she and Dad are doing as well as they are for now.
I have often heard the saying, "Home is where you hang your hat." If that is true, then Cherry Hill fits the bill because you seldom go in and see Dad these days without one of his checkered hats. I also have heard often, "Home is where you hang your heart." My heart is with my dear Mom and Dad, so much more than in a house of sticks and bricks that will not last. We would all do well to put more emphasis on the "heart" than the "house."
Monday, September 15, 2008
Dad's 84th Birthday
Tomorrow, Sept. 16th will be Dad's 84th birthday. Both he and Mom have had some real good days lately. We had a fun time at a birthday party for him yesterday at Cherry Hill. See my Facebook for more pictures.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
"Cousin Cliff"
So much has been said about "Cousin Cliff" Holman in the past few days after his death. For those of you who may not know, he was a very well known figure in Birmingham TV who hosted a cartoon show for kids in the afternoon. For those of us who only had 3 channels(and one of them educational), it was such a treat to watch Popeye, especially on weekdays, and Cousin Cliff did a great job. I was fortunate to have my birthday on the show once, and be on it with some neighbors another time or two. I remember going with the Glasgows on one occasion and having a fender bender coming down Red Mountain from the station.
My most recent contact with Cousin Cliff came several years ago when I was at home one afternoon and answered the phone. The voice on the other end said, "This is Cliff Holman," and I immediately recognized who it was. How exciting! He was trying to locate a young man who had no phone, but had an address that was close to the church building.He said he wanted to find the guy who had done some yard work cutting trees for him and he had promised to do a birthday party for his child as a favor. I knew the boy(who didn't have 2 nickels to rub together) and was able to tell him how he could contact him. That was Cousin Cliff- larger than life on the screen and off.
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Dove Hunting Fun
Saturday was a first for me, going dove hunting. If I had been able to hit a few doves, I would have said it was now "my sport." It was great fun, but I couldn't hit those birds flitting about. Josh was kind in saying that I hit one when we both shot at several, but I am not sure. I am sure that I shot about 50 times with only one "maybe" to show for it. Did I say it sure was fun? Thanks, Josh, for a great day. Oh, yea, it was Josh's birthday. He is so special to me.
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
Passing of Ma Pounds
I am saddened this morning to learn of the death of Ma Pounds(Lois Pounds Black) this morning about 5:20 a.m. All of my family and our camp family will miss her, though we rejoice that she was a faithful soldier of the cross and know that she is so much better off now. I am reminded of so many good times that we had. She was a student in my grandmother, Bess Courington's, Bible class and often told me of that experience. My first ICYC camp memory of her is at the creek clearing off land about the year the camp opened. She always came to my camp session to teach the kids with her Dorcas clothes for the corncob dolls she would make, her scrolls, etc. She broke her hip during my camp week and had to teach her class before leaving to go to the doctor! She would come to hear me preach every chance she got and was always far more complimentary that I deserved.
She was dear to all of us who knew her.
She was dear to all of us who knew her.
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Drinking In Alabama
This is a "Letter to the Editor" that I sent to the Bham News regarding 2 editorials in the Saturday edition. Thought you might like to see it.
I read with interest the statistics that were given in a recent editorial that
"43% of Alabama's highway deaths last year involved alcohol." The very same paper also contained a letter from an out of state writer chastising Alabama for holding on to some of the vestiges of Prohibition. While the success or failure of national Prohibition may be debateable, some things are obvious.
Making beverage alcohol more available to more people has never, ever been shown to decrease the use of it.
Furthermore, while many are right to be quick to condemn drunken driving, they are blinded to the other obvious costs to our society. Our dept. of public safety chief was quoted by the news as saying, "Drinking and driving is a dangerous combination." Well, put!
And I would add:
Drinking and fatherhood is a dangerous combination. Would anyone deny that many abusive fathers are driven by alcohol.
Drinking and motherhood is a dangerous combination. Mothers are harming the precious children born to them(as well as their unborn children) at alarming rates.
Drinking and teenagers are a dangerous combination. At a time when they should be learning to make wise decisions, their judgment is impaired.
Drinking and working is a dangerous combination.
Drinking and any public event is a dangerous combination.
Todays young and old could learn something from an old book on this one, "Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise."(Proverbs 20:1- NKJV).
It is true that laws will never prevent all alcohol abuse, but they can discourage it, and I am for any law that does so.
David Courington
I read with interest the statistics that were given in a recent editorial that
"43% of Alabama's highway deaths last year involved alcohol." The very same paper also contained a letter from an out of state writer chastising Alabama for holding on to some of the vestiges of Prohibition. While the success or failure of national Prohibition may be debateable, some things are obvious.
Making beverage alcohol more available to more people has never, ever been shown to decrease the use of it.
Furthermore, while many are right to be quick to condemn drunken driving, they are blinded to the other obvious costs to our society. Our dept. of public safety chief was quoted by the news as saying, "Drinking and driving is a dangerous combination." Well, put!
And I would add:
Drinking and fatherhood is a dangerous combination. Would anyone deny that many abusive fathers are driven by alcohol.
Drinking and motherhood is a dangerous combination. Mothers are harming the precious children born to them(as well as their unborn children) at alarming rates.
Drinking and teenagers are a dangerous combination. At a time when they should be learning to make wise decisions, their judgment is impaired.
Drinking and working is a dangerous combination.
Drinking and any public event is a dangerous combination.
Todays young and old could learn something from an old book on this one, "Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise."(Proverbs 20:1- NKJV).
It is true that laws will never prevent all alcohol abuse, but they can discourage it, and I am for any law that does so.
David Courington
Friday, August 29, 2008
Church Thievery
My Mom used to say that the lowest people were those who stole flowers from the cemetary. Well, I don't know who is lower, but when someone steals the flowers from the church building, I would say that is pretty low, too. A year or so ago, someone took 3 decorative benches and a large flower pot(with flowers) from the front of our building. This week someone took a concrete flower planter, about 1 ft wide by 3 ft long. Yes, that is really heavy. Perhaps they got tired and decided not to take the other 5 that they left intact. It took a strong person(possible 2) to lift it. And why did they steal the flowers?
1. Perhaps the most obvious reason- because they were there. Some people seem to just like to steal.
2. Maybe they just loved the flowers- they were pretty.
3. They had no flowers of their own and couldn't afford to buy a pack of seeds.
4. They were good "tree hugger" nature lovers who took the flowers to protect them.
5. They needed the exercise and plan to use the concrete planter as a large weight.
6. They can't grow any flowers they do not know how.
7. They needed the flowers for food(they might be poison?)
What reasons can you think of?
1. Perhaps the most obvious reason- because they were there. Some people seem to just like to steal.
2. Maybe they just loved the flowers- they were pretty.
3. They had no flowers of their own and couldn't afford to buy a pack of seeds.
4. They were good "tree hugger" nature lovers who took the flowers to protect them.
5. They needed the exercise and plan to use the concrete planter as a large weight.
6. They can't grow any flowers they do not know how.
7. They needed the flowers for food(they might be poison?)
What reasons can you think of?
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
And Back To Calm
Having had the stitches out of my mosquito bite sized place on my leg, all is well on the homefront. Please continue to pray for my sister in law, Mary, that she will get her transplant soon and all will go well. She was at church Sunday, but not feeling well. Mom and Dad have had some good days lately. To those of you in far away places, it is a hot, dog day afternoon in Birmingham. Have a great day and may God bless.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Chaos Reinstated
For real, last week one day I thought of changing the title of this blog. I will keep it for now. Yesterday began as a very calm day . People often ask, "What do you do?"(OK, I know some of you really do think I only work a few hours a week) and yesterday would have been my standard answer to that- visiting a couple of our church members in the morning, talking on the phone a few times about such things as our gospel meeting in the fall with Kerry Richardson, with a bookstore about a questionable charge, with camp folks about the golf tournament on Saturday. Then a trip to the bank and the cleaners. An afternoon of study for my last "Summer Wednesday Series" at Roebuck the last Wed. of the month, writing on a Sunday sermon, prep for my Wed. Bible class, a couple of other phone calls- Then about 4:30 to add to the "usualness" of my day, at trip to the restroom after a 20 oz. diet Grapico(delicious). When walking back to my office I felt something wet on my leg. Thinking I had either spilled a bit of water when washing my hands, or perhaps another kind of accident that I did not realize(yuck), I walked back to the desk. I kept feeling the wetness and in a little bit I felt something wet in my shoe.
Rather nonchalantly I looked down to see that there was blood all over my pants and a huge pool about 2 feet in diameter in the floor. It is a wonder I did not faint and possibly bleed to death. I reached down and pulled down my sock a bit to reveal blood spurting out of my left leg just below my calf.(Turned out this was a varicose vein that I had the Dr. check a while back because it was itching and protruding.) Why did it rupture? Probably from simply being "rubbed the wrong way." The doctor said I was a "big column of pressure" when I stood up- Well put, Doc.)
I put pressure on it with one hand and called the paramedics with the other. While calling on the office phone Kim called on my cell and I told her I couldn't talk because I was on the phone with 911. She heard me tell them there was blood everywhere and had no idea what had happened(So sorry for that heartcheck, Kim). After getting off the phone I realized that the doors were locked and I couldn't figure out how to get to the door and keep pressure on my leg, too. I called Susan and thankfully, she was already home. Kim had already called her and she was on her way to the building. I called the paramedics back to tell them not to break in, that Susan was on the way with a key. Susan is the one you want with you in a crisis, and usually does not panic. I know from past experience that she doesn't drive fast in an ER run, but she got there fast this time, and Kim got there about the same time. The paramedics couldn't find the building even though they are right next door. The dispatcher did not tell them it was a church and only gave them a house number- which I did not realize we didn't have on the building(any deacons out there?)
The paramedics came in and quickly wrapped up my leg with a bandage(which was tight, but quickly soaked) and told me there was an ambulance on the way. I didn't think I needed one(Why do men always think they can handle things themselves?) Susan gave me that look and I quickly gave in to it. By that time Cheryl Chaney(a neighbor) and then Tim Garrison had seen the firetruck and come in to see if they could help and Doris Poole called. (No telling how many people knew about this before I got to the hospital). Josh got there before I did and Daniel and Mandi got there from Glencoe before long. (I asked Susan why they came and she replied, "Because you were in a huge pool of blood and we didn't know what was going on!" Duh- why didn't I think of that?) I think there was quite a bit of interest at church last night, which I missed. Kent Garrison got there early and had to try to clean up some of the mess. He called and told me he thought that the carpet might have to be replaced in the office.
In all of this the person in the most danger was likely the paramedic who had to lift the stretcher to get me into the ambulance. I think his face was as red as my leg. I doubt he would have made it if I had not lost that 63 pounds.
The paramedics from Sylvan Springs, ambulance co. paramedics, and all of the ER staff at UAB West were great, friendly and professional. Thanks to all of you who have expressed concern. I expecially appreciated the text message I got from Mark Wylie suggesting I go by the auto parts store and get a can of "Bar's Stop Leak".
Well, the Dr. sewed up my leg and told me not to get my leg wet and that I could play golf in the camp tournament on Saturday. We went by Sonic for a breakfast toaster on the way home. Today, it is back to calm again- for a long time I hope. Whew!
Rather nonchalantly I looked down to see that there was blood all over my pants and a huge pool about 2 feet in diameter in the floor. It is a wonder I did not faint and possibly bleed to death. I reached down and pulled down my sock a bit to reveal blood spurting out of my left leg just below my calf.(Turned out this was a varicose vein that I had the Dr. check a while back because it was itching and protruding.) Why did it rupture? Probably from simply being "rubbed the wrong way." The doctor said I was a "big column of pressure" when I stood up- Well put, Doc.)
I put pressure on it with one hand and called the paramedics with the other. While calling on the office phone Kim called on my cell and I told her I couldn't talk because I was on the phone with 911. She heard me tell them there was blood everywhere and had no idea what had happened(So sorry for that heartcheck, Kim). After getting off the phone I realized that the doors were locked and I couldn't figure out how to get to the door and keep pressure on my leg, too. I called Susan and thankfully, she was already home. Kim had already called her and she was on her way to the building. I called the paramedics back to tell them not to break in, that Susan was on the way with a key. Susan is the one you want with you in a crisis, and usually does not panic. I know from past experience that she doesn't drive fast in an ER run, but she got there fast this time, and Kim got there about the same time. The paramedics couldn't find the building even though they are right next door. The dispatcher did not tell them it was a church and only gave them a house number- which I did not realize we didn't have on the building(any deacons out there?)
The paramedics came in and quickly wrapped up my leg with a bandage(which was tight, but quickly soaked) and told me there was an ambulance on the way. I didn't think I needed one(Why do men always think they can handle things themselves?) Susan gave me that look and I quickly gave in to it. By that time Cheryl Chaney(a neighbor) and then Tim Garrison had seen the firetruck and come in to see if they could help and Doris Poole called. (No telling how many people knew about this before I got to the hospital). Josh got there before I did and Daniel and Mandi got there from Glencoe before long. (I asked Susan why they came and she replied, "Because you were in a huge pool of blood and we didn't know what was going on!" Duh- why didn't I think of that?) I think there was quite a bit of interest at church last night, which I missed. Kent Garrison got there early and had to try to clean up some of the mess. He called and told me he thought that the carpet might have to be replaced in the office.
In all of this the person in the most danger was likely the paramedic who had to lift the stretcher to get me into the ambulance. I think his face was as red as my leg. I doubt he would have made it if I had not lost that 63 pounds.
The paramedics from Sylvan Springs, ambulance co. paramedics, and all of the ER staff at UAB West were great, friendly and professional. Thanks to all of you who have expressed concern. I expecially appreciated the text message I got from Mark Wylie suggesting I go by the auto parts store and get a can of "Bar's Stop Leak".
Well, the Dr. sewed up my leg and told me not to get my leg wet and that I could play golf in the camp tournament on Saturday. We went by Sonic for a breakfast toaster on the way home. Today, it is back to calm again- for a long time I hope. Whew!
Monday, August 11, 2008
400 Mile Yard Sale
Actually the 321 yard sale is now longer than that, since it has been extended to Chicago from it's beginning point of Gadsden, AL. Susan and I made a trek on Saturday to Collinsville and then on up to Dogtown which is on the yardsale trail. We have made some part of this trip a few times before in the 10 years of the sale. I could not tell the crowds have diminished any on the 30 or so miles that we made. Each crossroads that you come to is packed with individuals and dealers who are trying to unload all sorts of things. The one most impressive item in the "cannot afford" category that I found was a really fine brass bell from a locomotive. I think it was $475. The same guy had a huge ship's compass that was $1200 and the bill of a "sawfish". Perhaps the more odd things were the people who were selling and buying the goods. The buy of the day was likely some nice new golf type shirts that we bought Dad for $1. The same guy had a whole big tent full of over run tshirts that were all $1. Restrooms are in short supply on the route, and one of our better stops was at a volunteer fire dept. that advertised their relief stop. They had small baskets of tomatoes and bags of blueberries(mmmmm) for $1 inside. My frivilous purchase of the day was made at the Collinsville Flea Mkt. before our getting to the yardsale. I found a 10 ft real leather bullwhip for $20 and couldn't pass it up. No, I am not going to use it on Susan. I had one when I was a boy that I used often on the bumblebees that came to the red berry(nandina) bushes Mom had in front of our house. I can still crack it pretty good and when I got home I destroyed the leaves from a limb on the poplar tree in our yard. Sunday, my shoulder was sore. Guess I am not the young "whippersnapper"(Papa Courington's phrase for Billy and I) that I used to be. Hope you have a great day.
Monday, August 04, 2008
6th Avenue- Words of Truth
I will be speaking on Wednesday night in the summer series at 6th Avenue church of Christ in Jasper, AL. Love to have you if you are in the area. I saw this article today in the Daily Mountain Eagle and thought some of you might like to read it. It was accompanied by a good picture of Levi Sides and Patrick Morrison.
‘Words of Truth’
Church of Christ radio broadcast celebrating 62 years
Jennifer Williams
Eagle Reporter
Monday, Aug 04, 2008
Levi Sides, right, and Patrick Morrison, ministers at Sixth Avenue Church of Christ, read scripture after a broadcast of “Words of Truth.” The daily gospel broadcast first went on the air in November 1946. - Photo by: Jennifer Williams
Each day at 8 a.m. announcements, prayers and practical Bible lessons flow from a small office in the Sixth Avenue Church of Christ and into the homes of local radio listeners.
The program is called "Words of Truth," and it is the oldest continuous daily gospel broadcast among the Churches of Christ.
When "Words of Truth" first went on the air in November 1946, the United States had recently emerged victorious in World War II.
Jasper had just gotten its first radio station, WWWB 1360.
The station was named for Walter Will Bankhead, nephew of Speaker of the House William Bankhead and a longtime Jasper resident.
Bankhead was walking near the Sixth Avenue Church of Christ one day when he encountered Gus Nichols, the church's minister.
"He said, 'Brother Nichols, I'm going to start a radio station.' Brother Nichols said, 'I want to be on it the very first day,'" said Levi Sides, one of the church's current ministers.
When given his choice of times, Nichols chose to speak on WWWB from 8 to 8:30 a.m.
Although "Words of Truth" has been carried on four different stations over the years, its time has never changed.
Today "Words of Truth" is still known by many locals as the Gus Nichols broadcast.
Sides said when he sits down to prepare his remarks for the program, he often thinks of the man who served the Sixth Avenue Church of Christ for 48 years.
"He was the greatest man that I knew. Not educated as far as formal education, but he memorized the book (the Bible). I often say, 'What would Brother Nichols do? What would Brother Nichols say?'" Sides said.
Since Nichols' death in 1975, several ministers have spoken on "Words of Truth," including Bob Duncan, Glenn Posey, Joe Spivy, Glenn Colley, Flavil Nichols, David Wade, Chuck Webster, Brandon Jackson and Ted Burleson.
The program is currently manned by Sides, Patrick Morrison and Ricky Berger.
"Words of Truth" is a 30-minute live broadcast that features death notices, church announcements, prayer requests and a daily sermon.
All lessons are Bible-based, and controversial topics are handled with care.
"We take local issues. We do speak our political views occasionally, like on bingo. We'll talk about gambling, but we won't mention anybody's name. We try to be very careful in always treating everybody with respect whether they are members of the Church of Christ or not," Sides said.
Recently, Sides spoke on the topic "Looking for Love." He used as his Scriptures 1 John 4:8, which says God is love, and 1 Corinthians 13, which is often referred to as the love chapter.
"Words of Truth" was on the air during the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks in New York City.
A plane struck the first World Trade Center tower at approximately 7:46 a.m. CST.
When a second plane struck the Twin Towers at 8:03 a.m., Chuck Webster, the "Words of Truth" speaker that morning, changed his sermon into a 30-minute prayer for the victims and their families, the nation and President George W. Bush.
After 62 years on local radio, "Words of Truth" can now be heard around the world at walkercountyradio.com and www.sixthavenuechurch.org.
It can also be heard each morning on AM 1240 WJLX.
Although the technology has changed, the men behind "Words of Truth" today have the same purpose as Nichols when he preached his first radio sermon -- serving the spiritual needs of Walker County residents.
"Our goal is to present a lesson that's heartwarming, life changing and soul saving," Sides said.
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Bulletin Article
"I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It"
The song entitled "I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It" is number one this week on Billboard's Pop chart. While lyrics like "I kissed a girl and I liked it. The taste of her cherry chapstick. I kissed a girl just to try it," may sound pretty innocent, the next line might really wake you up, "I hope my boyfriend don't mind it." The song is sung by a girl, Katy Perry. Actually this song is pretty tame compared to her 2007 release of "Ur So Gay." It didn't take Katy long to go from a "preacher's Kid" in the "Christian" music industry to this raunchy MTV/VH1 bill of fare.
The point of this article is to give further warning to parents and teens about what you listen to and how you allow it to influence you. Not only is our culture being filled with gay experimentation, but gay rights are being pushed militantly. The Zondervan company(Bible Publisher) has recently been sued by a man who contends the Bible has made his life miserable. With the state of Massachusetts approving "gay" marriages, the onslaught of pushing this kind of "alternate lifestyle" will likely continue to flourish.
We need to be aware of this push, not only in music, movies, TV, etc., but we need to know what the Bible says about such a lifestyle. Paul did not say it was an "alternate" lifestyle, but that it was an "unrighteous" lifestyle (Rom. 1:18). This is the way he described it, "Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due." (Romans 1:24-27 (NKJV).
In 1 Cor. 6:9-11 (NKJV) Paul also made it plain that practicing homosexuality was sinful, saying, "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Cor 6:9-11). Please note that Paul was not "Gay Bashing," as some would put it, but he offered that some of those in the church had practiced such, come to Christ, been washed, and were now "sanctified" and "justified." This must be our desire for all who have chosen this ungodly way of life. David Courington
The song entitled "I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It" is number one this week on Billboard's Pop chart. While lyrics like "I kissed a girl and I liked it. The taste of her cherry chapstick. I kissed a girl just to try it," may sound pretty innocent, the next line might really wake you up, "I hope my boyfriend don't mind it." The song is sung by a girl, Katy Perry. Actually this song is pretty tame compared to her 2007 release of "Ur So Gay." It didn't take Katy long to go from a "preacher's Kid" in the "Christian" music industry to this raunchy MTV/VH1 bill of fare.
The point of this article is to give further warning to parents and teens about what you listen to and how you allow it to influence you. Not only is our culture being filled with gay experimentation, but gay rights are being pushed militantly. The Zondervan company(Bible Publisher) has recently been sued by a man who contends the Bible has made his life miserable. With the state of Massachusetts approving "gay" marriages, the onslaught of pushing this kind of "alternate lifestyle" will likely continue to flourish.
We need to be aware of this push, not only in music, movies, TV, etc., but we need to know what the Bible says about such a lifestyle. Paul did not say it was an "alternate" lifestyle, but that it was an "unrighteous" lifestyle (Rom. 1:18). This is the way he described it, "Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due." (Romans 1:24-27 (NKJV).
In 1 Cor. 6:9-11 (NKJV) Paul also made it plain that practicing homosexuality was sinful, saying, "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God." (1 Cor 6:9-11). Please note that Paul was not "Gay Bashing," as some would put it, but he offered that some of those in the church had practiced such, come to Christ, been washed, and were now "sanctified" and "justified." This must be our desire for all who have chosen this ungodly way of life. David Courington
Relaxing in the Hammock
This is a great shot of Kim, Addi, and Lila from our Vacation at Ft. Morgan. You can see lots more at my Facebook page. Have a great day.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Our Blessings
The other day it occurred to me that on my worst day, I may have received more blessings than some people in this world do on their best day? Food in abundance- some go to bed hungry every night? A host of friends, when some have none. A super family that loves me dearly, while many are alone. A wonderful Savior and best friend, Jesus, from whose love I can never be separated. Thanks be to God for his abundant blessings. So much more than we could ever deserve.
Too Busy Summer
Who could believe that it is July 13 already? We have really been busy this summer. Glad to report that Mom is doing better. We had a good visit at Cherry Hill today. Dad even played his french harp a bit today. Yes, we have had a few vacations where at lot of things seemed to go wrong. But this one everything seemed to go right. We had a house about 20 miles from Gulf Shores at Ft Morgan. Along with Susan and I, Kim and Paul, Josh and Katie, and Daniel and Mandi went- And most important- Addi, Levi, Lila, and Hannah. Among other things we got to fish, play a round of golf, shop, rest in the hammock, read, play with the kids, and go to Pensacola to see the Blue Angels fly. It would be worth the trip to see them any time you get a chance. I will post some pictures later. Great to see our dear friends, Elaine Alexander and Martha Mullenix who recently moved to the area.
We had a great trip and it is great to be back home.
We had a great trip and it is great to be back home.
Monday, June 23, 2008
From the Woods to the City
We had a great week at camp last week. I could not believe that we did have internet access with our Verizon modem, but had little time to blog. The kids were great and the staff did a superb job. We did have a fine week. I posted several of the pictures on my Facebook page.
We didn't see any snakes or deer this year, but I almost got run over by 3 deer on Saturday after getting home. And it was right behind the Galleria. I went in an Exxon station to get gas, and hear a loud commotion right next to me. A deer had hit the window. 3 of them ran swiftly, right by the door down the sidewalk, almost hitting a fellow who was coming in the store. Imagine that. Susan said I was only a couple of seconds from being a headline in the Bham News. Get me out of the city and back to the woods.
Mom doesn't seem to be doing well. She is in Baptist Princeton. Pray for her.
We didn't see any snakes or deer this year, but I almost got run over by 3 deer on Saturday after getting home. And it was right behind the Galleria. I went in an Exxon station to get gas, and hear a loud commotion right next to me. A deer had hit the window. 3 of them ran swiftly, right by the door down the sidewalk, almost hitting a fellow who was coming in the store. Imagine that. Susan said I was only a couple of seconds from being a headline in the Bham News. Get me out of the city and back to the woods.
Mom doesn't seem to be doing well. She is in Baptist Princeton. Pray for her.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Job Site
Susan has a new "Job Site" this week. She is in Destin, Fl. attending the Nuts and Bolts seminar at Destin Middle School. And I got to go along for the ride and a little R & R. Frankly, this place(Surfside) is so nice, I feel like I am living like the other half. I actually played golf yesterday with a Texas oilman. Maybe it will rub off on me. I took this picture this morning in Destin. What a "Job Site".
Thursday, May 29, 2008
"No God, No Peace- Know God, Know Peace"
There have not been many bumper stickers that state more truth than the one above. The world looks in every nook and cranny for “World Peace.” It is like the girl hunting a “good” man in every bar, casino, and dive in town. The problem is not that she is not looking, it is that she is looking in all of the wrong places.
Without God, there can be no peace. He is rightly called the “God of peace” (Romans 15:33). One of the reasons why if there is “No God” then there is “No Peace,” is because without God there is no hope. Paul said in Ephesians 2:12, “that at that time you were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world.” What a horrible world it would be without the promises of God to trust that there will be tomorrow. John wrote of the hope of the saints, saying, “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." (Rev 21:4). Too, there is the peace that comes from a mind of contentment, free from the guilt of sin, knowing that God has wiped away all of our sin. Furthermore, there is more peace with others when we have the love that the Bible teaches. It is sinful lust that James said is the source of wars (James 4:1-3). No God, no peace.
But to know God is to know peace. What a blessing to be free from anxiety and the source of so many of our concerns. Paul said, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7). To know God is to know a peace that surpasses human understanding. This is one of God’s greatest gifts. The Psalmist said, “The LORD will give strength to His people; The LORD will bless His people with peace.” (Psalms 29:11) Do you know peace?
David Courington
Without God, there can be no peace. He is rightly called the “God of peace” (Romans 15:33). One of the reasons why if there is “No God” then there is “No Peace,” is because without God there is no hope. Paul said in Ephesians 2:12, “that at that time you were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world.” What a horrible world it would be without the promises of God to trust that there will be tomorrow. John wrote of the hope of the saints, saying, “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." (Rev 21:4). Too, there is the peace that comes from a mind of contentment, free from the guilt of sin, knowing that God has wiped away all of our sin. Furthermore, there is more peace with others when we have the love that the Bible teaches. It is sinful lust that James said is the source of wars (James 4:1-3). No God, no peace.
But to know God is to know peace. What a blessing to be free from anxiety and the source of so many of our concerns. Paul said, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7). To know God is to know a peace that surpasses human understanding. This is one of God’s greatest gifts. The Psalmist said, “The LORD will give strength to His people; The LORD will bless His people with peace.” (Psalms 29:11) Do you know peace?
David Courington
Beware of Quiet Children
Some people get upset when kids make lots of noise. The wise adult will begin to worry when there is no noise. Levi and Hannah had a fun Memorial Day, as you can see.
Monday, May 26, 2008
Just Chillin'
While we are reminded of the great sacrifices of those who have gone before us on Memorial Day,(or as Addi says, "Memorio Day") it is also great to have a day to just pretty much chill out.
The last couple of weeks proved pretty stressful, because of the busy time, appointing new church leaders and Mom's fall. With appointing new church elders and deacons, all went great. But some past experiences, as well as the experience of others have made me a little gun shy about it. We have 2 new elders at Sylvan Springs. I know that Marty Glenn and Mark Wylie will do a great job. They both have the knowledge, love for God and his people, and the heart to do it. 3 new deacons include Brian Maddox, Paul Kelsey, and Josh Courington. These guys are have already been taking a lead in the church and are hard workers. We are fortunate to have them. Congratulations to all of you guys.
Another factor in last weeks stress was Mom took a bad fall on Wednesday. A terrible knot on the head resulted, but a catscan showed no serious injury. Her face was about 75% black by Saturday. I have seen many serious car wreck victims that looked better, but thankfully there were no breaks. Actually, she and Dad seemed to be doing pretty good by weeks end.
The swimming pool is ready, the grands are coming over, pork chops and fish that Josh caught last week at the gulf are in the plans- just chillin' is great.
The last couple of weeks proved pretty stressful, because of the busy time, appointing new church leaders and Mom's fall. With appointing new church elders and deacons, all went great. But some past experiences, as well as the experience of others have made me a little gun shy about it. We have 2 new elders at Sylvan Springs. I know that Marty Glenn and Mark Wylie will do a great job. They both have the knowledge, love for God and his people, and the heart to do it. 3 new deacons include Brian Maddox, Paul Kelsey, and Josh Courington. These guys are have already been taking a lead in the church and are hard workers. We are fortunate to have them. Congratulations to all of you guys.
Another factor in last weeks stress was Mom took a bad fall on Wednesday. A terrible knot on the head resulted, but a catscan showed no serious injury. Her face was about 75% black by Saturday. I have seen many serious car wreck victims that looked better, but thankfully there were no breaks. Actually, she and Dad seemed to be doing pretty good by weeks end.
The swimming pool is ready, the grands are coming over, pork chops and fish that Josh caught last week at the gulf are in the plans- just chillin' is great.
Friday, May 09, 2008
Happy Mother's Day- What Is A Mother Worth?
Here is an article that I wrote for the bulletin this week.
(I thank God so much for my nurturing grandmothers, my loving Mom, my sacrificial mother in law, my children's wonderful mother, and my daughter and daughter in law, and all godly mothers who are(were)the most giving people that I know.)
A recent study by Salary.com as reported by AP found that if a mother could paid in dollars, she would make “a nifty sum of nearly $117,000 a year.” They took into account pay levels for ten job titles that she usually performs, including housekeeper, daycare teacher, van driver, psychologist, and CEO. The mother who works outside the home was estimated to get $68,000 for her “motherly duties.”
One interesting aspect of this theoretical salary is that most of her pay would be for overtime, since a typical week for a stay home mom would be 94.4 hours and 54.6 for working moms. This does not really surprise those of us who have been blessed with hard working mothers and wives. Even in the 60’s, my Mom did so much more than just the cleaning, cooking, and sewing that was often described. Today, with the increased demands on children in most every area, from school to sports, Mothers are not only “working,” but they are “overworking.”
This speculation about pay is interesting, but the more important worth of a mom lies beneath what she might be paid if her work was a business. I am reminded of what the apostle Paul told Titus, “the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things-- [4] that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” (Tit. 2:3-5)
Here we might ask, “What is a mother’s love worth?” Mothers will sacrifice for their children like no one else. Thinking back, I realize my Mother sometimes went over board in doing things for us. James and John’s mother went too far for them in Matthew 20:20-25 in asking that her sons might set on Jesus right and left hand when he ruled in his kingdom. Though she was wrong, most of us could show examples where our mothers went to bat for us, when no one else would. That is just how mothers are. But millions of children today are suffering, because they do not have a mother who really loves them. There is no substitute.
Then we ask, “What is a mother’s example worth?” In the text above, the discreet, chaste, reverent woman is God’s ideal. I could say so much good about my children’s mother, but I doubt anything could compare to the wonderful example that she has set for them. Those of us who had the good example of a godly mother should give thanks to God always for it. All mothers should set their sights on being the best example possible for their children. No other role model will be more important than this one.
Furthermore, “What is a mother’s teaching worth?” As the older women teach “good things,” it is handed down from generation to generation. It was no accident that Timothy had the same “genuine faith” that his grandmother Lois, and mother Eunice had (2 Tim. 1:5). He had known the Holy Scriptures “from a child.”(2 Tim. 3:15).
What is a mother worth? The real answer will only be revealed in eternity.
David Courington
(I thank God so much for my nurturing grandmothers, my loving Mom, my sacrificial mother in law, my children's wonderful mother, and my daughter and daughter in law, and all godly mothers who are(were)the most giving people that I know.)
A recent study by Salary.com as reported by AP found that if a mother could paid in dollars, she would make “a nifty sum of nearly $117,000 a year.” They took into account pay levels for ten job titles that she usually performs, including housekeeper, daycare teacher, van driver, psychologist, and CEO. The mother who works outside the home was estimated to get $68,000 for her “motherly duties.”
One interesting aspect of this theoretical salary is that most of her pay would be for overtime, since a typical week for a stay home mom would be 94.4 hours and 54.6 for working moms. This does not really surprise those of us who have been blessed with hard working mothers and wives. Even in the 60’s, my Mom did so much more than just the cleaning, cooking, and sewing that was often described. Today, with the increased demands on children in most every area, from school to sports, Mothers are not only “working,” but they are “overworking.”
This speculation about pay is interesting, but the more important worth of a mom lies beneath what she might be paid if her work was a business. I am reminded of what the apostle Paul told Titus, “the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things-- [4] that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.” (Tit. 2:3-5)
Here we might ask, “What is a mother’s love worth?” Mothers will sacrifice for their children like no one else. Thinking back, I realize my Mother sometimes went over board in doing things for us. James and John’s mother went too far for them in Matthew 20:20-25 in asking that her sons might set on Jesus right and left hand when he ruled in his kingdom. Though she was wrong, most of us could show examples where our mothers went to bat for us, when no one else would. That is just how mothers are. But millions of children today are suffering, because they do not have a mother who really loves them. There is no substitute.
Then we ask, “What is a mother’s example worth?” In the text above, the discreet, chaste, reverent woman is God’s ideal. I could say so much good about my children’s mother, but I doubt anything could compare to the wonderful example that she has set for them. Those of us who had the good example of a godly mother should give thanks to God always for it. All mothers should set their sights on being the best example possible for their children. No other role model will be more important than this one.
Furthermore, “What is a mother’s teaching worth?” As the older women teach “good things,” it is handed down from generation to generation. It was no accident that Timothy had the same “genuine faith” that his grandmother Lois, and mother Eunice had (2 Tim. 1:5). He had known the Holy Scriptures “from a child.”(2 Tim. 3:15).
What is a mother worth? The real answer will only be revealed in eternity.
David Courington
Sunday, May 04, 2008
Music Downloads
A couple of years ago I ordered a cheap MP3 player. The instructions were in Chinese, the music I downloaded to my computer from Walmart was license protected, and I never could figure out how to do much of anything with it. It was so complicated, I got frustrated and just gave up. I should have called a 5th grader.
I decided to try again and ordered a Sandisk player and got it day before yesterday. I joined Emusic yesterday and have had some success, even though they have already charged me for one song I didn't get. The music sounds great. Any suggestions of good places to download(esp. Bluegrass) or any tips would be welcomed.
I decided to try again and ordered a Sandisk player and got it day before yesterday. I joined Emusic yesterday and have had some success, even though they have already charged me for one song I didn't get. The music sounds great. Any suggestions of good places to download(esp. Bluegrass) or any tips would be welcomed.
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Update
Just a little update.
*The fishing expedition on Friday was lost of fun. We caught nothing in the morning, but had lots of fun with a bream bed in the afternoon. Never could locate any crappie. It was hot. We did see a deer swimming right beside us. And as usual, there were some funny moments. This time at the landing- As I got on the land out of the boat, my cell phone fell off in the water. It was right at the edge and I retrieved it quickly. Luckily, it was off and it worked the next day after drying out. Then we had a horrible time getting the boat on the trailer. The ramp(if you would call it that) was very rocky and uneven. I backed the trailer and James tried to drive to boat on to get it out. We made 3 or 4 attempts,and finally got it on and out of the water- with the boat motor still running. The keystone cops or three stooges probably couldn't have done a better job. But we did have fun.
*Mom and Dad and doing well. I visited with them yesterday and while there, Kim came in with Addi, Levi, and Lila. What a great dose of medicine for Mom and Dad! For me too!
*I have been in a gospel meeting this week at Quintown. Long time friend, Tommy Alford preaches there. Also, for those of you who know them, Jennifer recently had a miscarriage- Pray for her.
It has been a joy, and continues through tonight, though I have missed being at Sylvan Springs.
*Pam Glenn had to have an appendectomy yesterday. It hasn't been long since she had some other surgery. Pray for Pam.
*My dear sister in law, Mary, is still waiting for a liver transplant. She looks so healthy, but is having some rough days. Keep her in your prayers.
*I must get back to my sermon work. It has seemed like Monday morning, every day this week, probably because of the sinus problems I have been having. But it is a beautiful day.
*Ever wonder if it is worth the time it takes to blog? Here is a thought. Is it worth the time it takes to make new friends and keep up with old ones?
*If I haven't told you lately, I love you, and more importantly- God does too.
Happy blogging!
*The fishing expedition on Friday was lost of fun. We caught nothing in the morning, but had lots of fun with a bream bed in the afternoon. Never could locate any crappie. It was hot. We did see a deer swimming right beside us. And as usual, there were some funny moments. This time at the landing- As I got on the land out of the boat, my cell phone fell off in the water. It was right at the edge and I retrieved it quickly. Luckily, it was off and it worked the next day after drying out. Then we had a horrible time getting the boat on the trailer. The ramp(if you would call it that) was very rocky and uneven. I backed the trailer and James tried to drive to boat on to get it out. We made 3 or 4 attempts,and finally got it on and out of the water- with the boat motor still running. The keystone cops or three stooges probably couldn't have done a better job. But we did have fun.
*Mom and Dad and doing well. I visited with them yesterday and while there, Kim came in with Addi, Levi, and Lila. What a great dose of medicine for Mom and Dad! For me too!
*I have been in a gospel meeting this week at Quintown. Long time friend, Tommy Alford preaches there. Also, for those of you who know them, Jennifer recently had a miscarriage- Pray for her.
It has been a joy, and continues through tonight, though I have missed being at Sylvan Springs.
*Pam Glenn had to have an appendectomy yesterday. It hasn't been long since she had some other surgery. Pray for Pam.
*My dear sister in law, Mary, is still waiting for a liver transplant. She looks so healthy, but is having some rough days. Keep her in your prayers.
*I must get back to my sermon work. It has seemed like Monday morning, every day this week, probably because of the sinus problems I have been having. But it is a beautiful day.
*Ever wonder if it is worth the time it takes to blog? Here is a thought. Is it worth the time it takes to make new friends and keep up with old ones?
*If I haven't told you lately, I love you, and more importantly- God does too.
Happy blogging!
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Fishin' Friday
It doesn't happen too often, but there is great promise that tomorrow will find me lost on Lost Creek. I really don't care much if the bobber sinks or not, but I am anticipating a great dose of nature and relaxation with my good friend, James Copeland. Hope you have a great Friday!
Monday, April 14, 2008
Walkfest 2008
Just a reminder that this Friday night, April 18, is our annual Walkfest for Indian Creek Youth Camp. It will be in Jasper at the Walker High track. It is lots of fun, food, and a fundraiser for the camp. Sounds like the weather is going to warm up some for it. BBQ and other food will be available. Hope to see you there.
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Betty Garrison Passes
A dear friend and sister, Betty Garrison, passed away early this morning at St. Vincents Hosp. She loved the Lord, her family and church. Betty had a great country alto voice and loved to sing. Soon after her passing, Kent asked that I lead the family in a verse of one of her favorite songs, "When All of God's Singers Get Home." What a wonderful song and comforting thought that she is now singing in the very presence of God.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Yum,Yum
Dale Jenkins blog has a good discussion of the best places to eat. I know I don't need to be reading it, and have threatened to boycott. He mentioned the KFC at Hamilton, AL that has a buffet and it is fine. Also, Brooksies in Jackson,TN. which I have tried and it is good. Here are my 5-
1)Dale's Southern Grill in Birmingham on Hwy 31 just below the Galleria. The most extensive menu I have seen. They are moderately priced and have so many good things. The most recent I tried was pecan encrusted trout. I love the bran muffins and carrot souffle. It is like a dessert.
2)Big Bob Gibson in Decatur- the bbq- the white sauce is wonderful(and available at Walmart) Susan and I went last week while she was out of school. We are dieting so we decided we would split a BBQ filled potato. Believe me, both of us had plenty.
3)Fish Market in Birmingham(My all time favorite.)the fish- most any kind- Lemon Pepper Amberjack, grilled Mahi-Mahi, grilled redfish magic, shark steak- my mouth is watering and I am not even hungry.
4)Niki's West- Bham-the vegetables. One of the most unlikely locations for a successful restaurant in the world- but it continues to be a favorite of so many.
5)GW's Steakhouse in Hueytown-Bacon cheesburger- This is an old place that has recently been refurbed and was the Iceberg which was a haunt of all the Nascar guys. They have a great meat and 3, but that bacon cheesburger is unreal.
What are your favorites?
1)Dale's Southern Grill in Birmingham on Hwy 31 just below the Galleria. The most extensive menu I have seen. They are moderately priced and have so many good things. The most recent I tried was pecan encrusted trout. I love the bran muffins and carrot souffle. It is like a dessert.
2)Big Bob Gibson in Decatur- the bbq- the white sauce is wonderful(and available at Walmart) Susan and I went last week while she was out of school. We are dieting so we decided we would split a BBQ filled potato. Believe me, both of us had plenty.
3)Fish Market in Birmingham(My all time favorite.)the fish- most any kind- Lemon Pepper Amberjack, grilled Mahi-Mahi, grilled redfish magic, shark steak- my mouth is watering and I am not even hungry.
4)Niki's West- Bham-the vegetables. One of the most unlikely locations for a successful restaurant in the world- but it continues to be a favorite of so many.
5)GW's Steakhouse in Hueytown-Bacon cheesburger- This is an old place that has recently been refurbed and was the Iceberg which was a haunt of all the Nascar guys. They have a great meat and 3, but that bacon cheesburger is unreal.
What are your favorites?
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Lads To Leaders 2008
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Our congregation at Sylvan Springs has certainly benefit from participating in Lads To Leaders for the past 9 years. Each year we have seen our youth grow and our adults benefit from helping as well. In this picture, notice how much more hair I have than Billy and Josh.
Monday, March 24, 2008
A Merry Heart
I think this blog needs a little more humor lately. Last night was one of those moments at Sylvan Springs that you don't forget for a while. It was singing night and one of our well meaning deacons was going to brag on our singing. His comparison was that he had attended a church twice as large while visiting away yesterday morning and the singing was still not as loud or spirited as ours. Instead of saying he had been at "________ Church of Christ" which was the case, he said he had attended "__________ Assembly of God". He didn't realize what he had said, but everyone else did. I doubt I was the only one who had to wipe his eyes from getting so tickled. It was the last song before I had to extend the invitation and I told some of our folks I should receive an award for regaining my composure. I was reminded of a time when I was preaching on the crucifixion and in my most dramatic tone said, "And they placed a "thrown of corns upon his head."
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Cold Camp-
March is an interesting month in Alabama. One day it snows, the next it is 75 degrees. I took these pictures at Indian Creek Youth Camp on Saturday. The last one is a picture of my dear friend and brother, L.T. Gurganus. He does mission work in Russia and Ukraine.
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Ode To Mental Illness
Yesterday the house passed a bill to require insurance companies that offer coverage for mental illness to make it equal with that of physical illness. In other words, no more "coverage for a sick stomach-80 or 100%", and "Coverage for a sick mind- 50% or less" The senate passed a different version of the bill in September. This is long overdue in my opinion. People seldom, if ever, make a conscious choice to be mentally ill. It is simply ignorance to think so. While it may be true that some people bring certain things upon themselves, it is no more that way with mental illness than physical. Mentally ill people are some of the world's most needy, and often the most neglected. Here is a poem I wrote that has some food for thought.
No Man’s Land
Not understood, no helping hand,
Because I’m out in “No Man’s Land,”
I can no longer think so good,
If I had my wish, I surely would.
One breaks a leg or hit’s his head,
Friend’s come around and make his bed,
They bring a dish, they understand,
But not me, I am out in “No Man’s Land,”
I did not choose to be mentally ill,
I wish they could cure it with a pill,
Today is hard, tomorrow worse,
Some people think I have a curse.
I hurt inside, and no one’s there,
And it’s not really that they do not care,
It’s rather that they do not know,
Just how to help, concern to show.
Friend have no fear, just come and stand,
By my side, lend me your hand.
I’m still inside where I’ve always been,
Waiting for comfort from a dear old friend.
Just be there for me, as I would for you,
Be kind, soft words, loving and true.
Don’t say too much, I won’t understand,
Because I am out in “No Man’s Land.”
I may not even know that you are there,
I may not respond, as if you care,
But you will receive a crown one day,
For a “little one” you went out of your way.
You showed your love, as Jesus bid,
You helped me, more than you thought you did.
You took time to try to understand.
What it’s like to be in “No Man’s Land.”
It happens to more than just a few,
I pray it doesn’t happen to you.
Who knows just where tomorrow you’ll be,
Perhaps in “No Man’s Land” with me,
By David Courington
No Man’s Land
Not understood, no helping hand,
Because I’m out in “No Man’s Land,”
I can no longer think so good,
If I had my wish, I surely would.
One breaks a leg or hit’s his head,
Friend’s come around and make his bed,
They bring a dish, they understand,
But not me, I am out in “No Man’s Land,”
I did not choose to be mentally ill,
I wish they could cure it with a pill,
Today is hard, tomorrow worse,
Some people think I have a curse.
I hurt inside, and no one’s there,
And it’s not really that they do not care,
It’s rather that they do not know,
Just how to help, concern to show.
Friend have no fear, just come and stand,
By my side, lend me your hand.
I’m still inside where I’ve always been,
Waiting for comfort from a dear old friend.
Just be there for me, as I would for you,
Be kind, soft words, loving and true.
Don’t say too much, I won’t understand,
Because I am out in “No Man’s Land.”
I may not even know that you are there,
I may not respond, as if you care,
But you will receive a crown one day,
For a “little one” you went out of your way.
You showed your love, as Jesus bid,
You helped me, more than you thought you did.
You took time to try to understand.
What it’s like to be in “No Man’s Land.”
It happens to more than just a few,
I pray it doesn’t happen to you.
Who knows just where tomorrow you’ll be,
Perhaps in “No Man’s Land” with me,
By David Courington
Monday, March 03, 2008
Weight Loss Helps
Since I broached the weight loss subject with someone else's article, I will give a few tips of my own. I have lost a lot of weight in my time. Unfortunately, I have gained back more. But one bright spot that I read some time ago is that every time you fail, you learn something new that puts you closer to success. That sounds good anyway. I have found a few things recently that have made it easier for me, so maybe they will help you. If you have some tips, leave them as a comment.
It is common to hear, "Eat Breakfast," but until recently, I have not heeded it much. One reason is that it is often inconvenient to fix something. 2 things have helped. One is whole grain cereal. When I eat granola or another whole grain type, I am less hungry later on in the day. Another is those delicious Quaker Oatmeal to Go bars. They are really moist and tasty. Great with a cup of coffee.
I have always liked vegetables but again, it is not always simple to prepare them for a quick meal. In comes the Bird's Eye "SteamFresh" line of microwave vegetables(We have tried some others that were not as good). Nothing could be simpler, they are very low calorie, and delicious.
Need a sweet snack? I have tried a lot of granola/grain bars that were supposed to be good for you, but they were not very good. Fiber One bars(I have tried Caramel and Chocolate) are unbelievably tasty. They are only 140 calories, so if you have a sweet tooth, indulge.
Grilled Zuccini is great. We have a little indoor electric grill that does a good job with it.
Salads are sometimes a great choice, but you have to watch the add-ons, especially the dressing. I got a side salad at McDonald's the other day and they gave me 2 small packets of blue chesse dressing. I could not believe they were 180 calories each(and calories do count, whether you count them or not!) 2 packets of that is a meal by itself. But now for my favorite. It didn't even sound good to me the first time I tried it, but Ken's Lite Raspberry Vinagrette is fantastic. Try it and see.
Happy Dieting!(And that is what it is and always will be. Those sophisticated, too highly educated folks who tell you that it is not a diet, but an eating plan, are off the mark. What you eat is your diet. That is why they call people who specialize in such things dieticians.)
It is common to hear, "Eat Breakfast," but until recently, I have not heeded it much. One reason is that it is often inconvenient to fix something. 2 things have helped. One is whole grain cereal. When I eat granola or another whole grain type, I am less hungry later on in the day. Another is those delicious Quaker Oatmeal to Go bars. They are really moist and tasty. Great with a cup of coffee.
I have always liked vegetables but again, it is not always simple to prepare them for a quick meal. In comes the Bird's Eye "SteamFresh" line of microwave vegetables(We have tried some others that were not as good). Nothing could be simpler, they are very low calorie, and delicious.
Need a sweet snack? I have tried a lot of granola/grain bars that were supposed to be good for you, but they were not very good. Fiber One bars(I have tried Caramel and Chocolate) are unbelievably tasty. They are only 140 calories, so if you have a sweet tooth, indulge.
Grilled Zuccini is great. We have a little indoor electric grill that does a good job with it.
Salads are sometimes a great choice, but you have to watch the add-ons, especially the dressing. I got a side salad at McDonald's the other day and they gave me 2 small packets of blue chesse dressing. I could not believe they were 180 calories each(and calories do count, whether you count them or not!) 2 packets of that is a meal by itself. But now for my favorite. It didn't even sound good to me the first time I tried it, but Ken's Lite Raspberry Vinagrette is fantastic. Try it and see.
Happy Dieting!(And that is what it is and always will be. Those sophisticated, too highly educated folks who tell you that it is not a diet, but an eating plan, are off the mark. What you eat is your diet. That is why they call people who specialize in such things dieticians.)
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Warning! Straight Talk About Weight Loss
Yes, I along with several of my friends are working to lose weight. No, it is not is not easy, but it is needed. I came across this article on some Aussie's blog and would give him credit if he had given his name:
"Living in Fat City
If you live in Australia, the US, the UK, Canada or New Zealand, then you live in the same place as me; Fat City. Fat City of course, being more of a collective mindset, and a culture of eating too much and moving too little, than any geographical location, or ‘literal’ place. And while it’s not a literal place, it is very real. If you know what I mean.
The weight of the average Australian increases by about 0.4kg (1lb) per year, every year, and it’s a pretty similar figure in most Western countries. It’s predicted that Australia (where I live) will be a totally obese population by 2050. There’s a thought. What an achievement. This is the forecast, despite the fact that we are now more educated, more informed and more aware, than we’ve ever been before. The truth is, in 2008 we are constantly bombarded with more and more information and education about diet, lifestyle, exercise, obesity, general health and all its variables, yet still, we grow.
As an Exercise Scientist, observer of humanity, and ex-fat bloke, there are plenty of things which fascinate me about living in Fat City (the culture, the habits, the behaviors, the thinking, the excuses, the lies, the marketing, the trends, the media), but here’s my short list:
1. We’ve never been more informed, educated, resourced or equipped to combat obesity, yet we’ve never been fatter. We live in the information age, yet we do nothing with it. I’m amused by those who suggest that obesity is primarily an education problem, when in reality, it is (for the majority) a self-control problem. Self control: yes, that crazy, outdated notion I’ve spoken of many times before. We are inundated with education but we choose not to learn. Real ‘learning’ would have resulted in a large-scale positive change in behavior, and of course, decline in obesity levels. It hasn’t. In fact, if there was a positive correlation between the increase in education and the decline of global obesity, then we would see virtually no obesity at all. But… if we wanted to be cheeky and use ’selective science’ (as many ‘experts’ do), we could actually conclude that the increase in education may have resulted in the increase in obesity. After all, there is a direct relationship: more education, more obesity. Yes I’m being sarcastic, but you understand my point. When it comes to diet and exercise, we know what to do, but we don’t do what we know.
2. I am constantly amazed at our ability (as a society) to complicate the simple. How many more books, programs and breakthrough weight-loss discoveries do we need? Really? Here’s a wacky concept, increase energy expenditure (exercise, general activity) and decrease energy intake (stop eating so much crap). A little scientific I know, but hey, it just might work. Of course it’s simple, but it requires genuine and consistent effort. Simple, of course, not to be confused with ‘easy’. And therein lies the problem. Which leads me to point three.
3. Our obsession with the quick fix. We don’t wanna work for those results. We want someone or something to do it for us. We are precious and lazy. We are addicted to the shortcut. Give me the pill, powder, potion, product or surgeon that will make me beautiful. I am allergic to sweat and hard work it’s so ‘1985′. We are a culture obsessed with ‘easy’ and sometimes creating amazing requires a little effort. Or a lot. And we hate that. Sorry about that. I’ll try and change it.
4. We love playing the ‘blame game’. We would rather justify, rationalize, explain and blame someone or something for our obesity, than take complete responsibility for our fat selves. Of course it’s not our fault. We are poor victims of situations, circumstances and genetics. So not fair. If what we do to our body (lifestyle, food, exercise) is the biggest influence on our level of fitness and fatness (which it is), then obesity is typically the result of poor decision making, rather than poor genetics. Even people with poor genetics can get in great shape, if they work with their genetics and manipulate the variables the right way.
5. I laugh when people get grumpy at me for telling the truth; what they don’t want to hear.“Okay John, it will only take two weeks to lose that hundred pounds and that huge gut you built over the last thirty years, and yes, it will be easy, fun and painless. You will definitely look incredible by next Tuesday. Wednesday, tops. In fact, just leave your body here; I’ll do it for you.”
6. I marvel that people pay thousands of dollars per year to walk/run on a treadmill with a built in TV, radio and fan, when they could get the same physiological benefit (or better) heading out their front door and returning thirty minutes later. No driving to the gym, no petrol costs, no waiting for machines, no travel time.
7. Our inability to finish things. We start jogging. We stop. We go on a diet. We go off it. We join a gym. We go five times. We make resolutions. We don’t follow through. We lose fat. We regain it. We start. We stop. We get fit. We get unfit. We operate on emotion. We always find a ‘reason’ to give up. We experience momentary motivation, but we never truly commit. Real commitment (”I will do this no matter what”) creates life-long change, not temporary weight loss or occasional fitness. We’re great at starting, crap at finishing.
8. The Victim. “But you don’t understand my life, body, time restraints, problems, situation, history, challenges, injuries, medical conditions.” Your problem isn’t your body; it’s your thinking. Get your mind in shape and your body will follow."
(From an interesting site- www.lifehack.org)
Now that is straight talk. I needed to hear it. Tell me what you think.
"Living in Fat City
If you live in Australia, the US, the UK, Canada or New Zealand, then you live in the same place as me; Fat City. Fat City of course, being more of a collective mindset, and a culture of eating too much and moving too little, than any geographical location, or ‘literal’ place. And while it’s not a literal place, it is very real. If you know what I mean.
The weight of the average Australian increases by about 0.4kg (1lb) per year, every year, and it’s a pretty similar figure in most Western countries. It’s predicted that Australia (where I live) will be a totally obese population by 2050. There’s a thought. What an achievement. This is the forecast, despite the fact that we are now more educated, more informed and more aware, than we’ve ever been before. The truth is, in 2008 we are constantly bombarded with more and more information and education about diet, lifestyle, exercise, obesity, general health and all its variables, yet still, we grow.
As an Exercise Scientist, observer of humanity, and ex-fat bloke, there are plenty of things which fascinate me about living in Fat City (the culture, the habits, the behaviors, the thinking, the excuses, the lies, the marketing, the trends, the media), but here’s my short list:
1. We’ve never been more informed, educated, resourced or equipped to combat obesity, yet we’ve never been fatter. We live in the information age, yet we do nothing with it. I’m amused by those who suggest that obesity is primarily an education problem, when in reality, it is (for the majority) a self-control problem. Self control: yes, that crazy, outdated notion I’ve spoken of many times before. We are inundated with education but we choose not to learn. Real ‘learning’ would have resulted in a large-scale positive change in behavior, and of course, decline in obesity levels. It hasn’t. In fact, if there was a positive correlation between the increase in education and the decline of global obesity, then we would see virtually no obesity at all. But… if we wanted to be cheeky and use ’selective science’ (as many ‘experts’ do), we could actually conclude that the increase in education may have resulted in the increase in obesity. After all, there is a direct relationship: more education, more obesity. Yes I’m being sarcastic, but you understand my point. When it comes to diet and exercise, we know what to do, but we don’t do what we know.
2. I am constantly amazed at our ability (as a society) to complicate the simple. How many more books, programs and breakthrough weight-loss discoveries do we need? Really? Here’s a wacky concept, increase energy expenditure (exercise, general activity) and decrease energy intake (stop eating so much crap). A little scientific I know, but hey, it just might work. Of course it’s simple, but it requires genuine and consistent effort. Simple, of course, not to be confused with ‘easy’. And therein lies the problem. Which leads me to point three.
3. Our obsession with the quick fix. We don’t wanna work for those results. We want someone or something to do it for us. We are precious and lazy. We are addicted to the shortcut. Give me the pill, powder, potion, product or surgeon that will make me beautiful. I am allergic to sweat and hard work it’s so ‘1985′. We are a culture obsessed with ‘easy’ and sometimes creating amazing requires a little effort. Or a lot. And we hate that. Sorry about that. I’ll try and change it.
4. We love playing the ‘blame game’. We would rather justify, rationalize, explain and blame someone or something for our obesity, than take complete responsibility for our fat selves. Of course it’s not our fault. We are poor victims of situations, circumstances and genetics. So not fair. If what we do to our body (lifestyle, food, exercise) is the biggest influence on our level of fitness and fatness (which it is), then obesity is typically the result of poor decision making, rather than poor genetics. Even people with poor genetics can get in great shape, if they work with their genetics and manipulate the variables the right way.
5. I laugh when people get grumpy at me for telling the truth; what they don’t want to hear.“Okay John, it will only take two weeks to lose that hundred pounds and that huge gut you built over the last thirty years, and yes, it will be easy, fun and painless. You will definitely look incredible by next Tuesday. Wednesday, tops. In fact, just leave your body here; I’ll do it for you.”
6. I marvel that people pay thousands of dollars per year to walk/run on a treadmill with a built in TV, radio and fan, when they could get the same physiological benefit (or better) heading out their front door and returning thirty minutes later. No driving to the gym, no petrol costs, no waiting for machines, no travel time.
7. Our inability to finish things. We start jogging. We stop. We go on a diet. We go off it. We join a gym. We go five times. We make resolutions. We don’t follow through. We lose fat. We regain it. We start. We stop. We get fit. We get unfit. We operate on emotion. We always find a ‘reason’ to give up. We experience momentary motivation, but we never truly commit. Real commitment (”I will do this no matter what”) creates life-long change, not temporary weight loss or occasional fitness. We’re great at starting, crap at finishing.
8. The Victim. “But you don’t understand my life, body, time restraints, problems, situation, history, challenges, injuries, medical conditions.” Your problem isn’t your body; it’s your thinking. Get your mind in shape and your body will follow."
(From an interesting site- www.lifehack.org)
Now that is straight talk. I needed to hear it. Tell me what you think.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Church Bulletins- Always Good For A Laugh
I have seen many lists of Bulletin Bloopers and always get a laugh from them. My friend, Ricky Burger, sent me this list. It had some old ones but a couple I had not seen. Consider the following:
The Fasting & Prayer Conference includes meals.
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The sermon this morning: "Jesus Walks on the Water.." The sermon tonight: "Searching for Jesus."
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Ladies, don't forget the rummage sale. It's a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Bring your husbands.
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The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been cancelled due to a conflict.
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Don't let worry kill you off - let the Church help.
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Miss Charlene Mason sang "I will not pass this way again," giving obvious pleasure to the congregation.
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For those of you who have children and don't know it, we have a nursery downstairs.
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The Rector will preach his farewell message after which the choir will sing: "Break Forth Into Joy."
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Irving Benson and Jessie Carter were married on October 24 in the church. So ends a friendship that began in their school days.
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At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be "What Is Hell?" Come early and listen to our choir practice.
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Please place your donation in the envelope along with the deceased person you want remembered.
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The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.
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Potluck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM - prayer and medication to follow...
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The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind. They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.
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This evening at 7 PM there will be hymn singing in the park across from the Church. Bring a blanket and come prepared to sin.
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The pastor would appreciate it if the ladies of the congregation would lend him their electric girdles for the pancake breakfast next Sunday.
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Low Self Esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.
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The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeare's Hamlet in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this tragedy.
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(And my personal favorite-DC)
Weight Watchers will meet at 7 PM at the First Presbyterian Church. Please use large double door at the side entrance.
The Fasting & Prayer Conference includes meals.
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The sermon this morning: "Jesus Walks on the Water.." The sermon tonight: "Searching for Jesus."
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Ladies, don't forget the rummage sale. It's a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Bring your husbands.
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The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been cancelled due to a conflict.
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Don't let worry kill you off - let the Church help.
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Miss Charlene Mason sang "I will not pass this way again," giving obvious pleasure to the congregation.
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For those of you who have children and don't know it, we have a nursery downstairs.
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The Rector will preach his farewell message after which the choir will sing: "Break Forth Into Joy."
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Irving Benson and Jessie Carter were married on October 24 in the church. So ends a friendship that began in their school days.
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At the evening service tonight, the sermon topic will be "What Is Hell?" Come early and listen to our choir practice.
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Please place your donation in the envelope along with the deceased person you want remembered.
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The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment and gracious hostility.
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Potluck supper Sunday at 5:00 PM - prayer and medication to follow...
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The ladies of the Church have cast off clothing of every kind. They may be seen in the basement on Friday afternoon.
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This evening at 7 PM there will be hymn singing in the park across from the Church. Bring a blanket and come prepared to sin.
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The pastor would appreciate it if the ladies of the congregation would lend him their electric girdles for the pancake breakfast next Sunday.
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Low Self Esteem Support Group will meet Thursday at 7 PM. Please use the back door.
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The eighth-graders will be presenting Shakespeare's Hamlet in the Church basement Friday at 7 PM. The congregation is invited to attend this tragedy.
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(And my personal favorite-DC)
Weight Watchers will meet at 7 PM at the First Presbyterian Church. Please use large double door at the side entrance.
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Vanity Plates- New Level of "Stupit"?
"Stupit" is as "stupit" does. In case you are wondering, "stupit" is just one class above "stupid". I have long lamented the practice of some of my fellow Alabamians who lay out $50 for a specialized license plate that spells something that no one understands. It seems too much to me to spend $50 for a War Eagle or a Roll Tide. But to pay $50 for "RolTid" and "WrEgle". Give me a break. That $50 will buy the wife and I 2 trips to Logan's for a small steak or if we stretch it, 3 trips to Cracker Barrel for breakfast. Better yet, it would feed several hungry children or clothe one or two at a thrift store. But now some of those oil rich Arabs have topped the "stupitity" of my cousins and friends in Alabama. The United Arab Emirates started auctioning off licence plates last May. A guy by the name of "Saeed Khouri" bought the plate carrying the single digit "1". He remarked, "I bought it because it's the best number,I bought it because I want to be the best in the world." The price?
$14 million dollars! No, in my opinion he ain't "stupit", he's "stupid," and then some.
$14 million dollars! No, in my opinion he ain't "stupit", he's "stupid," and then some.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Cold In Alabama
If you don't like the weather, stay around until tomorrow. Our weather in the Birmingham area usually does not stay the same for long. We had a 70+ degree day or two last week, but yesterday brought snow flurries and last night was cold. Todau it is approaching 60 for Valentine's day. Spring is on the way. Yea.
The picture is of our dog Bandit, made yesterday morning on the deck. I think he likes the cold. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Friday, February 01, 2008
Bobby Norris, My Dear Friend, Passes Away
This morning I was awakened at 4:15 with the news that my dear friend, Bobby Norris, had passed away. I first met Bob when he preached at Hatt Church of Christ near Parrish. He was a Sand Mountain country boy for sure. His outstanding humble character, quick wit, kind ways and great sense of humor will last in my memory. Our friendship grew quickly and lasted long. It is not over, just changed. I will have one more dear one on the other side to greet me when I get there.
He and Charlene were so close, I know it will be hard on her. His girls loved him dearly. Bob was living in Albertville and preaching for the Alder Springs church, his home congregation. He passed away at home last night about midnight. He recently found out that he had pulmonary hypertention and was trying to get an appointment with a specialist in the field.
The visitation will be on Monday(Feb 4) night from 5:30- 9:00 at Adams Funeral Home in Albertville, Al. The funeral will be on Tuesday at 2:00 p.m. (with a viewing from 1-2) at the Alder Springs Church of Christ in Albertville, AL.
He and Charlene were so close, I know it will be hard on her. His girls loved him dearly. Bob was living in Albertville and preaching for the Alder Springs church, his home congregation. He passed away at home last night about midnight. He recently found out that he had pulmonary hypertention and was trying to get an appointment with a specialist in the field.
The visitation will be on Monday(Feb 4) night from 5:30- 9:00 at Adams Funeral Home in Albertville, Al. The funeral will be on Tuesday at 2:00 p.m. (with a viewing from 1-2) at the Alder Springs Church of Christ in Albertville, AL.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
A Mind Is A TERRIBLE Thing To Waste
They say it is a good character trait if you can laugh at yourself. Sometimes I just have to, or I would cry. While watching the local TV news night before last, they showed the picture of a school in Tuscaloosa where some event had happened. The view was the front of the building which included the school sign which read:
"NO SCHOOL MILK DAY- 1/21"
They showed this picture a second time and I wondered out loud to Susan, "Why would a school have a day with no milk? That just makes no sense to me!"
With a really big chuckle, Susan replied, "Honey, the sign said, "NO SCHOOL 'MLK'(i.e. Martin Luther King) DAY 1/21".
Well, I only missed it by one letter.
"NO SCHOOL MILK DAY- 1/21"
They showed this picture a second time and I wondered out loud to Susan, "Why would a school have a day with no milk? That just makes no sense to me!"
With a really big chuckle, Susan replied, "Honey, the sign said, "NO SCHOOL 'MLK'(i.e. Martin Luther King) DAY 1/21".
Well, I only missed it by one letter.
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
A Parent's Example
"Every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example instead of his advice"
I couldn't find the source for that quote, but what a good one. The 3 most important essentials for being good parents- example, example, example.
Another good anonymous quote along these lines is this one,
“He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.”
Whatever the position or place of leadership- church, home, work- nothing is more important than setting a good example.
Think about it. If you smoke, you children are very likely to do so. If you curse, junior won't be far behind. If you are unkind to the spouse, just watch the children and see how they treat your mate.
But on a positive note. If you do set a good example, it will be much easier to get them to do what they should. Remember- they want to be like you!
I couldn't find the source for that quote, but what a good one. The 3 most important essentials for being good parents- example, example, example.
Another good anonymous quote along these lines is this one,
“He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.”
Whatever the position or place of leadership- church, home, work- nothing is more important than setting a good example.
Think about it. If you smoke, you children are very likely to do so. If you curse, junior won't be far behind. If you are unkind to the spouse, just watch the children and see how they treat your mate.
But on a positive note. If you do set a good example, it will be much easier to get them to do what they should. Remember- they want to be like you!
Too Sick To Preach
Last Thursday I began to have symptoms of a stomach virus which I thought would be of the 24 hour variety. It turned into about a 4-5 day bout with fever, body aches, and all sorts of symptoms. My stomach just now seems to be returning to normal and my energy level is still a bit off. The worst thing is that I missed my preaching appointments last weekend. I was to teach a class(two) at a Youth Rally at 9th Avenue Church of Christ in Haleyville on Saturday. Believe it or not, this was the first time in 32 years of preaching that Susan and I can remember I ever missed an out of town appointment, and only about the 3rd or 4th time that I missed a regular Sunday. God has blessed me with good health, far better than I deserve. I really missed you Sylvan Springs folks Sunday, but appreciate Bro. Spivey and Marty for filling in.
On a positive note, it did get me off to a good start on my diet that I had been planning for the New Year. But I hope I don't lose any more weight that way!!!
On a positive note, it did get me off to a good start on my diet that I had been planning for the New Year. But I hope I don't lose any more weight that way!!!
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year to those who are still reading my "seldom updated" blog. I do hope to do better in the new year. Anyway, here are a few random updates:
Exposure Camp
On Dec 27-30 Susan and I went with a group from Sylvan Springs(17 of us) to Huntsville to Exposure Camp. It was at the Embassy Suites(Sweet!) The program was fantastic and I take my hat off the the board that did a wonderful job of planning. It was very enriching for adults and teens alike. I am already looking forward to next time.
Mom and Dad-They are both at Cherry Hill Healthcare and doing some better. I am very thankful for the caring staff there. They do a great job.
Mary- We found out last week that she was 6th on the list. Her liver transplant could be any time. Pray for her.
Bill Ward's Mother- I talked to Glenda last night and Bill's mother, Alma Ward, is very low. She has lung cancer. Pray for her and her family.
Funeral- I am to conduct the funeral today of Nell Graham. I don't know her well, but am very thankful that she decided to make things right with God recently. That is the only thing that is important to her now. What is important to you? Her's is the first funeral that I will attend this year, and it almost certainly won't be the last. Death plays no favorites, it takes no holidays, it does not discriminate regarding age, sex, national origin- it will come to me one day, unannounced, as it will to you. My prayer is that I will live every day this year as if it were my last, it might be.
I love you!- Whether you are an old friend or a new one, a dear friend or a casual acquaintance, a family member or a stranger, I love you. Everyone needs to hear it regularly, and everyone needs to say it, regularly. What a great way to start the year and every day of the year. Or to end it.
God Loves You! So much that he sent his son to die for you! Remind yourself often and others, as well.
Exposure Camp
On Dec 27-30 Susan and I went with a group from Sylvan Springs(17 of us) to Huntsville to Exposure Camp. It was at the Embassy Suites(Sweet!) The program was fantastic and I take my hat off the the board that did a wonderful job of planning. It was very enriching for adults and teens alike. I am already looking forward to next time.
Mom and Dad-They are both at Cherry Hill Healthcare and doing some better. I am very thankful for the caring staff there. They do a great job.
Mary- We found out last week that she was 6th on the list. Her liver transplant could be any time. Pray for her.
Bill Ward's Mother- I talked to Glenda last night and Bill's mother, Alma Ward, is very low. She has lung cancer. Pray for her and her family.
Funeral- I am to conduct the funeral today of Nell Graham. I don't know her well, but am very thankful that she decided to make things right with God recently. That is the only thing that is important to her now. What is important to you? Her's is the first funeral that I will attend this year, and it almost certainly won't be the last. Death plays no favorites, it takes no holidays, it does not discriminate regarding age, sex, national origin- it will come to me one day, unannounced, as it will to you. My prayer is that I will live every day this year as if it were my last, it might be.
I love you!- Whether you are an old friend or a new one, a dear friend or a casual acquaintance, a family member or a stranger, I love you. Everyone needs to hear it regularly, and everyone needs to say it, regularly. What a great way to start the year and every day of the year. Or to end it.
God Loves You! So much that he sent his son to die for you! Remind yourself often and others, as well.
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